do i still have a chance with capricorn?

hi im a pieces man, I was with my exgirlfriend(Capricorn woman) for about 7 years. we broke up 4 months ago and it was because I didn't cherish her which is totally my fault. she put me in the friendzone now. we go out to places about 2-3 times a week and she texts me often. I tried begging to her but that backfired. she sometimes calls me those affectionate names at times. she throws allot of mixed signals at me and sometimes gets mad at me for no reason. I really love her but she always has her guard up. I cannot break her brick wall because I know she doesn't trust me as much. I am trying best to be patient with her and giving her some time with out even texting her. she did told me that she was going to find someone else. but she told me that she was not going to date anytime soon. im sure she still loves me in a way. can anyone give me advice?

Why doesn't she trust you?

Seven years and you haven't put a ring on it? Why not?

Seems to me you are indeed friendzoned. Sorry. I could be wrong, though.

I don't get truecap's and confusedcapgirl's comments about marriage after a certain period of time. The "put a ring on it" phrase makes me and my sag venus cringe - sounds more like preassure than love, in my ears. I mean, what is the "correct" time time to be together before you get married? Do you even have to get married at all? People are different, that's all I'm saying - not being married after a certain amount of time is not shady, just a choice. Imo.

I'm a cap male currently with a female Pisces. So while its a little different I can relate for the Capricorn tendencies. With us, if you decide to not be with us or withdrawal for awhile we will start to question why are we with this person. Some of us will start to blame ourselves in a self deprecating way that not all caps have conquered yet. Then a clarity will come to us that if this person doesn't want to be with us so be it. When a cap is done a cap is done. Depending on their life circumstances they may entertain keeping you around for awhile just cause of familiarity, but it's normally at an end. We don't look back.

The Pisces woman I am with is very loving and truly leads with her heart. She melted my walls and all the "rules" I had in other relationships. I used to be very rigid and in control of everything around me, but she has shown me how to be a true partner in life. It is a constant battle to keep our cap tendencies down that every little joke is meant to hurt or an unanswered text is being ignored. I have to think about reactions to things because my Pisces leads much differently than I do. We have learned to feed off of each others strengths. I have opened my heart to others and she has learned that she cannot put everybody else before her own well being or she will tear herself apart.

If you were able to tear her walls down and maintain that balance then things may have not ended. It sounds like she is putting her walls back up. I'm not sure what your reasons were for leaving her, but caps need to be loved aside from their cold demeanor. We really are fragile to the ones that can tear down our walls. But once that wall is back up it's done. I'd move on if I were you cause we can also hold a grudge for a loooooooong time for past wrongs.