Do Cap Men Get Jealous?

Do they get jealous? Or are they pretty mutual on stuff. I guess i get slightly jealous as a cancer, but i dont show it. My cap sees straight through me sometimes. He was talking about this tattoo above a chicks cooter he saw once, and i was like "When" he said "Oh a long long time ago" I said "Oh" than he says "Are you jealous" im like "NO!" Than he started laughing and picking on me and said it shows him i care about him because i gota little jealous. LOL.. Now he teases me all the time,.. Do Caps ever get jealous? Or No?

I havent flirted with anyone else or nothing. I am to into him. Probably why i havent seen a jealos streak. And he seems to like me to talk to him alot. Like, he calls me about 4x a day and texts me all day. If i dont respond to a text soon. and he knows i am not at work, (i dont text when i drive) he gets worried. Like sends me texts "Are you okay baby" and calls me "I am worried about you, are you okay?" Last weekend i went with my friend to karaoke, and this dude was stalking me, even followed me outside when i went to cal my man, He said, just take off. So i told him i was going home, and i got 20 texts,when i got home i called him and he said "Sorry i was woried as hel because that guy, i was about to drive down and beat someone" lol.. geeeeeeeeez.. but dont think i seen him jealous yet.

We caps are not possessive at all. We like independence in every aspect and thats why we dont like controlling anybody or be possessive too much.

Further we dont call or text all day.... its not true about Caps... we are generally very cold and indifferent in relationships... :-)

I don't think they are jealous or possessive, they are interested in your care and safety, which may come off as possessive?! imo

Before we started living together, my cappy would call me to make sure I was home safe or ask if I needed anything. If I was out with friends, he'd text to make sure I was ok to drive home or did I need him to pick me up. Some of my friends would see me texting and be like "why is your man checking up on you, is he jealous that you're out without him?" and I never looked at it that way...I recognized the sincerity of his actions.

YES Caps can be possessive and jealous but not in a harsh psychotic way. We love to text/talk to you even if we just saw you. We are always concerned about those we love so it is in our nature to be protective and check up on you to make sure you are safe. We do it and also like it when someone does it to us.

Posted by amethyst2002
...how many guys have you dated in the last year? I swear, you've been on a ton of forums about some guy you're seeing.

lol dang u just put her on blast lol

I dont find him as being jealous. I didnt ask if texts were jealousy. I asked "Do they EVER GET JEALOUS, Because i havent SEEN signs OF JEALOUSY!!!!!!".. "But he does this... blah blah blah,..and it seems sweet" ... I heard Caps are seriously Jealous and tow atch out, which is why i started the thread. I didnt even ask his bday till a month of us dating. We go out 4 nights a week.. I Go to his house or he comes to mine now, and we just chill and watch tv and talk about his day.

As for dating much.. Yes i have dated, didnt realise there was some law against it. I have wanted to give up on men all together. But i didnt, and i am glad i didnt. Yea, it sucks. I have dated 5 guys in a little over a year. This one though, seems to be a keeper.

I Got flowers in the mail today, with a note saying "I Miss you lots but i will be busy with work" So i baked him some cookies,and made him dinner and dropped it off at his office..and.. well.. anyways. It was nice.

I was engaged to a very jealous, controlling and more than possessive Cappy...it was way over the top, and he continues to be that way with anyone he dates. We remained semi-friends, but really...never again. He was suffocating.

However, I have a good friend who is a Cap as well, and he is the protective kind. No jealousy, level headed, sweet man. He is possessive of his gf - but not in negative way, more of assurance that she is his. He's dominating but not domineering or demeaning in any way, pretty sensible guy.

i dont get jealous cause i guess im to arrogant to. when i trust i trust fully so i dont expect anything negative to happen. but i do get annoyed when i feel like the girl is going out her way to try and make me jealous.

Posted by QuietSt0rm
Lol yeah caps are possessive, but in a good way. 😉 You know as water signs, we like that type of shit anyway. lol

Lmao. Sad but true.

Posted by noirecapricornprincess

Posted by amethyst2002
...how many guys have you dated in the last year? I swear, you've been on a ton of forums about some guy you're seeing.

lol dang u just put her on blast lol

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Lmao!!! I was thinking the same thing!!! I know you didn't mean any harm ame, it just came out funny.

I think Capricorns can be controlling if they view you as an 'asset' that they own. Much like a house or car they have acquired. Anything that makes him look better, like an attractive, intelligent partner is an 'asset' that can make him look good at business dinners or social events. It's all him, darlin', never you.

It's the "Cap Tap"....they keep taps on you. But usually for your own protection. It's annoying how they seem to know everything about you without even being there but then when you're in deep sh*t, they just appear out of nowhere & bail you out. They're like Batman. They just appear out of the shadows, save your a**...and then quietly disappear into the darkness.

