Finally cut ties with cap man

I am so so so proud of myself in this moment.

I’m a hot ass cancerian woman who’s got such a huge heart and had it out for a cap man.

LAST NIGHT. I finally let him go. He plays hard to get just to have a sexual relationship and I didn’t understand why play hard to get when he’s not looking for anything serious.



HE CALLED ME INTENSE. And said he thinks i care more than he wants me to. That is one thing I will never deal with. I am not intense and I told him that I think it’s best we forget eachother and that I will always care for him in a friendly way but at a distance. I told him I wish our friendship could’ve grown but being that i haven’t seen him in a month there’s just nothing left to hold on to. I told him to take care!

He definitely apologized to me for having me feel that way because those were never his attentions and proceeded to wish me a happy birthday and said “you have a beautiful life.”



I just came to say that I finally said goodbye to him because I know that I am worth more than the way he has treated me.

Posted by DeadInside
this dude is a debutant, one you want a one night stand the chase has to be less longer than one week, two MAX after that it's called a normal relationship

One I've known him since April....... it is now almost the end of June. Let's just get real, I am way to hot for him and he knows it. In his mind he would always think because of my beautiful heart, soul and exterior appearance i would cheat on him. Do not correct me, because I have never known a man to deny sex with a beautiful female who they vibe with so well. He is scared of getting too close. But I am no longer his muse. I am worthy of more. If I put myself out there and you use the words "intense" or that you think " i care more than u want me to".... yeah good riddance to you. The only reason I even suggested i would care for him at a distance but nothing more is because i am a good person, and I am a cancer. Once we care for someone we always will...... but once feelings fade it's really hard to even rekindle them. HIS LOSS.

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by DeadInside
this dude is a debutant, one you want a one night stand the chase has to be less longer than one week, two MAX after that it's called a normal relationship

One I've known him since April....... it is now almost the end of June. Let's just get real, I am way to hot for him and he knows it. In his mind he would always think because of my beautiful heart, soul and exterior appearance i would cheat on him. Do not correct me, because I have never known a man to deny sex with a beautiful female who they vibe with so well. He is scared of getting too close. But I am no longer his muse. I am worthy of more. If I put myself out there and you use the words "intense" or that you think " i care more than u want me to".... yeah good riddance to you. The only reason I even suggested i would care for him at a distance but nothing more is because i am a good person, and I am a cancer. Once we care for someone we always will...... but once feelings fade it's really hard to even rekindle them. HIS LOS'.

ow, now after reading this' this is totally different he was probably trying to see if you both could be able to be a good couple. And after that he found you too intense'.

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you're missing the whole point. No we has not looking for us to be a good couple. he doesn't even know what he wants.He is just living his life without any attachment to anything or anyone. But when you're playing hard to get and aren't looking for anything serious that's where i draw the line. I don't need the complication

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by DeadInside
this dude is a debutant, one you want a one night stand the chase has to be less longer than one week, two MAX after that it's called a normal relationship

One I've known him since April....... it is now almost the end of June. Let's just get real, I am way to hot for him and he knows it. In his mind he would always think because of my beautiful heart, soul and exterior appearance i would cheat on him. Do not correct me, because I have never known a man to deny sex with a beautiful female who they vibe with so well. He is scared of getting too close. But I am no longer his muse. I am worthy of more. If I put myself out there and you use the words "intense" or that you think " i care more than u want me to".... yeah good riddance to you. The only reason I even suggested i would care for him at a distance but nothing more is because i am a good person, and I am a cancer. Once we care for someone we always will...... but once feelings fade it's really hard to even rekindle them. HIS LOS'.

ow, now after reading this' this is totally different he was probably trying to see if you both could be able to be a good couple. And after that he found you too intense'.

you're missing the whole point. No we has not looking for us to be a good couple. he doesn't even know what he wants.He is just living his life without any attachment to anything or anyone. But when you're playing hard to get and aren't looking for anything serious that's where i draw the line. I don't need the complication

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Been down this road with a cap...he wants you as long as you want him....ill bet my bottom dollar he'll be back to see if he still has you, not obvious of course, it will start with a "hey how are you, thinking about you..." keep that shell strong 😉

I cut mine out this week.

Hes a grown man using excuses like his moms behavior in relationships to act a fool. Dumped by every gal hes dates because of it but still blames his mom and wont work on changing things. Definition of insanity is his life... lets keep repeating the same thing over and over and over and over for years with the same negative results...

