Jodi007
@Jodi007
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Heartbroken over cap women
Posted by edgelordI'm a woman.
there's a reason i'm asking you. if you're a gay or bisexual woman i would give different advice than if you were a man.
let us help you.
Posted by edgelordOkay I'll check up on her in a few weeks. I'm thinking halloween. I'll let y'all know how it goes, should you happen to still be on here!
she's been nothing but honest with you. which is a rarity these days. the only thing you can really do is give her space and reach out to her every once in a while with sweet things letting her know you're thinking about her. don't push her. don't try to force anything. she's still broken and hurting and she needs someone who is patient and who will let her have her own time. you know?
capricorns are not as emotionally open and upfront as a scorpio is. but its a very strong match once the cap really starts to open up. honestly she's giving you a lot already though as she's opening up to you about her hurt. that's not easy for ANYONE to do let along a capricorn. it means she really trusts you. this is a good sign.
the last thing you need to do though is pursue her recklessly after what she's told you. i know that once a scorpio knows what they want that they go after it. that would be bad in this scenario. you have to play the long game if you want to make this work. so keep your impulses under control.
Posted by Jodi007Be that source of Unshakable Peace [Patience] for her, even by giving her the Space that she requires, and you will be that source of Unshakable Peace [Patience] for your own Being too.Posted by edgelordOkay I'll check up on her in a few weeks. I'm thinking halloween. I'll let y'all know how it goes, should you happen to still be on here!
she's been nothing but honest with you. which is a rarity these days. the only thing you can really do is give her space and reach out to her every once in a while with sweet things letting her know you're thinking about her. don't push her. don't try to force anything. she's still broken and hurting and she needs someone who is patient and who will let her have her own time. you know?
capricorns are not as emotionally open and upfront as a scorpio is. but its a very strong match once the cap really starts to open up. honestly she's giving you a lot already though as she's opening up to you about her hurt. that's not easy for ANYONE to do let along a capricorn. it means she really trusts you. this is a good sign.
the last thing you need to do though is pursue her recklessly after what she's told you. i know that once a scorpio knows what they want that they go after it. that would be bad in this scenario. you have to play the long game if you want to make this work. so keep your impulses under control.
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God's Speed.
Posted by PatiencePatienceLmao you guys are amess. Thank you xDPosted by Jodi007Be that source of Unshakable Peace [Patience] for her, even by giving her the Space that she requires, and you will be that source of Unshakable Peace [Patience] for your own Being too.Posted by edgelordOkay I'll check up on her in a few weeks. I'm thinking halloween. I'll let y'all know how it goes, should you happen to still be on here!
she's been nothing but honest with you. which is a rarity these days. the only thing you can really do is give her space and reach out to her every once in a while with sweet things letting her know you're thinking about her. don't push her. don't try to force anything. she's still broken and hurting and she needs someone who is patient and who will let her have her own time. you know?
capricorns are not as emotionally open and upfront as a scorpio is. but its a very strong match once the cap really starts to open up. honestly she's giving you a lot already though as she's opening up to you about her hurt. that's not easy for ANYONE to do let along a capricorn. it means she really trusts you. this is a good sign.
the last thing you need to do though is pursue her recklessly after what she's told you. i know that once a scorpio knows what they want that they go after it. that would be bad in this scenario. you have to play the long game if you want to make this work. so keep your impulses under control.
God's Speed.
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Namaste 🙏🏽
I think you need to prove your feelings to her. Show her how much u care and respect her. She also needs to feel safe, especially after being in an abusive relationship.
Posted by Jodi007
So I've been talking to this cap women for awhile. Rewind to when we first started talking she told me she had just gotten out of an abusive relationship (emotionally,mentally,& sexually). And i was okay with just being friends and seeing where things went, letting her take the lead. We started liking each other and things were kind of escalating faster then expected to the point where we planned to go out on a date the next month. She even said she knew i was perfect for her. Fast fwd a week later after she said that, we hadn't been talking as much as we usually did and i asked her was she losing interest. She said "its more like i feel like i need to be alone. Idk how i feel. I know its terrible."
To which i kept it short and basically said i wish her the best. And she replied saying the same back.
I messaged again apologizing for ending it like that and explaining that my feelings were just hurt because i felt like she was saying goodbye.
She replied again confirming that it was a goodbye. She said "i really like you and i know if i keep talking to you I'm gonna want more." Explaining how she doesn't feel like herself and until she's okay with herself she should be alone.
My heart was broken and i cant help but hope that one day she'll decide to come back.
Id really like to hear thoughts from someone else's pov.
I'm a Scorpio btw
Tell her you love her no matter what ..and if she needs a friend right now ..you want to be there and support her cuz you think the world of her.
I am sorry you were hurt.
If you love her ...do love her unselfishly.
