my Capricorn bf disappeared on me

I am so confused!! I am a Scorpio who got out of a horrible relationship with a cancer in January n in July I met this AMAZING Capricorn man. He's been nothing but good to me..we haven't even had any major arguments. We made plans about a month ago for him to move in with me at the end of December until May when he has to relocate. He said "I love u" first months ago and his actions show it as well. I lost my car and he was there to take me to work everyday until I got my car..that night (nov 30) is the last time I've seen him. After that there was a lack of communication on his end but he also took a second job so I understand why but one night he was suppose to come over and no call text or anything to let me know that he wouldn't be able to..I told him how I felt (just send a text to say u can't make it! How hard is that?!) he said "I'm sorry I promise i won't do it again" then the next day he disappeared...he won't answer my texts but his read receipts are on so he's alive...he won't answer my calls but when I called him from another area code, he answered n when I started talking he hung up on me! His only excuse b4 the disappearance has been that he wants this Christmas to be memorable for us but it's going on 3 weeks since I've seen him and 1 week since we've spoken..so now idk what to do bc my heart is hurting bc he just won't talk to me at all so I feel like it's me!

Will he come around? Did I push him away with my texts asking n pleading him to just talk to me?! Should I just go on with my life? What do I do bc I love this guy a lot n I'd hate to just throw it all away but I also don't want to b sitting in silence waiting on this "memorable" Christmas

1 week isn't that long. Be a little more patient

Perhaps he's shy or demur to confidently express his true feelings [uncontrollably raging within] ....

Capricorns are known for brooding over information/data, even that they may make rational decisions [only], yet often hesitate regarding sharing/expressing their feelings/emotions.

Posted by Queenie11
I am so confused!! I am a Scorpio who got out of a horrible relationship with a cancer in January n in July I met this AMAZING Capricorn man. He's been nothing but good to me..we haven't even had any major arguments. We made plans about a month ago for him to move in with me at the end of December until May when he has to relocate. He said "I love u" first months ago and his actions show it as well. I lost my car and he was there to take me to work everyday until I got my car..that night (nov 30) is the last time I've seen him. After that there was a lack of communication on his end but he also took a second job so I understand why but one night he was suppose to come over and no call text or anything to let me know that he wouldn't be able to..I told him how I felt (just send a text to say u can't make it! How hard is that?!) he said "I'm sorry I promise i won't do it again" then the next day he disappeared...he won't answer my texts but his read receipts are on so he's alive...he won't answer my calls but when I called him from another area code, he answered n when I started talking he hung up on me! His only excuse b4 the disappearance has been that he wants this Christmas to be memorable for us but it's going on 3 weeks since I've seen him and 1 week since we've spoken..so now idk what to do bc my heart is hurting bc he just won't talk to me at all so I feel like it's me!

Will he come around? Did I push him away with my texts asking n pleading him to just talk to me?! Should I just go on with my life? What do I do bc I love this guy a lot n I'd hate to just throw it all away but I also don't want to b sitting in silence waiting on this "memorable" Christmas

There's clearly another girl in the picture - forget about him and cut him off. You deserve better and you won't get "better" while acting like a doormat for him to return to as he pleases after such a messed up disappearing act

He is 26 I'm 29..I'm just confused af bc this guy did everything for me. He had a man2man convo with my son's father, he's met my family n basically shit that ppl don't do unless they plan on being in someone's life for a long time just to disappear like he was never there. I've contemplated on going to his house n trying to talk in person but I just don't see the point in that either. My feelings are definitely hurt but I guess I need to just move on

Posted by Queenie11
He is 26 I'm 29..I'm just confused af bc this guy did everything for me. He had a man2man convo with my son's father, he's met my family n basically shit that ppl don't do unless they plan on being in someone's life for a long time just to disappear like he was never there. I've contemplated on going to his house n trying to talk in person but I just don't see the point in that either. My feelings are definitely hurt but I guess I need to just move on

I would. This is some bs.

Watch, your gonna find some other girl there who is the OG girlfriend.

Idk man, there could be a logical explanation for his disappearance but he refuses to communicate with you. That’s fucked up.

Also don’t move in with someone unless you’ve been dating for at least a year. 5 months is too soon, and imo too soon to be throwing around ‘I love you’s

What person would do so much for someone and then all of a sudden just up n leave tho?? I don't see what he could have gotten from that bc in the end he still is losing much more..idk..I told myself today I'll give him til Christmas bc maybe he is stressing over making it perfect for the ppl he cares for BUT if he doesn't reach out by then Ima just call it quits.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Also don’t move in with someone unless you’ve been dating for at least a year. 5 months is too soon, and imo too soon to be throwing around ‘I love you’s

I've dated someone for a year and then he moved in n it was still a disaster. I think it's all about how u feel and I'm a risk taker sometimes so I don't mind a few months.

If I feel it in my heart, I will say I love u..well not first anyway lol but since he said it and I felt it I don't see why a time limit shouldve had anything to do with it

Posted by Queenie11

Posted by LadyNeptune
Also don’t move in with someone unless you’ve been dating for at least a year. 5 months is too soon, and imo too soon to be throwing around ‘I love you’s

I've dated someone for a year and then he moved in n it was still a disaster. I think it's all about how u feel and I'm a risk taker sometimes so I don't mind a few months.

If I feel it in my heart, I will say I love u..well not first anyway lol but since he said it and I felt it I don't see why a time limit shouldve had anything to do with it

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Personally I wouldn't do it until after 2 years dating...and then its a person to person basis. Reason being is people tend to start revealing their true selves after 8 months/year mark passes.

Yuck! Quit calling this fool and forget giving him until xmas! Move on and try to enjoy your holidays as best you can. For-get about him. He is worthless.