Longtime Capricorn friend (with Taurus moon) backstabbed me to steal my girl

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We used to share an apartment stayed and worked together for 5 years.

He has been eyeing my girlfriend for long time and looking for a way to get in-between us for a long time. When he found out things are not so smooth between us, he decided to jump in and back stab.

The way he did this was so heartless. He called me up under the pretense of wanting to give me support and guidance; just when I opened up to him, I realized my girlfriend was on the line too, as a silent listener.

Why is the Capricorn+Taurus hell bent on backstabbing me? He has already done something similar 4 years back, but I overlooked cuz the relationship did not spoil. But now, it's completely ruined and he knows it.
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sorry this happened - apparently he thinks he is entitled to help himself - to your "stuff" ... I think if a Cap/Taurus wants something they can be so very patient and devious about getting it - and on top, not a very nice person to do this

also, what does this say about the girl ? not much - too much drama and stress and bad karma there

ditch the girl and the dude and live your life surrounded by friends who you can actually trust
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I'm astonished how you can predict the girl here, she a Capricorn too (moon leo) tends to be a drama queen at times.

What disappoints me the most was, not that the relationship is spoiled. But how someone I trusted so much and known for such a long time, can do this to me? : (

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sorry this happened - apparently he thinks he is entitled to help himself - to your "stuff" ... I think if a Cap/Taurus wants something they can be so very patient and devious about getting it - and on top, not a very nice person to do this

also, what does this say about the girl ? not much - too much drama and stress and bad karma there

ditch the girl and the dude and live your life surrounded by friends who you can actually trust

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Posted by c0mrade

I'm astonished how you can predict the girl here, she a Capricorn too (moon leo) tends to be a drama queen at times.

What disappoints me the most was, not that the relationship is spoiled. But how someone I trusted so much and known for such a long time, can do this to me? : (

Posted by tctaap

sorry this happened - apparently he thinks he is entitled to help himself - to your "stuff" ... I think if a Cap/Taurus wants something they can be so very patient and devious about getting it - and on top, not a very nice person to do this

also, what does this say about the girl ? not much - too much drama and stress and bad karma there

ditch the girl and the dude and live your life surrounded by friends who you can actually trust

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yeah that bites - I had a very long friendship that went sour - but years now after it's over I realize it was probably for the best; I sure don't want or need ugly people around me

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Posted by Sag898

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A Leo moon left you for a Taurus moon......

I mean duh


He's a Taurus moon too

LOOOL


Greedy Leo mooner hahahahah

.

Proud Leo Moon

Stupidly

But cap sun probably looks really good better than op

Also more money
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Leo moon thought Process : " I won't settle till I get the best of the best....but for now this can be entertainment "

Lol we are the worst
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Sag898

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Sag898

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Sag898

A Leo moon left you for a Taurus moon......

I mean duh


He's a Taurus moon too

LOOOL


Greedy Leo mooner hahahahah

.

Proud Leo Moon

Stupidly

But cap sun probably looks really good better than op

Also more money


Leo moon thought Process : " I won't settle till I get the best of the best....but for now this can be entertainment "

Lol we are the worst


Yep

unless we truly love that person and want to work through whatever chaotic sheet they bring into our lives
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Exactly.
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Sorry to hear that man. I feel like most Cap men would put bros before hoes, but maybe my Virgo moon tempers this. If one of my close buddies smashes a girl I was interested in, I'm no longer interested in said girl. Smashing OPP that I know personally does not appeal to me.

Funny thing though, my great Leo friend swarmed in on a Leo girl I had a thing for in college. Unfortunately, she didn't have a thing for me. But as soon as it was clear we wouldn't be doing a thing, I'm pretty sure he swooped in ASAP. He's still my bro, but half of that entire senior year was awkward as hell and made me a little sad at the time.
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Thank you guys for all your wonderful opinion; I don't mind being called a shitty boyfriend, greedy leo-mooner, or pussy because I probably am.

To keep you updated, no, she did not fall for him, despite the costly and desperate attempt by my backstabbing friend. I knew she was never interested in him (so did he, to some extent). It was a worthless, and futile attempt, no clue why he did that.

More than anger, I felt betrayal. So the face punch was not my preferred mode of communication to get my point across. Surprisingly, the entire episode turned out to be a blessing in disguise; It made a huge positive impact on my life, I started to focus on my career, meet new people, and changed my lazy life style .

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It has been 3-long months since I spoke a word to her, so i've never really thought about this awkward conversation. If she did call, I will try and keep it limited to be on speaking terms.

Is there a reason behind your curiosity, my friend? If so, I would like to know. šŸ™‚



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I'm like that. So what if she did? What would you think of that? Would you ignore her?

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Posted by c0mrade

I ignored her like she never existed after she decided to fall for it. It has been 3 months since this happened.

Waiting for her to block me in all social media, but she did not. What a surprise!

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LOOOL

FUK your bytch for falling for it

Gullible hoe

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Wait! If she didn’t block him it means he didn’t say anything baaaad!!!

So I am confused...
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Posted by c0mrade

Perhaps it's because no matter what this guy tried, I continued to say only good things about her; except for the last part before all hell broke loose when I called her character into question.

: (

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Wait! If she didn’t block him it means he didn’t say anything baaaad!!!

So I am confused...

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How did you called her character into question? AFTER you felt she is listening?
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by c0mrade

I ignored her like she never existed after she decided to fall for it. It has been 3 months since this happened.

Waiting for her to block me in all social media, but she did not. What a surprise!

Posted by Black-Mamba

LOOOL

FUK your bytch for falling for it

Gullible hoe


Wait! If she didn’t block him it means he didn’t say anything baaaad!!!

