Dish up the Low down on a Cap male

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I don't know you people but strangely enough a couple of months ago I was asking if we'd be compatible....did I have a strange premonition?? I'm a Libra and I have this Cap guy who I spent time with and yes had sex with 3 years ago after his marriage split. We parted amicable because he wanted too much and didn't like being on his own...way too fast for me.

He's sort me out again by visiting my mother, (his old neighbour) to get my numbers to ask me out.

Part of me thinks maybe he is still in that same place of not wanting to be alone...not sure how long ago he and his gf split..and I have only been out of my relationship for 4 months but feel I'm over that...not sure if I want to jump straight into another though.

So dish up the dirt, what are Cap men like? Do they do the hot/cold, do they jump in too fast or are they more cautious...just want a little heads up.
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Mmm, not going to sweat it then, not sure about stepping back into anything serious right now. Was thinking maybe because we had been there previously that in his mind, he thinks the door is revolving...and it's not.

His contact is minimal and he's set up lunch for Friday and then also asked me to his place Saturday night for a BBQ get together..find it funny that he didn't wait to see me Friday first before asking for a second date...or why he didn't just go with the BBQ, where others are around.

It's been a couple of years since we saw each other..
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Yep, he is...that's why it didn't work last time around. I told him I wasn't looking for a committed relationship and he found someone that was...that has now ended and I'm not sure how long ago.

He did say to me that he should have listened to me 3 years ago when I told him he needed to take time out and find himself...he "might" do it this time but I'm not convinced...guess I'll meet with him and suss him out again...

Other than that he is a real catch...good looking, tall, a carpenter, has a boat, own business...however, I felt more a friend last time around..