Does capricorn do this

Hi, I would like some advice on what capricorn is most likely to do if they feel judged,

I have the feeling that a certain capricorn is avoiding me because they think I judge them.

They are not avoiding me, but they try not to give me time to talk, as far as I know, because I don't know what goes through their minds.

Some advice would be nice.

Thanks.

"their" refers to the person who I am talking about not all the capricorns.

No one likes feeling judged, regardless of sign.

What did you do that make them feel that way?

If I think you're judging me, I will try to find out if that's really the case. If I still feel like it after that, I will stop talking to you or lash out at you...and then stop talking to you.

...if you're not my mother. 😉

Hello, than you everyone. I don't know exactly, all I said was that I was uncomfortable what what they had done. They asked me why, I was unable to explain it. And then I feel that they are trying to distance themselves from me. Why they are still talking to me, even though it feel more measured than before, I don't know.

What was it about? What did they do and what did you say. May make a huge difference.

Well, I don't think I will say the exact thing but this is close, they were mean to a person, which they know I didn't like, they looked to me, perhaps for approval and I didn't give it. They asked me what about it I don't like I didn't know how to reply. And then suddenly distant-land. Somehow, they didn't seem to want to talk to me alone anymore.

"Which they know I didn't like" refers to the action not the person

After a while of not replying, they said it was ok, but I don't think it is ok at all because I hardly see them very much after that.

I am going to see them soon, arranged for a no distraction meet-up and hopefully I can get it resolved. This is one of the scariest I have ever felt because I have not done anything like it.

Sure, I see people but never have I ever tried to settle differences between me and another person. Usually it solves itself.

Sorry for the long list of comments, but if you have idea for how to talk, do let me know.

Posted by Cleverboy
Well, I don't think I will say the exact thing but this is close, they were mean to a person, which they know I didn't like, they looked to me, perhaps for approval and I didn't give it. They asked me what about it I don't like I didn't know how to reply. And then suddenly distant-land. Somehow, they didn't seem to want to talk to me alone anymore.

Hmm. What was both your relationships with this third person? Does she know the person better than you do? Were you fully informed of the situation?

Neither of us knew this third person well at all. I knew what had happened

Well, you have the right to your own opinion - if you didn't like her behaviour, that's your perrogative. But I do think you need to be able to inform her as to why you reacted the way you did. If it's "just a feeling that her behaviour wasn't right," that's okay too, imo, so just say that - you also have the right to your own gut feelings. But if you can verbalize what you felt and why, then so much better.

You are not giving us a lot of info to go on here to enable any closer inspection of the problem, but I do get the feeling that there are things related to the situation that you are not aware of. This is just a feeling on my part, though. Remember, she has her own pov and her own experiances and this may have been important to her in a way you're not currently aware of.

I would avoid the person at all cost it really depends who they are and what the situation is