Sad thing is I know he loves me but I cant tolerate his BS excuses behavior.

Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Question is if you’re so hot why are you settling for emotionally unavailable men. Men who don’t see you as relationship material essentially.

That makes no sense

People change, and ((time)) showed me that. Obviously he is the only one I have been with in a year that in the beginning appeared to be the exact OPPOSITE of emotionally unavailable. He showed me a completely side to him when we first connected, then it turned into a push pull motion with him. It wasn't until maybe a few weeks ago that he posted on his instagram story about how he is jaded because of his last relationship lol and up until now(which was a few weeks ago) he thought he would forever live the bachelor life you know like "all girls are options". When I read that I backed off of the whole relationship aspect of it. Then a maybe last Wednesday I give him a compliment (lord forbid you ever give caps those) and he stated if his career were to take off like he thinks and he is single still having fun we should go somewhere but he is not looking for attachment to anything or anyone. Still I remained calm. When my birthday comes all I wanted was to hook up.... we have hooked up once without sex and he even said it himself that once we did have sex it would be so amazing and we would have beautiful babies(all that i just wanna get into your pants ish) whatever. But still need I say again I backed off of anything emotionally and just wanted to hookup with him again. I made it very clear this weekend the day before my birthday since we both aren't looking for anything serious we should hook up. NSA and lets make it happen. He responds with soon....... LMAO gotta stay in control of the situation.... caps can't lose any control and that's when I realized that's not how ish works. It's cool if you're emotionally unavailable because I clearly cannot handle a relationship atm like I thought I could in the beginning of the connection but when you try to control a NSA type of hookup that's where I draw the line lol.. I am not nagging, i didn't beg, i kept cool, and apparently me hoping for his success came across to him as "I care more than he wants me to." It's ok to be scared that you might actually catch feelings by continuing to do sexual things with someone you connected with but it's not ok to pass judgement when you know nothing about that person.



And for the record it is possible to have a connection with someone you don't know, someone you have never had sex with. lol

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Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Question is if you’re so hot why are you settling for emotionally unavailable men. Men who don’t see you as relationship material essentially.

That makes no sense

Unexplainable phenomenon that many hot women do unfortunately...

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no it's just a LOT of capricorns are stuck in their dang ways. He never stated he didn't see me as relationship material. Guys who don't see girls as relationship material SLEEP with them. No need to even try to comment on that statement cause it's true. He doesn't want a relationship, but I also don't think he and I will ever be capable of a FWB because one thing caps need to realiZe IS that it is NOT ALWAYS ON YOUR TIME. Like stop thinking tooo much and just do it, but obviously i am a queen in which he realizes and he knows I have options but isn't that the power of the game... If hooking up with him was something I wanted, why would he give it to me? Then he would lose the power and im sure somewhere in his complex mind he would think that now that I got what I wanted he would no longer be able to play these "games" to keep me interested.

YOU LOSE ALL POWER WHEN YOU GIVE IT UP AND THAT IS SOMETHING HE DOESN'T WANT TO DO.

So there. 😄

Posted by Sagaqua
I cut mine out this week.

Hes a grown man using excuses like his moms behavior in relationships to act a fool. Dumped by every gal hes dates because of it but still blames his mom and wont work on changing things. Definition of insanity is his life... lets keep repeating the same thing over and over and over and over for years with the same negative results...

Sad thing is I know he loves me but I cant tolerate his BS excuses behavior.

yeah, insanity at it's finest. People don't realize what they have until it's gone. Don't engage with him, he needs to know you're worth more than that lame excuse. Just keep it real, and from the knowledge i've gained is that caps will test you. Obviously none of the other women he was with didn't even think he was worth it. But if you love him and think maybe this pattern may change then just give him space.... time will reveal all.

Posted by LaMadrina
I know that's right, Mami! Know your worth and stand on it. Others will know it too and respect you. Totally untreetrunkwithable.

I hate game players. People like him should be lucky anyone wants their dusty asses in the first place. Proud of you, Chica.

Thanks sweet lady! ❤️

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

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Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Question is if you’re so hot why are you settling for emotionally unavailable men. Men who don’t see you as relationship material essentially.