So I am confused...

noooo, a cap will never block you cause it means she is giving him attention. she doesn't value him at all. she is cold as ice.
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Why is this ICE melted when ā€˜friend’ asked her to participate in shit? For laughs?
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I didn't write here what she heard from me on purpose (as i'm sure it'll reflect badly on me duh), sorry you had to scroll through.

At this point, I still don't know she is on the line as a silent-listener.

I told him about how often I used to sleep with her earlier, and how infrequent it has become now; I went on to say that it's probably because of a new office colleague of hers. And I heard a hello from the other end, a very familiar female voice... and my heart sank.

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How did you called her character into question? AFTER you felt she is listening?

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Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by c0mrade

I ignored her like she never existed after she decided to fall for it. It has been 3 months since this happened.

Waiting for her to block me in all social media, but she did not. What a surprise!

Posted by Black-Mamba

LOOOL

FUK your bytch for falling for it

Gullible hoe


Wait! If she didn’t block him it means he didn’t say anything baaaad!!!

So I am confused...

noooo, a cap will never block you cause it means she is giving him attention. she doesn't value him at all. she is cold as ice.


Why is this ICE melted when ā€˜friend’ asked her to participate in shit? For laughs?

to confirm. she was probably in the mode of leaving him.
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I KNOW! She caught him cheating on her with Dxp and said no word because...how do you accuse anybody cheating on you with a...website? And it’s norhing like Ashley Madison...lmao...it’s worse!
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Posted by c0mrade

I didn't write here what she heard from me on purpose (as i'm sure it'll reflect badly on me duh), sorry you had to scroll through.

At this point, I still don't know she is on the line as a silent-listener.

I told him about how often I used to sleep with her earlier, and how infrequent it has become now; I went on to say that it's probably because of a new office colleague of hers. And I heard a hello from the other end, a very familiar female voice... and my heart sank.

Posted by Gemitati

How did you called her character into question? AFTER you felt she is listening?

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Honey! She is a slut! And this ā€˜friend’ actually did you a favor!!!

Listen! My Cap husband had a friend who took his wife away and after he had met me - he said I need to call him and thank him for helping me get rid of her...

Years later they’ve met and shook hands and lover man even had something installed for our business!

It’s crazy where life takes you after 10-15-20 years! Everything seems just whatever...ā¤ļø
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I'm totally surprised how you took so little time to understand and get to the core of the problem. Deep-inside I know this 'friend' actually did me a favour.

Thank you for your comforting words of wisdom Gemi, I am sure it comes from your own experiences. šŸ™‚

Posted by Gemitati

Honey! She is a slut! And this ā€˜friend’ actually did you a favor!!!

Listen! My Cap husband had a friend who took his wife away and after he had met me - he said I need to call him and thank him for helping me get rid of her...

Years later they’ve met and shook hands and lover man even had something installed for our business!

It’s crazy where life takes you after 10-15-20 years! Everything seems just whatever...ā¤ļø

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Posted by c0mrade

May be you're one of those good people. When I said dominant, no negative connotation there.

It's a moon leo thing to influence people in the nicest way possible.

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I’m a Cap Sun with Leo Moon. I’m not like that.

Strong willed yes, but no to the other two.

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I’d like to think I’m one of the good people šŸ™‚

You’re right that we try to influence people in a nice way, we want you to be the best version of yourself.

Sorry for the late reply, DXP wasn’t allowing me to quote anything for some reason and kept giving pop ups every time I’d try to even go to the website. It was sporadic at best.
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Posted by c0mrade

May be you're one of those good people. When I said dominant, no negative connotation there.

It's a moon leo thing to influence people in the nicest way possible.

Posted by BlankForNowButYouKnowMe

I’m a Cap Sun with Leo Moon. I’m not like that.

Strong willed yes, but no to the other two.



I’d like to think I’m one of the good people šŸ™‚

You’re right that we try to influence people in a nice way, we want you to be the best version of yourself.

Sorry for the late reply, DXP wasn’t allowing me to quote anything for some reason and kept giving pop ups every time I’d try to even go to the website. It was sporadic at best.
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It logs you off automatically if you connect from another device, that may be the reason why you couldn't quote.

I'm so glad I know someone now with Cap and Leo moon šŸ˜„ , you guys are just too much fun.

Are you by any chance hot tempered?
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Posted by c0mrade

May be you're one of those good people. When I said dominant, no negative connotation there.

It's a moon leo thing to influence people in the nicest way possible.

Posted by BlankForNowButYouKnowMe

I’m a Cap Sun with Leo Moon. I’m not like that.

Strong willed yes, but no to the other two.



I’d like to think I’m one of the good people šŸ™‚

You’re right that we try to influence people in a nice way, we want you to be the best version of yourself.

Sorry for the late reply, DXP wasn’t allowing me to quote anything for some reason and kept giving pop ups every time I’d try to even go to the website. It was sporadic at best.


It logs you off automatically if you connect from another device, that may be the reason why you couldn't quote.

I'm so glad I know someone now with Cap and Leo moon šŸ˜„ , you guys are just too much fun.

Are you by any chance hot tempered?
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Is that what it is? I can’t seem to get around the pop ups on here. Are you having that issue too?

You’re too sweet, thank you for saying that. šŸ™‚

I think the warmness Of The Leo Moon, takes a bit of the chill off of the Cap Sun.

I’m very laid back and easy going, but if someone pushes me too much, I can be very hot tempered. However, I cool back down very quickly and I’m my playful self again. I can’t stand dragging shit out, or dwelling on things.

What about you, with your Leo Moon?