@HeartSigh
10 Years
Looking For Sign, Or Placements In A Real Man
Find yourself a nice Taurus 🙂 maybe with an Aries moon
capricorn, 
your opposite, Cancer man.
sensitive, sweet but very tough.
oops, looks like aries woman. lol
Posted by Cancan26
Find yourself a nice Taurus 🙂 maybe with an Aries moon
Thank you Cancan- Romantic water Moon you, 😉
Posted by tiziani
Yes, Gemini men.
Thank you, Tiziani-
It's good to hear from you, 🙂
This is very interesting to me, I had no idea. I know I had heard that somewhere, but I didn't really think it was true.
Posted by GlaringTruth
You take yourself too serious. You belong alone like other egotistical people like myself. 🙂
Haha, I'm not egotistical. You're funny.. really 🙂
Posted by lisabethur8
capricorn,your opposite, Cancer man.
sensitive, sweet but very tough.
oops, looks like aries woman. lol
Thank you Lisa,
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/
Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...
I haven't forgotten about you Gobby, I will be back after work to respond more.
I hope you're having a great afternoon..
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/
Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...
I'm having mixed emotions on this response, and I'm trying to word it the right way. As you are aware, us Cap Mercs are careful with our words and want to make sure it comes out the way we want it to.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/
Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...
Sorry for the late response..
My commitment phobia, is partly due to the fear of getting hurt and making a mistake by giving my energy, time, giving up some of my freedom and space, etc to the wrong person. This is why, the majority of my relationships have been long distance.
I believe and always have, that there is one person for each person. The One, and if it’s the right person they will be the one that changes everything, they will make you change but in a good way to make you want to be the best person you can be. The insecurity and fear that I have will just go away, as I won’t have to question anything and I can just trust them.
This is the reason for my question, dear Gobby. I want the right person who will be compatible with me on every level, and I know what I like and want. I just haven’t found The One yet. Once I do, that commitment phobia will no longer exist. But my need for space and freedom will always be important to me. Just in the right relationship, it will be a healthy balance.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/
Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...
Sorry for the late response..
My commitment phobia, is partly due to the fear of getting hurt and making a mistake by giving my energy, time, giving up some of my freedom and space, etc to the wrong person. This is why, the majority of my relationships have been long distance.
I believe and always have, that there is one person for each person. The One, and if it’s the right person they will be the one that changes everything, they will make you change but in a good way to make you want to be the best person you can be. The insecurity and fear that I have will just go away, as I won’t have to question anything and I can just trust them.
This is the reason for my question, dear Gobby. I want the right person who will be compatible with me on every level, and I know what I like and want. I just haven’t found The One yet. Once I do, that commitment phobia will no longer exist. But my need for space and freedom will always be important to me. Just in the right relationship, it will be a healthy balance.
The One is a complete myth. There are several people out there for everyone.
There's no such thing as a perfect person or relationship.
You want the right person but still have commitment issues. I really think you're using excuses not to get close to anyone because, psychologically and emotionally, you find it difficult to conceive such a thing.
Every romantic relationship carries a certain amount of risk. There's no safe bet.
You claim that, upon finding the One, your commitment phobia will no longer exist. But how can you really know that, when you're a bona fide commitment phobe? If your committment issues stem from a traumatic childhood, for example, it's not going to simply disappear at will.
It's your life and you're free to live it how you want. However, my concern is with the various men who you may have hurt over the years. I can't believe that none of them treated you well or didn't have honorable intentions.
Have you ever considered the amount of damage you may be inflicting on others, because of your refusal to accept that you have a problem? You can't expect people to prove themselves when you, yourself, have been guilty of continuously hurting others with your commitment issues.
How can you act like you deserve such love when you, yourself, have inflicted unnecessary pain? Do you really think karma will ignore your fickle nature?
There's no need to reply, elaborate or justify anything that you previously said, as it sounds like it's going to take you a while to work through all this. As a fellow Cappy, I'm just providing some food for thought...
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That's strange that you think you know my past or relationship history.
I think you need a reality check,
It's not worth a response to your bullshit spewing. I know that you can be a total asshole, but attacking me like that, really?
Kick Rocks
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Gob_Shite
Until you work on yourself, by addressing your Venus square Uranus and self-confessed commitment phobia, you're living in la la land.https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-square-uranus--8475271/
Btw, your profile motto still needs changing...
Sorry for the late response..
My commitment phobia, is partly due to the fear of getting hurt and making a mistake by giving my energy, time, giving up some of my freedom and space, etc to the wrong person. This is why, the majority of my relationships have been long distance.
I believe and always have, that there is one person for each person. The One, and if it’s the right person they will be the one that changes everything, they will make you change but in a good way to make you want to be the best person you can be. The insecurity and fear that I have will just go away, as I won’t have to question anything and I can just trust them.