That makes no sense

Unexplainable phenomenon that many hot women do unfortunately...

no it's just a LOT of capricorns are stuck in their dang ways. He never stated he didn't see me as relationship material. Guys who don't see girls as relationship material SLEEP with them. No need to even try to comment on that statement cause it's true. He doesn't want a relationship, but I also don't think he and I will ever be capable of a FWB because one thing caps need to realiZe IS that it is NOT ALWAYS ON YOUR TIME. Like stop thinking tooo much and just do it, but obviously i am a queen in which he realizes and he knows I have options but isn't that the power of the game... If hooking up with him was something I wanted, why would he give it to me? Then he would lose the power and im sure somewhere in his complex mind he would think that now that I got what I wanted he would no longer be able to play these "games" to keep me interested.

YOU LOSE ALL POWER WHEN YOU GIVE IT UP AND THAT IS SOMETHING HE DOESN'T WANT TO DO.

So there.

Except that Caps don't pursue something they see no common interest or future in. He basically spared himself of all the drama. Which would go something like this-you can be as far as they are concerned most beuatiful woman on Earth, sure they'll acknowledge that but if you think that would get them to be with you you're damn wrong. Even if you serve yourself on the plate to them. So in his mind-he anlyzed you and said already that you're "intense" which translates to future issues with breaking things up. And since he doesn't want a drama or relatipnship he'll rather do a less attractive woman that wouls be of less drama than get involved with you who are a drama on the sight. Their way of thinking

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because they ANALYZEn everything. Listen I have a cousin who is a capricorn been in a three year relationship with her and he has told me several times he doesn't love her. she's intelligent, beautiful and well a leo, so im sure the sex is great. Leo's are freaky, but still he hasn't had the courage to let her go because somewhere in him he probably knows that even though he doesn't love her and she is a little dramatic he sees how much she cares and he is probably waiting for it to still develop.



Didn't I say in my post to that I have great character? I listed my exterior appearance last, because what are looks? They do fade, even though I have the confidence, my heart is greater than my looks and he see's/knows that. I'm a really humble person, who has a lot going for myself. I am very very different than what he is used to and not someone who he is ready for. I also push people away when I am scared as well, but there is a reason for him still viewing my IG stories. Even though i don't view his haha he's nosy af and wants to see whats going on in my life. He even apologized for calling me intense and stated that's just a word he used to describe how I was making him "feel" nothing more. Apart of me feels that it was my sexual messages like having whip cream and choc syrup blah blah (too freaky) haha..... but is his word of "intense" him writing me off? Nope. He told me he knows im cool and hot....I don't think the connection is done for him, but I am not going to sit around and wait for it to happen. If he were to come back and we could build sort of friendship that would develop into something only then would I consider but as of now im not gonna tolerate the push pull. He should also gain a sense of security, and seek less attention...... caps to me seem kind of like cancers..... contradicting but worse

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Posted by Sagaqua
I cut mine out this week.

Hes a grown man using excuses like his moms behavior in relationships to act a fool. Dumped by every gal hes dates because of it but still blames his mom and wont work on changing things. Definition of insanity is his life... lets keep repeating the same thing over and over and over and over for years with the same negative results...

Sad thing is I know he loves me but I cant tolerate his BS excuses behavior.

yeah, insanity at it's finest. People don't realize what they have until it's gone. Don't engage with him, he needs to know you're worth more than that lame excuse. Just keep it real, and from the knowledge i've gained is that caps will test you. Obviously none of the other women he was with didn't even think he was worth it. But if you love him and think maybe this pattern may change then just give him space.... time will reveal all.

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Ive given him plenty of time, space, etc. Its been 9 months now... His time is up, he doesnt even want to try and change so Im moving on. I straight up told him if he doesn't want to lose me things have to change. Not even 72 hours after this convo hes back at it so Im out.

Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Question is if you’re so hot why are you settling for emotionally unavailable men. Men who don’t see you as relationship material essentially.