If you just fancy her and want to date her. Then i would say ...i am sorry you got hurt..but move on now. 🙂
I hope i expressed this in a way you understand 🙂
Posted by RindarooWell considering she's a girl and not a man id think it be best to reach out to her first. Especially after how things ended. I blocked her on the app we were texting on. I feel like she'd see that as me not wanting to talk to her anymore. So in a few weeks ill check up on her viaemail updating her about my life and asking about hers. I'll also say to her that the next time I'll check on her will be thanksgiving. So she wont think I'm trying to get things back started between us. And so she knows i can give her all the space she wants and still be apart of her life. Even if its a small part.Posted by Jodi007Posted by PatiencePatienceLmao you guys are amess. Thank you xDPosted by Jodi007Be that source of Unshakable Peace [Patience] for her, even by giving her the Space that she requires, and you will be that source of Unshakable Peace [Patience] for your own Being too.Posted by edgelordOkay I'll check up on her in a few weeks. I'm thinking halloween. I'll let y'all know how it goes, should you happen to still be on here!
she's been nothing but honest with you. which is a rarity these days. the only thing you can really do is give her space and reach out to her every once in a while with sweet things letting her know you're thinking about her. don't push her. don't try to force anything. she's still broken and hurting and she needs someone who is patient and who will let her have her own time. you know?
capricorns are not as emotionally open and upfront as a scorpio is. but its a very strong match once the cap really starts to open up. honestly she's giving you a lot already though as she's opening up to you about her hurt. that's not easy for ANYONE to do let along a capricorn. it means she really trusts you. this is a good sign.
the last thing you need to do though is pursue her recklessly after what she's told you. i know that once a scorpio knows what they want that they go after it. that would be bad in this scenario. you have to play the long game if you want to make this work. so keep your impulses under control.
God's Speed.
Namaste 🙏🏽
Well my bf is a Cap. You know they really do protect themselves after they've been hurt even when someone is important. They do come back though. My experience with my bf was that it is important to let them have their space when they are working through things or protecting themselves. It's not about you at all, but her & she was honest and communicative about that. I'm not sure reaching out is the best thing. She is right she needs to get herself together, and that is admirable that she wants to.
Maybe she'll be back later on. Don't wait for it, but be open to it if you're available then.
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Posted by Gob_ShiteLmfaoooooo how am i being sneaky and manipulative by withholding my gender. I don't HAVE to tell anyone my gender u weirdo. And if you must know i withheld it because i wanted UNBIASED opinions.Posted by Jodi007
Update🙂
A word of advice...
Stop being so goddamn paranoid and secretive. No-one knows who you are here, unless you wish to inform them. This is at least the second time, in this thread, you've been withholding information for no justifiable reason (the first instance was regarding your gender).
But continue being sneaky and manipulative, as most here will soon grow very weary of you...
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Also what other information have i now "withheld" tired of the Scorpio slander. Because the people that really KNOW us love us. You don't know me so quit pretending you know my motive. Naturally i dont like people in my buisness. I'll tell you what i think you must know.
Now please tell me what else ive kept secret now? Because idk what u talking about
If your talking about the update. The update is at the beginning of the fucking forum. I'm not withholding anything.
Posted by Gob_ShiteNope i called u a weirdo because u assumed i was hiding something. What would be the point of me hiding the update? I put the update AT THE TOP so people can see it when they first click. And i commented "Update" so my forum would be push back up to the top. IF YOU MUST KNOW.Posted by Jodi007
I don't HAVE to tell anyone my gender u weirdo. And if you must know i withheld it because i wanted UNBIASED opinions.
If you're afraid of biased opinions, you're in the wrong place. Besides, you should know that there are a few openly gay dxpers here. Either way, you have no excuse.
If you want to call me or anyone else a weirdo, for wanting to the know the full extent of your situation, it's quite obvious that you're the root of the problem.
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Eventhough I really don't have to explain myself i wanted an unbiased opinion so I could see different views before I revealed my gender which i really DID NOT HAVE TO.
If you don't like Scorpios so bad get off my forum. Because the only one being suspicious here is you. And you're annoying. U haven't even given advice you've just been trolling.
Trust and believe you're not special enough for me to lie to nor hide something from. So dont flatter yourself.
read both your posts, i think you did well. she willl need you as a friend and need some space
Posted by mer-eye-uhThank you. And yeah i think so too. So in the mean time I'll be moving on. I have met new women who peak my interest. But my heart still lies with my cappy
read both your posts, i think you did well. she willl need you as a friend and need some space
give it time..... good luck 🙂
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Fast fwd a week later and she emails me back updating me about how she is. She also said I made her smile and that its always nice to hear from me.
I plan to message back on halloween because then it will have been 3 weeks-ish lol since my last message
Also thanks for the awesome advice you guys✨**
So I've been talking to this cap women for awhile. Rewind to when we first started talking she told me she had just gotten out of an abusive relationship (emotionally,mentally,& sexually). And i was okay with just being friends and seeing where things went, letting her take the lead. We started liking each other and things were kind of escalating faster then expected to the point where we planned to go out on a date the next month. She even said she knew i was perfect for her.
Fast fwd a week later after she said that, we hadn't been talking as much as we usually did and i asked her was she losing interest. She said "its more like i feel like i need to be alone. Idk how i feel. I know its terrible."
To which i kept it short and basically said i wish her the best. And she replied saying the same back.
I messaged again apologizing for ending it like that and explaining that my feelings were just hurt because i felt like she was saying goodbye.
She replied again confirming that it was a goodbye. She said "i really like you and i know if i keep talking to you I'm gonna want more." Explaining how she doesn't feel like herself and until she's okay with herself she should be alone.
My heart was broken and i cant help but hope that one day she'll decide to come back.
Id really like to hear thoughts from someone else's pov.
I'm a Scorpio btw