Cappy Question!! Please help!

If I capricorn really wants you, would they ask you to be patient with them? I noticed this with my Cappy best friend who, now married, would tell that to her bf at the time when he was getting close to giving up on dating her because she would make him feel like she wasn't interested. Also, my cap ex said that to me early in our relationship when he was pulling back, sighting that he was used to his single life... he DID come back stronger later.. Fast Forward to our breakup last month, I moved back home (another state) since he couldn't commit at this time cuz he can't take care of me yet and not making any money ext.. BUT again he says "Give me two years.."(When he's done with school and making legit money). Have you ever told someone to be patient or something like that?

aww that is true just xxoo said which im waiting for your response buddy but that's whats up. that's what I want to tell my cap woman because I don't have what it takes tot take care of her but I want to in the future. so saying that just bare with him

What do you want to do?

Posted by truecap
What do you want to do?

I need him to be the man he needs to be and when it comes to me, I need him to be the man I need him to be. Which he isn't quite there yet... he has to realize some things about himself ALONE (I guess that ol' Cappy patience rubbed off on me!)... although it hurts to be apart, we came to a point where I knew I had to give him his space now. I need space too to focus on my career and making sure my path is my choice and not trying to accommodate his choices just to stay with him.

Sounds like a plan!

Posted by ArdenB14

If I capricorn really wants you, would they ask you to be patient with them?

Yes. But he will be hoping you will be challenging him.
/Didn't read anything but this first sentence./

Serginho: What do you mean by challenging him?

I've kind of taken that to be 'do my own thing' and if he wants in on my life- he has to make the effort. Is that what you mean?

That's what I wanted to add to my post.
Trying to write.

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And remember. He will always imagine that when he'll be back - everybody will be with THE SAME opinion 'bout him as like it was only 5 seconds ago when he asked to be *his own*. Because

*they live 250 years* /not my words/

Famous *disappering* is a *****5hit. When *on your own* very quickly it happens that there is no need to climb. So *give me <some> <time in days,months,years>* becomes *give me <eternity>*. So patience is good but over control. 250 years ain't sufficient for everybody.

Posted by ArdenB14
Serginho: What do you mean by challenging him?

When somebody is a professional - he's a winner.
When somebody is a business-like - asking, asking, trying, challenging, forcing
(must be deleted) *They tell all over the forums to force them* /not my words/ (must be deleted)
- he's a winner.
Capricorns like winners. When there is a winner around, we're here.

He also gave me something that was his to keep with me...

Hmm... I'd only take him back if he accomplishes his goals and would promise to be faithful. Which he was to me when we were together, buuuut him being a young cappy he needs to experience women more (I'm sure he thinks)- then he'll realize I'm the best! 🙂

I've only said that to someone once and I felt like they were the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I would feel very uncomfortable and like a failure if I couldn't provide for my spouse. The relationship ended because she felt I wasn't moving fast enough and didn't believe the feelings I had for her. I never even thought about cheating. I only had my goals in mind so I could provide. She wanted everything to happen overnight.