This is the reason for my question, dear Gobby. I want the right person who will be compatible with me on every level, and I know what I like and want. I just haven’t found The One yet. Once I do, that commitment phobia will no longer exist. But my need for space and freedom will always be important to me. Just in the right relationship, it will be a healthy balance.
The One is a complete myth. There are several people out there for everyone.
There's no such thing as a perfect person or relationship.
You want the right person but still have commitment issues. I really think you're using excuses not to get close to anyone because, psychologically and emotionally, you find it difficult to conceive such a thing.
Every romantic relationship carries a certain amount of risk. There's no safe bet.
You claim that, upon finding the One, your commitment phobia will no longer exist. But how can you really know that, when you're a bona fide commitment phobe? If your committment issues stem from a traumatic childhood, for example, it's not going to simply disappear at will.
It's your life and you're free to live it how you want. However, my concern is with the various men who you may have hurt over the years. I can't believe that none of them treated you well or didn't have honorable intentions.
Have you ever considered the amount of damage you may be inflicting on others, because of your refusal to accept that you have a problem? You can't expect people to prove themselves when you, yourself, have been guilty of continuously hurting others with your commitment issues.
How can you act like you deserve such love when you, yourself, have inflicted unnecessary pain? Do you really think karma will ignore your fickle nature?
There's no need to reply, elaborate or justify anything that you previously said, as it sounds like it's going to take you a while to work through all this. As a fellow Cappy, I'm just providing some food for thought...
That's strange that you think you know my past or relationship history.
I think you need a reality check,
It's not worth a response to your bullshit spewing. I know that you can be a total asshole, but attacking me like that, really?
Kick Rocks
My apologies if I've offended you. I'm just interpreting things how I see them.
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More like, you disappointed me. I thought we were good.
are you real woman? 😛
Posted by AerialView
are you real woman? 😛
Indeed, I am..
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?
As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.
But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.
What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all?
♑️❤️
U,should go for a scorpio with cancer moon?i heard this placement suggest a real man
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Thank you, 🙂
I will have to keep a look out for one.
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?
As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.
But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.
What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all?
♑️❤️
U,should go for a scorpio with cancer moon?i heard this placement suggest a real man
Thank you, 🙂
I will have to keep a look out for one.
I forgot mars in scorpio and Capricorn venus combined with scorp sun and cancer moon?dont be scared if he has scorpio ascendant too
Good luck?
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Thank you Neno, you're a doll.
I'm a committement phobe, and I'll agree that it CAN cause issues.
Posted by lnana04
I'm a committement phobe, and I'll agree that it CAN cause issues.
So many of your responses, I feel like I could have written myself. We seem to be a lot alike.
I will ask you.. Even though you're a commitment phobe, don't you think that the right man could change that? That's the way I feel.
Posted by Rozaeon
If you find him ( and i hope you will ) put an update here please, i'm really interested by that since i'm searching the same thing as you
Thank you,
I will update you for sure, 😉
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by Neno2
Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?
As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.
But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.
What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all?
♑️❤️
U,should go for a scorpio with cancer moon?i heard this placement suggest a real man
Thank you, 🙂
I will have to keep a look out for one.
I forgot mars in scorpio and Capricorn venus combined with scorp sun and cancer moon?dont be scared if he has scorpio ascendant too
Good luck?
Thank you Neno, you're a doll.
Np??
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Did I say something wrong?
Avoid Geminis, Tauruses, Cancers, Aquas
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by SassyKiwi
Avoid Geminis, Tauruses, Cancers, AquasAvoid Gemini? 😢
Why Sass?
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Cause your posh cap energy deserves so much better dammit. Donut settle for less!!
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by HeartSigh
Posted by SassyKiwi
Avoid Geminis, Tauruses, Cancers, AquasAvoid Gemini? 😢
Why Sass?
Cause your posh cap energy deserves so much better dammit. Donut settle for less!!
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You're so adorable Sassy, omg. Thank you for such a sweet compliment.
Posted by lisabethur8
capricorn,your opposite, Cancer man.
sensitive, sweet but very tough.
oops, looks like aries woman. lol
LOL Lisa!
"The real man" is a woman after all 🙂
Posted by HeartSigh
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?
As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.
But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.
What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all?
♑️❤️
Yeah, Gemini man can be like that, though that usually are detached. I'd go for one with Taurus/Cap/Cancer/Scorp moon 😄
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My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?
As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can rest assured we will always get back on top, unscathed.
But, because we are such strong women, we need a Real Man who is even stronger than us. In reality we are sensitive and fragile, but we just don’t show that side to anyone. Usually submissive to our men, but not doormat status. We want to curl up in our man's arms, and feel protected and have his masculine energy entertwine with our feminine energy. Outside the relationship though, We don't take shit from anyone, and we run our own show because we know it will be done right.
What sign or placements will bring me this man I speak of? Are Gemini men like this at all?
♑️❤️