That makes no sense

People change, and ((time)) showed me that. Obviously he is the only one I have been with in a year that in the beginning appeared to be the exact OPPOSITE of emotionally unavailable. He showed me a completely side to him when we first connected, then it turned into a push pull motion with him. It wasn't until maybe a few weeks ago that he posted on his instagram story about how he is jaded because of his last relationship lol and up until now(which was a few weeks ago) he thought he would forever live the bachelor life you know like "all girls are options". When I read that I backed off of the whole relationship aspect of it. Then a maybe last Wednesday I give him a compliment (lord forbid you ever give caps those) and he stated if his career were to take off like he thinks and he is single still having fun we should go somewhere but he is not looking for attachment to anything or anyone. Still I remained calm. When my birthday comes all I wanted was to hook up.... we have hooked up once without sex and he even said it himself that once we did have sex it would be so amazing and we would have beautiful babies(all that i just wanna get into your pants ish) whatever. But still need I say again I backed off of anything emotionally and just wanted to hookup with him again. I made it very clear this weekend the day before my birthday since we both aren't looking for anything serious we should hook up. NSA and lets make it happen. He responds with soon....... LMAO gotta stay in control of the situation.... caps can't lose any control and that's when I realized that's not how ish works. It's cool if you're emotionally unavailable because I clearly cannot handle a relationship atm like I thought I could in the beginning of the connection but when you try to control a NSA type of hookup that's where I draw the line lol.. I am not nagging, i didn't beg, i kept cool, and apparently me hoping for his success came across to him as "I care more than he wants me to." It's ok to be scared that you might actually catch feelings by continuing to do sexual things with someone you connected with but it's not ok to pass judgement when you know nothing about that person.


And for the record it is possible to have a connection with someone you don't know, someone you have never had sex with. lol

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You have every right to feel how you feel and i think you made the right decision by not wanting the same things he wants and not backing down from that. You want something more serious, you’re the mother of the zodiac, cancers aren’t side hoes. Put your foot down he will respect you more. And don’t casually hook up either he’s testing you. My cap wanted to go in trips too and said all this stuff but they don’t show it or they don’t follow through with it and it hurts. I also think that they have all these ideas about what you two should be but they don’t make any actions? It’s weird idk something’s gotta give and he might when you pull away.

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by Sagaqua
I cut mine out this week.

Hes a grown man using excuses like his moms behavior in relationships to act a fool. Dumped by every gal hes dates because of it but still blames his mom and wont work on changing things. Definition of insanity is his life... lets keep repeating the same thing over and over and over and over for years with the same negative results...

Sad thing is I know he loves me but I cant tolerate his BS excuses behavior.

yeah, insanity at it's finest. People don't realize what they have until it's gone. Don't engage with him, he needs to know you're worth more than that lame excuse. Just keep it real, and from the knowledge i've gained is that caps will test you. Obviously none of the other women he was with didn't even think he was worth it. But if you love him and think maybe this pattern may change then just give him space.... time will reveal all.

Ive given him plenty of time, space, etc. Its been 9 months now... His time is up, he doesnt even want to try and change so Im moving on. I straight up told him if he doesn't want to lose me things have to change. Not even 72 hours after this convo hes back at it so Im out.

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Aww, you will move past this, and maybe once you’re able to emotionally release him he will come back knowing what he wants and knowing you’re who he wants it with. But don’t live off of the hope of that. One thing I can tell you being that I am a cancer and have similarities with Capricorn’s we/they don’t do ultimatums. You gave him an ultimatum and he didn’t like that. He has pulled back and knows it’s driving you crazy but they are such complex thinkers, I’m sure he’s processing this and will continue to. But he is not evolved. He doesn’t know what he wants, and consider his silence to be his answer.

One thing to always remember is that what you allow is what will continue. Respect yourself to walk away from this. From him (completely) ultimately time and distance will reveal what you are not seeing. See him for who he is, for how he treats you, for how he has made you feel. Stop looking at it him as the man you want him to be.

If he comes back to you within the next few days/ weeks.... leave him on read until you are actually ready to deal with the outcome. Have no expectations—- that’s my problem sometimes and it ends up in disappointment.

But you gotta show him that he is not your world. You don’t need him to complete you. Capricorn’s just like cancers love strong willed people and if he knows (because he does) that every time he texts you you will respond he will continue to treat you with the disrespect.



YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE!!!!! I promise and I don’t know you on a personal level but you are strong (to tolerate that for 9 months). Just remember what you’re deserving of 👑

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Question is if you’re so hot why are you settling for emotionally unavailable men. Men who don’t see you as relationship material essentially.

