Narcissist Capricorn

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Cancergirl808 on Saturday, April 28, 2018 and has 21 replies.

Understanding Narcissist Capricorn Men

Narcissist Capricorn men often appear charming and attentive but may lack genuine emotions. They can be manipulative and focused on control, especially in long-term relationships. Recognizing these traits helps protect yourself and set healthy boundaries when dealing with such personalities.

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@Cancergirl808
8 Years

Has anyone else experienced a narcissist Capricorn man? Especially on a long term bases/relationship. They can be very charming and great in bed, day all the things they think you want to hear. The other side, his true self feels no true emotions. Not to put any great caps down!

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Posted by DeadInside

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Yah or they get paranoid that they are being cheated on and its not true, and they make you feel like you're lying?

So true I’ve been saying this for months! click to expand

just reassure your caprcicorn click to expand

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When i do it works for a day! Then he’s back to thinking something bad again... it never ends. Think we need to sit down and have a VERY honest conversation at this point because it’s ridiculous idk where it comes from.

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Posted by MoonshineLeo

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Posted by DeadInside
we are fuckin gods

Even the gods can be insecure bitches 🤷‍♀️ click to expand

Can someone be THAT insecure though? Even if they keep reassuring you? >.< click to expand

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Ime the ones who’ve accused me of cheating and never let up were cheating themselves.

Or they were scarred from the last chicks cheating with the best friend. But why am I paying for the sins of someone I haven’t even met? Trust me until I do something untrustworthy.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by DeadInside
we are fuckin gods

Even the gods can be insecure bitches 🤷‍♀️ click to expand

Can someone be THAT insecure though? Even if they keep reassuring you? >.< click to expand

Ime the ones who’ve accused me of cheating and never let up where cheating themselves.

Or they were scared from the last chicks cheating with the best friend. But why am I paying for the sins of someone I haven’t even met? Trust me until I do something untrustworthy. click to expand

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That’s exactly how i feel. I don’t think there’s other girls and i think it’s something to do with his past but how long do i have to get punished for something i didn’t even do? It’s exhausting

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Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by DeadInside
we are fuckin gods

Even the gods can be insecure bitches 🤷‍♀️ click to expand

Can someone be THAT insecure though? Even if they keep reassuring you? >.< click to expand

Ime the ones who’ve accused me of cheating and never let up where cheating themselves.

Or they were scared from the last chicks cheating with the best friend. But why am I paying for the sins of someone I haven’t even met? Trust me until I do something untrustworthy. click to expand

That’s exactly how i feel. I don’t think there’s other girls and i think it’s something to do with his past but how long do i have to get punished for something i didn’t even do? It’s exhausting click to expand

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Are you still with him Miss?

Sounds like he needs to get some therapy?

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You think he was a narcissist? Idk I would think he dreamed things & couldn’t face what the reality was. It was more if I would hurt him and not accept him for who he is. click to expand

Maybe he is the more cowardly type Roo

The Cappy men i've known have far bigger egos than the Leo men lol click to expand

Haha he shows ego on the outside but it’s not what’s on the inside. Very insecure cuz he hasn’t lived up to potential, and doesn’t believe in himself.. charming for sure ( everyone adores him) though but after awhile the facade goes away... when you get close.. lots of anxiety and worries. click to expand

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Yes, insecure people have inflated egos and the secure ones have quiet confidence, as they don't need validation from anyone

I swear it arises from not being heard, supported or loved enough as a kid....it has huge repercussions in adulthood

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Posted by RooSagicorn

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@RooSagicorn

You think he was a narcissist? Idk I would think he dreamed things & couldn’t face what the reality was. It was more if I would hurt him and not accept him for who he is. click to expand

Maybe he is the more cowardly type Roo

The Cappy men i've known have far bigger egos than the Leo men lol click to expand

Haha he shows ego on the outside but it’s not what’s on the inside. Very insecure cuz he hasn’t lived up to potential, and doesn’t believe in himself.. charming for sure ( everyone adores him) though but after awhile the facade goes away... when you get close.. lots of anxiety and worries. click to expand

Yes, insecure people have inflated egos and the secure ones have quiet confidence, as they don't need validation from anyone

I swear it arises from not being heard, supported or loved enough as a kid....it has huge repercussions in adulthood

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Could be. Not a lot of support for him growing up, his parents are both gone & promises of being left something & he got nothing. lots of bad decisions along the way but his anxiety gets in the way. And that Cap ‘tude makes people think he’s heartless but he’s not really. He’s actually very sensitive. It’s a protection thing with the shutting down. But it sure hurts when they do it.. click to expand

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Send him a voucher for a therapy session. Lol

As if he'd even think about going

Stubborn goat 😞

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Posted by RooSagicorn

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by MyStarsShine
@RooSagicorn

You think he was a narcissist? Idk I would think he dreamed things & couldn’t face what the reality was. It was more if I would hurt him and not accept him for who he is. click to expand

Maybe he is the more cowardly type Roo

The Cappy men i've known have far bigger egos than the Leo men lol click to expand

