Is he being honest??

Have been dating a capricorn man for a few months, recently his father passed away and he had a hard time with it and decided he need to get back together with his ex-girlfriend (they dated for thee years)..Throughout our 2 month relationship we were both feeling kind of awkward because he cared about her and I also had feelings for someone else, and I was still communicating with the other person (as friends only)..So he did go and spend time with his ex and after two weeks came back and told me that he missed me and that he wanted to get back together, I also went out for dinner with the other person I had feelings for during this two week split..He (Cappy) was honest with me and told me everything that happened with the ex and asked for another chance..I realized that communicating with the other person I care about was damaging to any other relationship I will have ( plus he was a big jerk when we had dinner) , so I have asked him not to contact me ever again.. So I did give my Cappy another chance and it has been a couple of weeks since we got back together..He told me that he loved me..Do you think he reaaly feels this or are his emotions just screwed up now because of ex and father passing away??

To be honest with you. I was with a capricorn for 4 years. We were very close. We went through alot together. It is hard for the cap to let go of a reltionship. They hold on even through the worst weather! Usually when a relationship that long ends, they keep the memories very close to them. They try and hold on even when it's already gone. I moved away from my cap and thats why we broke up. Just change, and diff outlooks on life. We still remain friends because our families are very close. I believe he is OVER his ex. The reason why I say that is because.. he saw her and the feelings or that SPARK* wasnt there anymore. It takes alot for them to realize that. Yes, maybe they are friends and he will always hold her very dear to his heart but you are his new love and he will cherish you with all his heart. Caps dont waste time with NOBODY, either its a relationship or its a friendship. When my ex cap had a gf and I had a bf we would still hang out. I would come up to visit him and we were able to do that. Its only fair that you gave him that chance becuz you must realize that he will always care about the ex. Dont be jealous of her or have 2nd thoughts about him bcuz I promise you are always on his mind not her.

Today he said he is confused and said he needs space..So it's over...

What is your sign? He said he was confused between you and her? Just let him go, If he makes the mistak once shame on him.. make the mistake twice.. shame on you. Tell him that you are done and that you wish only to be friends. Let him feel let down. Caps are about the BOTTOM LINE.. so tell him " The bottom line is, neither of us is ready for a relationship and I would much rather be friends either way." Watch how fast he makes up his mind. If its only been a couple weeks him n his ex broke up .. I would definetly NOT get involved with him right now. Only because he still is holding on to all the good things they had and he forgets about the bad!!

They have been broken up for awhile..We dated for two months then he went back to her for two weeks when his dad passed away..He came and said he missed me and that he loved me and that it was over with her, so I gave him another chance thinking he knew what he wanted..we have been back toghether for two weeks and now he said he needs space and he dosen't want me to be a rebounder..too late..so i told him to take his space but to consider us over...

Not confused between me and her..Just confused about his life alltogether..I'm a Leo..

Thats really good thats you're a leo because I think you'll be able to tame him. As long as he knows that you arent a push over he will respect you. Dont let him walk all over you.. if he says that crap about the rebound he is being honest.. and he really* doenst want to hurt you. I say go with your gut, if you're hesitating then just pull back all the way and look in a new direction. Keep him as a friend, he will always be there for you. Do you really** like him?

I like him..But I am in love with someone else..I think I could be happy with him long term but he dosen't make my heart thump..

I don't have any patience left for this uop and down crap..I just went through nine months of this with a Libra, the one I am in love with..He was married but got divorced and it was the same shit..Wants to be with me and then dosen't for nine months..I finally told him to never contact me again because when I started this relationship with the Capricorn, he called me and said he fell for me too but he was scared..Lots of manipulation to keep me there..

HOly shit balls.. I am having the same probs with A freakin libra lol. Capricorn lovers are wayyy better thought. They make you feel wanted and you never look for comfort else where .. but libras make u feel unwanted .. like they dont want u.. which makes you crazy and want them more. And then when all is said and done .. and you cut the libra loose they r like.. "its ur choice.. not mine" or.. " I love you dont leave!" Best way to strao a libra down is SILENCE! They goooo CRAZY! lol. But Caps are diff .. they need honesty.. need to know where you stand.

