How are you when you are mad/sad

Fellow Caps,

How are you when you're upset, letdown or just generally disappointed with someone (not something) in your life? I've been reading Caps are reserved ..; well I try to be reserved but honestly it builds and builds, esp when being ignored or pushed that I just let it out. I just verbal annihilate a person.

Depends on what I'm upset about and to which degree and with whom I'm upset. Everything from disappearing-and-dealing to giving the person a good talking to.

When I'm sad, I'm withdrawn and keep to myself. I'll work it out, try to find a positive spin and get over it.

Mad? Well, I have an aqua mars and it's quite chilly, calm and collected. Very calculated as well. I'll address the issue upfront with cold, direct words; no sugar coating here. I can also get mad and set you up where you will fail (allow enough rope to hang yourself, so to speak). Depends on the situation and who is involved.

If I'm not mad at you, I will tell you I'm upset about something that has nothing to do with you and it's best you just stay out of my way.

Posted by truecap
When I'm sad, I'm withdrawn and keep to myself. I'll work it out, try to find a positive spin and get over it.

Mad? Well, I have an aqua mars and it's quite chilly, calm and collected. Very calculated as well. I'll address the issue upfront with cold, direct words; no sugar coating here. I can also get mad and set you up where you will fail (allow enough rope to hang yourself, so to speak). Depends on the situation and who is involved.

If I'm not mad at you, I will tell you I'm upset about something that has nothing to do with you and it's best you just stay out of my way.

Ouch! Got to admit I do that too at times(*blushes*), but I have pretty much no aqua in my chart. Aqua does indeed rule the eleventh house where my mars is situated, but that's about it. But maybe that's enough. Something to think about - gives me ideas. Thanks for sharing!