I have a bit of a problem here. I'm a Cancer guy. I have been with my Capricorn Woman for 10 years. She has Venus Aquarius, Pisces Rising. Aqua moon. We have had our ups and downs during the relationship. I have cheated in the past, but she also lied to me about seeing another guy (it was only a quick visit, and this was very early in the relationship) and didnt come clean about it for 8 years and that drove me nuts because my intuition told me that she was lying. We fought over those things over and over but eventually left them alone and moved forward. I am a step father to three of her kids and we have a son together who is 7 years old (wonderful Pisces kid). For the last 3 years we have been struggling with money and I haven't been able to find work and she has been carrying the load. That leads to arguments inside the home sometimes but nothing extreme, just remarks. I complain about the house being dirty when the kids dont clean behind themselves and she is just so busy with work that it seemed she never really cared. So we just lost our home due to a tax sale, but there will be a decent amount of excess funds that we will receive. Problem is, SHE is going to receive it and now she has total control. She told me that we are done being together, but we can still be a family, and she is still willing to help me out but once they move I'm not allowed to move with her. Said she wants me to find work and show that I'm capable of paying bills and maintaining on my own. We still live together, we laugh, we talk, but she said no sex. She hasn't had the opportunity to beautify herself in a while. She told me last year that she wanted me to do the same thing and she wanted to be chased by me because the way we met, she was far more interested in me than I was her. I'm not sure if this is the same situation or if she is really done, moving on, and just wish to see me down while she is up. She does have a huge heart, and she does love me, but she is very stubborn and hides her emotions. When we first talked about it, she cried and she really couldn't hold back and I can tell it was bothering her. It wasn't one of the ice cold its over and done leave me alone break ups that I hear Caps are capable of pulling off. This is my only child and this is my only family. I haven't spoke to my mother or sister in two years because they tried to come between me and my girlfriend and went as far as calling Child Services on her. She know's that she is all I have and we live far from my home state. I have treated her poorly at times but it was all because of my mood swings. I really want my family and I an't really live without them. It's not about the money for me. I really love her and don't want anything or anyone else. She tells me she don't know what the future holds and to just focus on work and our business that we are trying to jump start...is it over? Can I win her back? How? What is going on here?