It's irritating how they seem to find out & know EVERYTHING about you. They're similar yet different to scorpios. Scorps also find out about you through constant probing but Caps seem to find out without probing directly (maybe strong intuition?).

but I'm also very grateful that Caps have saved my a** more than once simply because they knew things about me that I thought they didn't know.

Cap possessiveness is both good & bad. Bad because it can be suffocating. Good because some signs (esp the water folks) like this possessiveness since the mer-goat hardly ever shows emotion. So in their twisted little minds 😄 it's a rare treat when The Devil chooses to take time off from his busy schedule to possesses them.

It's actually sad when they couldn't care less about you (that Saturnian coldness..brrrr). I'd rather have them be possessive 'cos it shows they care. I think I've learnt (the hard way): don't EVER delibrately try to make them jealous. They can see right through you and won't play the game. It WILL backfire. Even if they do bite, you always have the sneaking suspicion that they're fully aware that you're just trying to make them jealous but they chose to play anyway because they just want to see how far you want to play the game. In other words, when you're trying to play them, you always feel like YOU're the one who's being played 😢

I think in a relationship anyone can get jealous if they feel like their relationship is being threatened by an outside force. I did have a cap who liked me and wanted me all to himself, and that meant when we went out he wanted no one going out with us. He got really upset once when I invited two of my friends (guy and girl) to the movies with us. And then there was a cap who I went on a few dates with, but of course he was never attached to he didn't ever show any signs of jealousy. Then again he had an aqua venus and the only "competition" he had was my best friend which was also his good friend so I think that venus in aqua helped in him picking our friend over me. Thankfully I only saw him as a friend or I would have been pissed 😛

Posted by BeoWulf
It's the "Cap Tap"....they keep taps on you. But usually for your own protection. It's annoying how they seem to know everything about you without even being there but then when you're in deep sh*t, they just appear out of nowhere & bail you out. They're like Batman. They just appear out of the shadows, save your a**...and then quietly disappear into the darkness.

Haha I like this description. And that does sound a lot like scorpio. I'm actually a lot like that. I may have a sag sun, but most of my chart is cap and scorpio. Gotta two-fer there :3 I do feel a certain responsibility for people though and I always know whats going on. I just have to keep my mouth shut or I scare them or risk blowing my cover. Kinda hard considering I'm a sag sun lol

What kind of drugs are you people on?

My ex married a capricorn who is a complete psychopath.

He isolated her 1200 miles away from her friends and family, and he was so mean and disrespectful to her that her mother tried to stop the wedding.

And if she mentions my name while he is around?

He starts shouting at her in a violent way.

Angry shouting is the nasty cousin to physical violence.

Perfect husbands my ass.

There are some nasty, nasty ones out there, ladies, so you would be wise to be careful with whom you devote yourselves to.

Posted by QuietSt0rm

Posted by BeoWulf


It's irritating how they seem to find out & know EVERYTHING about you. They're similar yet different to scorpios. Scorps also find out about you through constant probing but Caps seem to find out without probing directly (maybe strong intuition?).

My cap already explained it to me, he said he observes and listens to the other person talk. He never asks questions or probes, he said plenty of people tell on themselves without realizing it. Either through words or actions.
He also has a cancer moon which I think makes him even more intuitive. He always knows when I'm having a bad day, even if I don't tell him. I love that in a man though, it doesn't irritate me at all. It shows me he knows me, and is paying attention.

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Yes this is exactly right. *sigh* sometimes I wonder if I am really a cap...or maybe a scorpio. But yes I pick up on what people say and put the pieces together quite fast. Speedy sagi mind 😉 And people will share the dumbest things with just about anyone and they don't say it in private, its usually in public so anyone who just happens to hear will know.

I do love this in a man too. It shows he cares and it can be quite a load off so I don't have to tell them about things or keep telling me. Shows responsibility, which is rare these days

Oops i thought he said JANUARY! His bday is actually in November... so hes a Scorpio, not a Cap.. My bad.. Duh, wasnt paying attention i guess...lol

The way it always went down for me when I had a girlfriend, im a capricorn and she was a virgo, for whatever thats worth. But yeah. She would talk to an old friend or have a story about a guy co worker yada yada normal shit and I would immediately feel threatened. Start asking questions till I got either answers or scared looks. Which is pathetic that after a full year I would still get very nervous at every moment her eyes crossed another guy even though she was right along my side the whole time. But it isn't quite jealousy as it's more of like a fear. I was just always scared of losing her rather than actually being jealous of the individual. So Possessive maybe, but not really jealousy. But then again I never seen her as MINE or in any way something that i possessed. Never acted that way either. Ive always understood how important someones sense of freedom is. Just afraid of losing her company I suppose. However, there was this one time. She stayed up late playing video games with an old guy friend. I asked her if she would "relax a bit on hanging out with him" and maybe ease up on the texting. She obliged. The next day I realized that was a petty move so I apologized and paid for them to hit a movie and dinner together. Which I regretted also lol but I sucked it up on that one. It was a healthy obstacle to overcome.