That makes no sense

People change, and ((time)) showed me that. Obviously he is the only one I have been with in a year that in the beginning appeared to be the exact OPPOSITE of emotionally unavailable. He showed me a completely side to him when we first connected, then it turned into a push pull motion with him. It wasn't until maybe a few weeks ago that he posted on his instagram story about how he is jaded because of his last relationship lol and up until now(which was a few weeks ago) he thought he would forever live the bachelor life you know like "all girls are options". When I read that I backed off of the whole relationship aspect of it. Then a maybe last Wednesday I give him a compliment (lord forbid you ever give caps those) and he stated if his career were to take off like he thinks and he is single still having fun we should go somewhere but he is not looking for attachment to anything or anyone. Still I remained calm. When my birthday comes all I wanted was to hook up.... we have hooked up once without sex and he even said it himself that once we did have sex it would be so amazing and we would have beautiful babies(all that i just wanna get into your pants ish) whatever. But still need I say again I backed off of anything emotionally and just wanted to hookup with him again. I made it very clear this weekend the day before my birthday since we both aren't looking for anything serious we should hook up. NSA and lets make it happen. He responds with soon....... LMAO gotta stay in control of the situation.... caps can't lose any control and that's when I realized that's not how ish works. It's cool if you're emotionally unavailable because I clearly cannot handle a relationship atm like I thought I could in the beginning of the connection but when you try to control a NSA type of hookup that's where I draw the line lol.. I am not nagging, i didn't beg, i kept cool, and apparently me hoping for his success came across to him as "I care more than he wants me to." It's ok to be scared that you might actually catch feelings by continuing to do sexual things with someone you connected with but it's not ok to pass judgement when you know nothing about that person.


And for the record it is possible to have a connection with someone you don't know, someone you have never had sex with. lol

You have every right to feel how you feel and i think you made the right decision by not wanting the same things he wants and not backing down from that. You want something more serious, you’re the mother of the zodiac, cancers aren’t side hoes. Put your foot down he will respect you more. And don’t casually hook up either he’s testing you. My cap wanted to go in trips too and said all this stuff but they don’t show it or they don’t follow through with it and it hurts. I also think that they have all these ideas about what you two should be but they don’t make any actions? It’s weird idk something’s gotta give and he might when you pull away.

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Right, gotta know the worth of who I am. Being a great person and that in which he sees.... I just deserve more. I’m 26 and he’s 31 sure he has options as do I. Am I sleeping with my options, NOPE. But I do know that he is sleeping with his, but as I stated previously women that men sleep with aren’t long term. He is definitely testing me and i can’t deal with his test and my actual physical school tests. Just keep it real and 100 or I will keep it moving. I also realized they do a lot of talking, and it’s not because they don’t mean it. I think in the moment that is how they feel, but they don’t follow through with their words. It’s just a trait they have. They think too much and think that words are actually going to keep people around. But words are for the weak. Gotta follow through or you end up losing some really good people.

Did you and your cap end up working out or did you leave him?

Posted by DeadInside
drama 🏃🏃

& you sir are single? I bet money. 💀

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by DeadInside
drama 🏃🏃

& you sir are single? I bet money. 💀

double drama

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Yet you’re still responding! Haha got you, sir!

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by Sagaqua
I cut mine out this week.

Hes a grown man using excuses like his moms behavior in relationships to act a fool. Dumped by every gal hes dates because of it but still blames his mom and wont work on changing things. Definition of insanity is his life... lets keep repeating the same thing over and over and over and over for years with the same negative results...

Sad thing is I know he loves me but I cant tolerate his BS excuses behavior.

yeah, insanity at it's finest. People don't realize what they have until it's gone. Don't engage with him, he needs to know you're worth more than that lame excuse. Just keep it real, and from the knowledge i've gained is that caps will test you. Obviously none of the other women he was with didn't even think he was worth it. But if you love him and think maybe this pattern may change then just give him space.... time will reveal all.

Ive given him plenty of time, space, etc. Its been 9 months now... His time is up, he doesnt even want to try and change so Im moving on. I straight up told him if he doesn't want to lose me things have to change. Not even 72 hours after this convo hes back at it so Im out.

Aww, you will move past this, and maybe once you’re able to emotionally release him he will come back knowing what he wants and knowing you’re who he wants it with. But don’t live off of the hope of that. One thing I can tell you being that I am a cancer and have similarities with Capricorn’s we/they don’t do ultimatums. You gave him an ultimatum and he didn’t like that. He has pulled back and knows it’s driving you crazy but they are such complex thinkers, I’m sure he’s processing this and will continue to. But he is not evolved. He doesn’t know what he wants, and consider his silence to be his answer.

One thing to always remember is that what you allow is what will continue. Respect yourself to walk away from this. From him (completely) ultimately time and distance will reveal what you are not seeing. See him for who he is, for how he treats you, for how he has made you feel. Stop looking at it him as the man you want him to be.

