Is my capicorn ex jealous?

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lnana04
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Ive experienced that Taurueans want to try to occasionally pull jealousy out of Capricorns...for what reason? Idk

I dont see you point in telling him what other guys try to do, then in running on here asking if he is jealous because of a blank expression.

I think you want him to be jealous, maybe so you can gauge what he feels for you.

Tricky thing here is, he may get to a point where he reacts to it, but it could be reacting from a place he doesnt understand. In other words, the depth of what he feels will still be unknown because his reaction will be from the power of what you want and not from the power of how he feels.

If you are trying to make him jealous....stop. he will never trust your intentions, and theres no comfort in forcing an uncomfortable emotion.

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truecap
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Please realize, caps are more sensitive than we let on. So if it does bother him, he's NOT going to let you know this in any way, shape or form. He probably thought you were desperate in your attempts to pike his jealous nature. And, yes, caps get jealous, but ONLY if we have feelings for you. Otherwise we could care less. It most likely appeared to be a manipulation tactic on your part - and that will be the fastest way to go from friends to ex-bitch in his eyes. He cares enough for you to remain friends, so don't go ruining it is all I'm saying.

Maybe in the future, he'll be a good one to run dating questions by. But, I think more time needs to go by first. Perhaps he's not ready to hear it. It might take a while for the "friends" role to sink in. Its a tough transition. Once he starts talking about girls he's dating and it doesn't hurt you, then the time will be right to run your dating stories by him. Hope that makes sense.

Don't be offended by the answers you got. You asked what we thought he was thinking and all of us were honest with you. Cap honesty is blunt, we're not good at beating around the bush. The intention is to help, even if it is telling you something you don't want to hear.

Try to reverse the roles and see how you would feel if he was telling you all his dating details. There would be your answer.
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cappy129
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Posted by Eula
I don't care if he is your ex or not, no man want's to hear that bullshit, lol.

Just stop.


Agreed and really no one wants to hear it. It's like when you hang out with your girlfriends and one of them keeps talking about how guys hit on her all the time. She's also usually the girl complaining about how she's "so fat". It comes off immature and makes her look like she has low self esteem. Not saying that's your issue op, but in both situations a certain reaction is desired. You wanted him to be jealous and he probably knows that, so he's not going to show you whether he's jealous or not.