Haha he shows ego on the outside but it’s not what’s on the inside. Very insecure cuz he hasn’t lived up to potential, and doesn’t believe in himself.. charming for sure ( everyone adores him) though but after awhile the facade goes away... when you get close.. lots of anxiety and worries. click to expand

Yes, insecure people have inflated egos and the secure ones have quiet confidence, as they don't need validation from anyone

I swear it arises from not being heard, supported or loved enough as a kid....it has huge repercussions in adulthood

click to expand

Could be. Not a lot of support for him growing up, his parents are both gone & promises of being left something & he got nothing. lots of bad decisions along the way but his anxiety gets in the way. And that Cap ‘tude makes people think he’s heartless but he’s not really. He’s actually very sensitive. It’s a protection thing with the shutting down. But it sure hurts when they do it.. click to expand

Send him a voucher for a therapy session. Lol

As if he'd even think about going

Stubborn goat 😞 click to expand

Lol! Nope he’s too stubborn. Too stubborn to have his anxiety treated too.. he just moved on to something that won’t make him miserable for a moment instead of dealing and drinks to calm himself down I just will have to let him be. Take care of myself. click to expand

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Yes take care of you

I was raised by a Cap mum who was never in the wrong LOL

Imagine that? 😆

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Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by DeadInside
we are fuckin gods

Even the gods can be insecure bitches 🤷‍♀️ click to expand

Can someone be THAT insecure though? Even if they keep reassuring you? >.< click to expand

Ime the ones who’ve accused me of cheating and never let up where cheating themselves.

Or they were scared from the last chicks cheating with the best friend. But why am I paying for the sins of someone I haven’t even met? Trust me until I do something untrustworthy. click to expand

That’s exactly how i feel. I don’t think there’s other girls and i think it’s something to do with his past but how long do i have to get punished for something i didn’t even do? It’s exhausting click to expand

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How long have you guys been dating? I guess it’ll come down to what you can tolerate and for how long...

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9 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

They are quietly insecure.

I see Capricorns look at themselves in the mirror with the saddest eyes, like they wanna break it.

They can't stand when people got nice shit that they didn't help that person accommodate.

They joke on others, talk shit, and minorize people's material possession, but when they get the same shit, it's "THE SHIT".

Capricorns be insecure about all the shit they can't control though, maybe not all of it, they can't control.. Like financially, or the fact that they are balding... I know some Capricorns that wish they weren't black, or that other people of races got "good hair" and they don't.. And it gets ridiculous at that point.

I got a love/hate for the Baphomets. I really do. The only sign I love/hate. You can see a glimpse of good in them, especially with the women and ones that haven't grown up broken.. But if they got broken as a kid, they can be the most hardest person on the world and themselves.

I feel them. I do.

They just Earth Cancer.

We are Water Capricorn.

AHAHAHAHA.. that disturbs me hella to say that, but yup..

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8 Years

Cap men definitely have emotions but they won't show their true emotions until they feel as though you can be trusted. It will come across as narcissistic but really it's a defense mechanism for them. They hate being wrong about anything so they move at an extremely so pace to make sure they don't make the wrong move.

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I definitely think a bit of narcissism is there, but women have to be really careful with capricorn men.

If they are not knocking at your door pursuing you, then leave these men alone. Don't go trying to show your interest because you think he may like you, or he likes you but isn't pursuing you. That's a redflag in itself...that he's probably not ready, but a lot of what I read on here is women trying to force things when I think it's best to move on to men that are ready and available, or wait.

I think Caps pursue completely when they are available mentally, emotionally, and financially. That can take years, light-years even, but I don't think a Cap male is ANY good for a relationship if he's still trying to find himself.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by DeadInside
we are fuckin gods

Even the gods can be insecure bitches 🤷‍♀️ click to expand

Can someone be THAT insecure though? Even if they keep reassuring you? >.< click to expand

Ime the ones who’ve accused me of cheating and never let up where cheating themselves.

Or they were scared from the last chicks cheating with the best friend. But why am I paying for the sins of someone I haven’t even met? Trust me until I do something untrustworthy. click to expand

That’s exactly how i feel. I don’t think there’s other girls and i think it’s something to do with his past but how long do i have to get punished for something i didn’t even do? It’s exhausting click to expand

How long have you guys been dating? I guess it’ll come down to what you can tolerate and for how long... click to expand

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off and on for 10 months now, it hasn't been an easy road but he has helped me on other departments 😄 just wish he wasn't so insecure, there is absolutely no reason for him to be lol

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Posted by DeadInside

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by DeadInside
we are fuckin gods

Even the gods can be insecure bitches 🤷‍♀️ click to expand

Can someone be THAT insecure though? Even if they keep reassuring you? >.< click to expand

maybe he's liking that click to expand

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After reassuring him, what does happen ? 🍆🍆 click to expand

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lol yea that happens, honestly doing that helps us alot lol its the only way i can show him how much i reaalllyy care ;p