A Cap shows love for you by....

well they do seem to love the butt area, a smack on the butt is a good sign

Capinc, such a teddy bear 🙂

I'm asking because I've been the giver dating takers. I know how I show love- as a woman- but not sure how men show love. Especially Caps.

I'm genuinely looking for some help here, folks.

Have you been on a date already?

Yes, we've been on several dates. He's said he cares. He doesn't want me tire of his slower pace in getting involved. I said I understand that he wants to gradually start a relationship. I didn't initiate that conversation either. Still aren't exclusive. He says he's not dating other people, but tries to make jokes about me dating other men.

If I knew what actions say he:s serious about things I'd stop keeping my options open- which is already my inclination but I don't want him feeling pressured so..

What actions say he's all in (before he can acknowledge as much)?

Thanks, capinc, very helpful.

He said he cares, he is going on dates, he has told you he is slow at the relationship process... so far, so good. The effort is there. If he keeps moving forward, is consistent, keeps his word-- then it's basis for trust and love to grow. If you want to be exclusive, let him know.

Got it. Spending time with him is worth saying no to other men, it's true. Just hard to roll the dice on someone and not be guarded when there's no telling how he'll proceed.. you know?

Thanks, APC. I'm trying to just go with the flow and not get attached/vulnerable. He's like kryptonite for me, perhaps.. testiny weaknesses. I'm tryiy to make I stay on the same page as him. If what I really have to go on here is his actions, I was trying to gauge where he's really at 😉

Oy, typos..

Fair enough. I'll try not to create a vicious cycle of game playing to see who's going to put themselves out there..

Thanks everybody 😉

Funny, totem mentioned her Leo mom leaving her dad because of him working and not being around..

because my Cap has already says he thinks I may feel the same way later on if things get serious. His job involves constant travel. I feel like he's trying to be honest and helpful, but may be a self-fulfilling prophecy as well.

Call me crazy, but I'd rather try than just back out on a possibly life changing love because there will be lots time spent missing him.. hmm?