Is he being honest??

He showed up where I was on Saturday night and got upset because I was out with a friend, who he is also friends with..Ended up hanging around us all night and came to a party with us and then we were going boating...He was upset earlier because my cigarettes were in the other friends pocket of his shorts (I had no Pockets) and then he ended up kicking our friend out of his boat because he said something to me that he didn't like...We got into arguement, he wanted to know what i had did the night before and I told him that it was none of his business and I told him he owed our friend an apology...Anyways ended up spending some time with him over the weekend and by Sunday I started to feel wierd, he wanted me to come to dinner, so I went..The next mornin I told him that he should take the space that he said he needed, he tried to avoid the conversation but I told him if I was the right person he would'nt be confused..He said he was going to go on a trip with friends and he would think about it while he was gone..I said no this is done, I told him I would'nt go to the spots where he might be, so we won't see each other for awilhe...

When I left he said I will see you soon, and I said not to soon..

I am not waiting for him to make up his mind, for all I know he could be with her this week..He did say he was scared of committment and did not take enough time in between realtionships and that he felt closer to me than anyone ever. But he also said that she got him and nobody ever gets him..

So whats up with him?

I suppose. Just move on than. If you cant be his friend.. than you cant be his friend and thats his loss. How do you feel? What is your next move?

I'm actuaaly quite pissed right now..I wasn't going to give him another chance the last time but my friend talked to me and told me to cut him some slack because his dad passed away and people tend to go back to what is familar..He even called her and was so thankful that she talked to me..Should have went with my gut feeling the first time..

I think by following your gut .. you did the rght thing! He obviously wants to stay on good terms with you yet doesnt see the emotional mess he has caused you? Perhaps you should be a friend and help him through his through times.. but nothing more than that. You couldnt handle being around him today .. which is good that you left bcuz you might have gotten angry with him and let it out.. so wait until you are ready to be his friend and let him know that.. "no hard feelings"

He called and asked me to bring something taht my daughter borrowed from his daughter..He wanted me to stay for dinner with his family and his friends...He seemed very surprised when I declined..When I went to drop the shirt off he asked me for a hug and asked me to stay for dinner again, I said no and left..I was afraid I was too emotional to be around people..He watched me drive out of the driveway..Another one bites the dust..

What is wrong with people..Says he wants space and then the same night wants me to saty and have dinner?? Don't get it...What's his version of space??

Aries is right! I agree on that too.

by the way .. i have two s/n lol.. sry

shoot. Thats a bummer. Well I would have to say.. drop him. He's obviously caught up in the game. Its not fair to you.. and he knows that. Tell him you would rather he just gave you space and cut down on talking to you for now. Than in the future you guys can be friends again and closer.. but right now with you in the pic it makes his head blow up. Cuz he prolly really likes you but doesnt want to give up on a 3yr relationship. The caps dont like to think they're wasting time or have wasted time. Sooner or later he will learn his loss. DUMP HIM! And as for the libra .. keep him around for comfort as long as you can.. tell him you dont love him.. and then hang out with him.. as a friend... he should just bounce back where you guys left off. If you want this cappy though.. stay single for awhile but have admirers.. let him know your wanted but you are not concerned.

yep

yep

Plus aries woman dont give up easy either... does she still like him?

Yea, when things ARE ROUGH seems like ppl stick together .. which makes it a very unhealthy relationship. Maybe he's just a loser and he knows you're too good 4 him. If he says he's confused... then he really is. Let him go back.. he will get hurt. Move on. Some caps are just immature and arent ready for the lioness roar!

aries..They had a very turbulent relationship, lots of drinking argueing and worse

Yea... so there you have it. Said it yourself. I dont think that he wants to be with her. I think he just likes the thought of it. All that they shared and how long they've been together. It was soooo hard for my Cap to move on from me. Took him a whole year. Meanwhile me being a gemini, I moved on quickly. I knew it wasnt going to work but I still wanted to be his friend. Do you know his ex'x sign? that could help..