Flaky Cap. Is he even interested?

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heejae
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8 Years

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I met this cap a month ago. I'm a scorpio and he seem really mysterious to me. he hardly talks about himself which got me interested in him. When we first started going out, he seems really interested but he doesn't text me first and when i initiate contact and organise to meet up, he seems keen and always ready to see me. Even when we go on dates, he always extend the date longer and seem to really enjoy my company as I enjoy his as well. However, after those dates, he'd go quiet for how many days until i have to text him first again and sometimes the conversations are extremely short. He uses a lot of kiss face love heart emoticons though but i don't think that makes any difference. I'm close to asking him what his deal is. He knows that I am clearly interested in him and when I ask him out, he always say yes and even when I try to postpone, he'd find a way to make it up and set another time to meet up. Yes, we have done the deed and I have stayed over at his place and he's even cooked me breakfast to make me stay a bit longer.I don't usually like to chase men but he is driving me crazy. Is he maybe not interested? just looking for a hook up? a player? I've confronted him if he's dating other girls and he said no. He also said he was looking for someone to get serious with. So why is his behaviour like this? My friends says dump him. I have been thinking about it but I do like him and feel comfortable when I'm with him. Please help!
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@poison_ivy
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It's just his nature..

Aloof.. Slow pace.. He needs space sometimes.. To recharge. Nothing against you, per'say.

Caps ARE NOT phone people.. AT all.. But the emojis are cute!

Look at his actions.. He's making plans, following through, letting you stay over, making you breakfast..

Him saying he wants something serious says that he is seriously dating you at the moment..

He didn't offer "Just sex", "Just friends" "FWB"... he's serious.. I would relax honey!!
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Capricornwoman
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8 Years

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Us Caps dont do feelings, we find it hard to express them. If i am not bothered about someone in a serious way then i wouldnt meet them everytime they asked or prolonged the date. My guess is he likes you but he is scared about revealling his true feelings, even though you have made yours clear. The thing with us is that when someone says they like us our brain goes crazy, why do they like me? Would it work? How do i feel about them? I would start to do things or say things to see how you react so i can tell if you are being genuine, we move slow in relationships. He probably does like you but he needs to think it all through before he gives it his all, we tend to get abit distant from poeple we like if we see them quite abit because we need time to think about them. If he does like you i can tell you he will have for awhile before he admits it, we like to know our emotions are true before we admit them. Hope this helps
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Kimbicho
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8 Years

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Posted by poison_ivy
It's just his nature..

Aloof.. Slow pace.. He needs space sometimes.. To recharge. Nothing against you, per'say.

Caps ARE NOT phone people.. AT all.. But the emojis are cute!

Look at his actions.. He's making plans, following through, letting you stay over, making you breakfast..

Him saying he wants something serious says that he is seriously dating you at the moment..

He didn't offer "Just sex", "Just friends" "FWB"... he's serious.. I would relax honey!!


Exactly this. Just don't get too cling ,we hate that shyt