If he comes back to you within the next few days/ weeks.... leave him on read until you are actually ready to deal with the outcome. Have no expectations—- that’s my problem sometimes and it ends up in disappointment.

But you gotta show him that he is not your world. You don’t need him to complete you. Capricorn’s just like cancers love strong willed people and if he knows (because he does) that every time he texts you you will respond he will continue to treat you with the disrespect.


YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE!!!!! I promise and I don’t know you on a personal level but you are strong (to tolerate that for 9 months). Just remember what you’re deserving of 👑

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He knows hes not my world and I dont need him. Its one thing he knows for sure about me! haha. I think it bothers him a bit that I dont.

I didn't give him an ultimatum, it was just a keeping it real mellow conversation on how I was feeling. It also doesn't drive me crazy anymore on his pull back... now...Im like whatever, you'll be back.

Im very busy. I don't chase him, he does the chasing and keeps coming back. I delete him! LOL. Im a leave it to the universe person and if it was meant to be it will. I just bounce when hes a flake letting him go and do me. I take the hes not into to me so I move along road.

And trust me he has not gotten back in with me so easily! haha. I dont jump when he comes back at all, I dont for any guy. Took him some time to get back in.

The part that drives me crazy is the draw we have to each other, a draw Ive never had with another. I dont think he has either. Its not a oh I love you have to be with you thing either, I cant put my finger on it! LOL

Im just letting the universe do its thing and keep doing me. Im a loner type so Im good at doing my thing.

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Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

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Posted by Sagaqua
I cut mine out this week.

Hes a grown man using excuses like his moms behavior in relationships to act a fool. Dumped by every gal hes dates because of it but still blames his mom and wont work on changing things. Definition of insanity is his life... lets keep repeating the same thing over and over and over and over for years with the same negative results...

Sad thing is I know he loves me but I cant tolerate his BS excuses behavior.

yeah, insanity at it's finest. People don't realize what they have until it's gone. Don't engage with him, he needs to know you're worth more than that lame excuse. Just keep it real, and from the knowledge i've gained is that caps will test you. Obviously none of the other women he was with didn't even think he was worth it. But if you love him and think maybe this pattern may change then just give him space.... time will reveal all.

Ive given him plenty of time, space, etc. Its been 9 months now... His time is up, he doesnt even want to try and change so Im moving on. I straight up told him if he doesn't want to lose me things have to change. Not even 72 hours after this convo hes back at it so Im out.

Aww, you will move past this, and maybe once you’re able to emotionally release him he will come back knowing what he wants and knowing you’re who he wants it with. But don’t live off of the hope of that. One thing I can tell you being that I am a cancer and have similarities with Capricorn’s we/they don’t do ultimatums. You gave him an ultimatum and he didn’t like that. He has pulled back and knows it’s driving you crazy but they are such complex thinkers, I’m sure he’s processing this and will continue to. But he is not evolved. He doesn’t know what he wants, and consider his silence to be his answer.

One thing to always remember is that what you allow is what will continue. Respect yourself to walk away from this. From him (completely) ultimately time and distance will reveal what you are not seeing. See him for who he is, for how he treats you, for how he has made you feel. Stop looking at it him as the man you want him to be.

If he comes back to you within the next few days/ weeks.... leave him on read until you are actually ready to deal with the outcome. Have no expectations—- that’s my problem sometimes and it ends up in disappointment.

But you gotta show him that he is not your world. You don’t need him to complete you. Capricorn’s just like cancers love strong willed people and if he knows (because he does) that every time he texts you you will respond he will continue to treat you with the disrespect.


YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE!!!!! I promise and I don’t know you on a personal level but you are strong (to tolerate that for 9 months). Just remember what you’re deserving of 👑

He knows hes not my world and I dont need him. Its one thing he knows for sure about me! haha. I think it bothers him a bit that I dont.

I didn't give him an ultimatum, it was just a keeping it real mellow conversation on how I was feeling. It also doesn't drive me crazy anymore on his pull back... now...Im like whatever, you'll be back.

Im very busy. I don't chase him, he does the chasing and keeps coming back. I delete him! LOL. Im a leave it to the universe person and if it was meant to be it will. I just bounce when hes a flake letting him go and do me. I take the hes not into to me so I move along road.

And trust me he has not gotten back in with me so easily! haha. I dont jump when he comes back at all, I dont for any guy. Took him some time to get back in.