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Told him where I stood..My guess is he still isn't over his ex..He apoligized for going to her for comfort when his dad passed away and said he should have come to me instead..But once again he isn,t coming to me, he's pushing me away..

I already told him when he came back, he gets one chance..

Yea... so there you have it. Said it yourself. I dont think that he wants to be with her. I think he just likes the thought of it. All that they shared and how long they've been together. It was soooo hard for my Cap to move on from me. Took him a whole year. Meanwhile me being a gemini, I moved on quickly. I knew it wasnt going to work but I still wanted to be his friend. Do you know his ex'x sign? that could help..

aries..They had a very turbulent relationship, lots of drinking argueing and worse

Yea, when things ARE ROUGH seems like ppl stick together .. which makes it a very unhealthy relationship. Maybe he's just a loser and he knows you're too good 4 him. If he says he's confused... then he really is. Let him go back.. he will get hurt. Move on. Some caps are just immature and arent ready for the lioness roar! 😉

Plus aries woman dont give up easy either... does she still like him?

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shoot. Thats a bummer. Well I would have to say.. drop him. He's obviously caught up in the game. Its not fair to you.. and he knows that. Tell him you would rather he just gave you space and cut down on talking to you for now. Than in the future you guys can be friends again and closer.. but right now with you in the pic it makes his head blow up. Cuz he prolly really likes you but doesnt want to give up on a 3yr relationship. The caps dont like to think they're wasting time or have wasted time. Sooner or later he will learn his loss. DUMP HIM! And as for the libra .. keep him around for comfort as long as you can.. tell him you dont love him.. and then hang out with him.. as a friend... he should just bounce back where you guys left off. If you want this cappy though.. stay single for awhile but have admirers.. let him know your wanted but you are not concerned.

by the way .. i have two s/n lol.. sry

Aries is right! I agree on that too.

He called and asked me to bring something taht my daughter borrowed from his daughter..He wanted me to stay for dinner with his family and his friends...He seemed very surprised when I declined..When I went to drop the shirt off he asked me for a hug and asked me to stay for dinner again, I said no and left..I was afraid I was too emotional to be around people..He watched me drive out of the driveway..Another one bites the dust..

What is wrong with people..Says he wants space and then the same night wants me to saty and have dinner?? Don't get it...What's his version of space??

I think by following your gut .. you did the rght thing! He obviously wants to stay on good terms with you yet doesnt see the emotional mess he has caused you? Perhaps you should be a friend and help him through his through times.. but nothing more than that. You couldnt handle being around him today .. which is good that you left bcuz you might have gotten angry with him and let it out.. so wait until you are ready to be his friend and let him know that.. "no hard feelings"

I'm actuaaly quite pissed right now..I wasn't going to give him another chance the last time but my friend talked to me and told me to cut him some slack because his dad passed away and people tend to go back to what is familar..He even called her and was so thankful that she talked to me..Should have went with my gut feeling the first time..

I suppose. Just move on than. If you cant be his friend.. than you cant be his friend and thats his loss. How do you feel? What is your next move?

So whats up with him?

He showed up where I was on Saturday night and got upset because I was out with a friend, who he is also friends with..Ended up hanging around us all night and came to a party with us and then we were going boating...He was upset earlier because my cigarettes were in the other friends pocket of his shorts (I had no Pockets) and then he ended up kicking our friend out of his boat because he said something to me that he didn't like...We got into arguement, he wanted to know what i had did the night before and I told him that it was none of his business and I told him he owed our friend an apology...Anyways ended up spending some time with him over the weekend and by Sunday I started to feel wierd, he wanted me to come to dinner, so I went..The next mornin I told him that he should take the space that he said he needed, he tried to avoid the conversation but I told him if I was the right person he would'nt be confused..He said he was going to go on a trip with friends and he would think about it while he was gone..I said no this is done, I told him I would'nt go to the spots where he might be, so we won't see each other for awilhe...

When I left he said I will see you soon, and I said not to soon..

I am not waiting for him to make up his mind, for all I know he could be with her this week..He did say he was scared of committment and did not take enough time in between realtionships and that he felt closer to me than anyone ever. But he also said that she got him and nobody ever gets him..