I threw his ass out LITERALLY!

His crap is now out on the porch too... the lying, thieving, manipulative son of a bitch! (no offense to his mother)

good 🙂 are you ok though?

He begged and pleaded last night for ANOTHER $ 100 to make a trip, "We'll loose the client, and that will be on you", I told him to leave me the fuck alone, I had a presentation today. FINALLY he stopped, only to continue this morning. OH, I PROMISE! I have a check to pick up and will pay you back tonight. I told him out right, (paraphrase) "I know you'll come back saying you didn't get the check". Decided, FINE, but I need the money tonight for the bills coming in. What the fuck do you think happened? He didn't even go to the race track he said he was going... so, guess what?!?!! NO FRICKEN CHECK!

My son's bday is Sun, not only do I need to buy him a gift but I take both my kids out for dinner on their birthdays... he knows this!

You wouldn't imagine the monies I've fronted him in the past month... not to mention what he owes me!!!

His past debt he doesn't give a shit about... e.g., he had a $ 50,000 settlement coming to him, but NO he wouldn't take it as $ 26,000 would go to child support. Can't have that now, can we? His justification, his son is grown, she doesn't need it. He is SCUM!!

LYING, CHEATING, MANIPULATIVE, BASTARD of a man, YES, his shit is out on the porch!!!

Another example of his asinine behavior: This morning my son missed the bus, I'm trying to get ready as I had a presentation to make, I asked the Virgo if he could take my son to school as I still had to get ready. I figured he would be back 20 min later... NOOOOOOO the ass went and did whatever and came back 20 min till 9 - I had to be where I was supposed to be AT 9! First he says traffic (BS) then changes it to he thought I had to be there at 10 HELLO WHY THE FUCK would I ask you to bring my son to school before 8am which is 10 min's away if I have to be somewhere at 10—?? LYING SON OF A FUCKING BITCH!!!!!

^^^^ I allowed him to take my car


YES, I'm a dumb ass!!!!!

Girl, i can only imagine. Once you enable them its a wrap.

i hope you are really done and dont end up feeling sorry for him and take him back.

*beaming* I'm glad, lildol. Not for your pain, but for your strength. If you stick to it, things can only get better!

I — this thread.

wow...

*hands you a glass of wine*
let's drink to that!!!

No more load on your shoulder baby
mwah!

I'm trying to imagine his face though....
hahahaha...
there's something about virgos...

theyr either really good...or really messed up!!!

Way to go Lildo...you can't control what a man does but you can control what a man does to you !! I am extremely proud of you.

It might be a good idea to call someone over in case he tries to jump bad later today.

I hear the lyrics to Irreplaceable by Beyonce' playing in my head.

Hang tough, lildol! You did the right thing!

-bumps knuckles-

I'm so bothered by this, you can't imagine.

You've been dancing back and forth with this man for years .. and you've known his character the whole time .. and chose to stay.

If you aren't doing this for the right reasons, then you will give in again .. and I fear your reasons are wrong.



Reacting because you are mad, doesn't change anything because the mood at that time changes ... making active decisions based around logical thinking are solid choices .. and I fear this decision is a rash one based on emotions at a moment of anger.



Come back in a couple weeks and tell me that this still stands, and I'll congratulate you on your achievement.

Thanks everyone for your moral support. P I do understand where you are coming from, thank you for caring 🙂

He came to the house this morning, I did call in to work late as I figured he would. He pounded on the doors and I didn't acknowledge. He left and came back... I'm thinking that he figured I would be gone to work by then. I texted him to stay the F away from me. Then I got the whining texts and (empty) promises that he'll pay me back everything. Before I left for work I did check all the windows to make sure they were locked and shored up the one that is broken (he broke into the house once because he locked the key inside - his excuse for not calling, his phone was inside as well, so rather than walk somewhere to use a phone to call me he preyed the window open). BTW, he does NOT have his own key, he uses the one in the lock box and I changed the code last night, so I'm good on that end. His stuff is outside, he really doesn't need to enter my home. Not sure why he's left it there, I can speculate as to why, but, whatever!

I went to work for a bit, but wanted to be sure to be here when my son got home around 3:30 as I don't need him putting my son in the middle (my son is well aware of what has been going on and it's kind of hard to miss the Virgo's stuff outside!) - I did get home before my son, but, low and behold, guess who was sitting outside when I arrived? I pulled in, he got out of the truck, started walking toward me and asked to speak to me for just a minute - "Lildol, Lildol, just ONE minute, that's all I ask". I didn't even turn around to look at him, just responded with "Nope!" went inside and locked the door.

Interestingly, I just read Susan Miller's horoscope and she says "September 18, 19, and 20 will bring tense days - home and family appears to be an area of emerging problems."

Seems to go hand in hand with what Sunrays posted.

But, tonight will be fun! I'm headed to a fund raiser with a couple of girlfriends!! Free food, free drinks, arguing with some of the top Chef's in my area that I can cook better than them (last year one invited me to his restaurant for a cook off LOL)... what more could a girl want 😉

Good to hear lildol. Please keep forward!

OH, and my GFs are an Aries who is extremely outgoing and flutters all over the damn place and my other GF is a Gem who talks NON-STOP. We always have a blast though - hopefully the Aries forgets her phone, she constantly asks strangers to take pictures of us which she likes to post on FB; last year the event had something like an island theme, so the 3 of us ended up on some sort of blow up mattress/bed under palm trees together...

Whoaa :S

Lildol.....WAY TO GO GIRL!!! take care of yourself, practice extreme self care!!

88, Would you share bout Leo on the Leo board?? I would love that 🙂