The part that drives me crazy is the draw we have to each other, a draw Ive never had with another. I dont think he has either. Its not a oh I love you have to be with you thing either, I cant put my finger on it! LOL

Im just letting the universe do its thing and keep doing me. Im a loner type so Im good at doing my thing.

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I know is the connection. It’s strong and you aren’t sure why. Could be a soul mate or maybe just how most Capricorn make us feel. I feel the same for the Cap I posted about. But I gotta opt out the games. Like it hasn’t been going on that long to drop it. I’m not saying I don’t care for dude and you don’t care for yours but it’s a sense of just respect. You know? Like I said what you allow is what will always continue. Any guy doesn’t matter the zodiac sign if they leave a girl and go back and keep up with the act and the girl keeps taking him back it’s never going to be anything more than just a game. He only goes back because he knows she will take him back only to leave her again. But if he comes back and she no longer accepts that’s when he will realize ok well something has changed and possibly actually look at her like a human being. Cap guy will be back for you.... but draw your line. He knows what it is with you as in your intentions...... so it’s up to him. Ball is in his court but remember you hold the power. But once you interact with him. That’s where u give the power back to him! Cap guys like attention and once he feels as if he’s almost losing you, he’ll pop back up. Also if you like reading books bluefishing is a great read!!!!

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Question is if you’re so hot why are you settling for emotionally unavailable men. Men who don’t see you as relationship material essentially.

That makes no sense

Unexplainable phenomenon that many hot women do unfortunately...

no it's just a LOT of capricorns are stuck in their dang ways. He never stated he didn't see me as relationship material. Guys who don't see girls as relationship material SLEEP with them. No need to even try to comment on that statement cause it's true. He doesn't want a relationship, but I also don't think he and I will ever be capable of a FWB because one thing caps need to realiZe IS that it is NOT ALWAYS ON YOUR TIME. Like stop thinking tooo much and just do it, but obviously i am a queen in which he realizes and he knows I have options but isn't that the power of the game... If hooking up with him was something I wanted, why would he give it to me? Then he would lose the power and im sure somewhere in his complex mind he would think that now that I got what I wanted he would no longer be able to play these "games" to keep me interested.

YOU LOSE ALL POWER WHEN YOU GIVE IT UP AND THAT IS SOMETHING HE DOESN'T WANT TO DO.

So there.

Except that Caps don't pursue something they see no common interest or future in. He basically spared himself of all the drama. Which would go something like this-you can be as far as they are concerned most beuatiful woman on Earth, sure they'll acknowledge that but if you think that would get them to be with you you're damn wrong. Even if you serve yourself on the plate to them. So in his mind-he anlyzed you and said already that you're "intense" which translates to future issues with breaking things up. And since he doesn't want a drama or relatipnship he'll rather do a less attractive woman that wouls be of less drama than get involved with you who are a drama on the sight. Their way of thinking

because they ANALYZEn everything. Listen I have a cousin who is a capricorn been in a three year relationship with her and he has told me several times he doesn't love her. she's intelligent, beautiful and well a leo, so im sure the sex is great. Leo's are freaky, but still he hasn't had the courage to let her go because somewhere in him he probably knows that even though he doesn't love her and she is a little dramatic he sees how much she cares and he is probably waiting for it to still develop.



Didn't I say in my post to that I have great character? I listed my exterior appearance last, because what are looks? They do fade, even though I have the confidence, my heart is greater than my looks and he see's/knows that. I'm a really humble person, who has a lot going for myself. I am very very different than what he is used to and not someone who he is ready for. I also push people away when I am scared as well, but there is a reason for him still viewing my IG stories. Even though i don't view his haha he's nosy af and wants to see whats going on in my life. He even apologized for calling me intense and stated that's just a word he used to describe how I was making him "feel" nothing more. Apart of me feels that it was my sexual messages like having whip cream and choc syrup blah blah (too freaky) haha..... but is his word of "intense" him writing me off? Nope. He told me he knows im cool and hot....I don't think the connection is done for him, but I am not going to sit around and wait for it to happen. If he were to come back and we could build sort of friendship that would develop into something only then would I consider but as of now im not gonna tolerate the push pull. He should also gain a sense of security, and seek less attention...... caps to me seem kind of like cancers..... contradicting but worse

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Leo’s do love caps a lottttt

He sounds like a pussy. Yeah people who make an easy situation complicated by their problems are not people you can have casual sex or fun with. I hear ya