Manipulation...

Are Cap Men known to be Manipulative? I am seeing this in my Cap guy and I am just observing I havent said anything verbally but my actions have. When he can't get his way with me he tries to manipulate me into doing things his way. Hmmmm or is that controlling behavior. Lots of ladies on this board dating Cap men, have you guys had to deal with this?
Cause I am seeing it more and more..lol I laugh because it never works..lol

He can be a lil aloof, but never cold..I am the cold one according to hm...lol

And yes he keeps it very subtle, because if it gets harsh I will say something.lol

The other day I told him he could not come over to see me, because I was upset with him and did not want to be bothered at that time. Last time he was here he left an item of his. I told him I would bing the item to him in a couple days when we were scheduled to see each other for an event. He texts me and turned around and said he needed to get that item right away could he come get it now. He didnt need right away because at first he intially was ok with getting it later. He got upset. He always does that when I tell him know he thinks of something try and make it go his way..He may even beg..lol

Posted by QUlETstorm

Posted by Striking
The other day I told him he could not come over to see me, because I was upset with him and did not want to be bothered at that time. Last time he was here he left an item of his. I told him I would bing the item to him in a couple days when we were scheduled to see each other for an event. He texts me and turned around and said he needed to get that item right away could he come get it now. He didnt need right away because at first he intially was ok with getting it later. He got upset. He always does that when I tell him know he thinks of something try and make it go his way..He may even beg..lol

Well this is harmless manipulation. Kind of cute actually. Lol.

click to expand

Yeah. This is harmless. You know exactly what he's trying go do...get his way, and why..spoiled.

I hear a lot of Caps being manipulative, but Id be upset if the stories are similar to this one lol.

Just continue to tell him no.

Yep, caps are controlling. It's in our nature. I like things to go my way and when they don't, I'm disappointed, although I don't always show it.

Yeah its harmless right now!!! It can be annoying reminds me of childs play. I just ignore it and lets it go...

He told me to meet him outside if I wanted too, and give it to him. I wasnt allowing that. He just wanted to sniff me..lol, lol...I told him I did not want to be bothered period!!!! Just a look ir to smell me would have been enough for him...He's a trip...lol

I cant explain his quirkyness...thats him...I could have left it outside. But we initally agreed to see each other at this event and he would get it. In fact it was his suggestion. Then in a text conversation he slipped in can I come get that..lol again manipulation. I said No...He didnt need it right away. He has it now...I point to him is you cant manipulate me. Im not slow..lol

CAP MEN

ARE GENTIAL WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP
WE JUST WANT TO MOVE THE WOMEN IN OUR LIFE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
LEAD THEM INTO THE LIGHT
WE TRY TO GET THEM TO SEE THE BENNY'S OF DOING THINGS IN A RIGHT WAY ACORDING TO US THAT IS.
THE WORST IS LIKE CAPGRIL AND OTHER CAPRICORN WOMEN WHO THINK THEY KNOW BEST
THEY ARE SO SADLY MISLEAD BY WEAK MEN WHO FALL IN LINE FOR THEM.
WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP ALL THE WOMEN OF THE WORLD THE SEXY ONES FIRST.

I HATE TO DO THIS BUT I MUST LIST A FEW WOMEN
WHO NEED A LOVING MANIPULATION
AT THE VERY TOP
TRUECAP OH SHE COULD USE A LITTLE LEADING DOWN THE RIGHT PATH
R24 IS NOT FAR BEHIND
CAPLOVE MAY BE A LOST CAUSE MAY NO BE LEADABLE
AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST A NEW ONE QUIETSTORM I HAVE NO IDEA IF SHE IS A CAP OR WHAT BUT SHE HAS DANGERUS IDEAS.

Lol...A Cap man or any man will have a hard time manipulating controlling a strong aware woman...They tend to do well with naive women...lol

I honestly wouldnt call this manipulation. Its all blatantly obvious to me. idk

Posted by james tate
I HATE TO DO THIS BUT I MUST LIST A FEW WOMEN
WHO NEED A LOVING MANIPULATION
AT THE VERY TOP
TRUECAP OH SHE COULD USE A LITTLE LEADING DOWN THE RIGHT PATH
R24 IS NOT FAR BEHIND
CAPLOVE MAY BE A LOST CAUSE MAY NO BE LEADABLE
AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST A NEW ONE QUIETSTORM I HAVE NO IDEA IF SHE IS A CAP OR WHAT BUT SHE HAS DANGERUS IDEAS.

And what path would that be, pray tell? 😉

IF YOU GO DOWN THE PATH WITH ME ITS THE PATH TO DAMNATION
IM GOING TO BELIZE SEE YOU GUYS IN LATE FEBRUARY OR EARLY MARCH

LOV TATE

Posted by james tate
CAP MEN

ARE GENTIAL WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP
WE JUST WANT TO MOVE THE WOMEN IN OUR LIFE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
LEAD THEM INTO THE LIGHT
WE TRY TO GET THEM TO SEE THE BENNY'S OF DOING THINGS IN A RIGHT WAY ACORDING TO US THAT IS.
THE WORST IS LIKE CAPGRIL AND OTHER CAPRICORN WOMEN WHO THINK THEY KNOW BEST
THEY ARE SO SADLY MISLEAD BY WEAK MEN WHO FALL IN LINE FOR THEM.
WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP ALL THE WOMEN OF THE WORLD THE SEXY ONES FIRST.

RIIIIIGHT! Like leaving them to pay the tab!!! I still giggle at that one, psssssh

Posted by james tate
IF YOU GO DOWN THE PATH WITH ME ITS THE PATH TO DAMNATION
IM GOING TO BELIZE SEE YOU GUYS IN LATE FEBRUARY OR EARLY MARCH

LOV TATE

TATER!!!! I like damnation! 🙂

Posted by CanceritaBonita

Posted by james tate
CAP MEN

ARE GENTIAL WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP
WE JUST WANT TO MOVE THE WOMEN IN OUR LIFE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
LEAD THEM INTO THE LIGHT
WE TRY TO GET THEM TO SEE THE BENNY'S OF DOING THINGS IN A RIGHT WAY ACORDING TO US THAT IS.
THE WORST IS LIKE CAPGRIL AND OTHER CAPRICORN WOMEN WHO THINK THEY KNOW BEST
THEY ARE SO SADLY MISLEAD BY WEAK MEN WHO FALL IN LINE FOR THEM.
WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP ALL THE WOMEN OF THE WORLD THE SEXY ONES FIRST.

RIIIIIGHT! Like leaving them to pay the tab!!! I still giggle at that one, psssssh

click to expand

Lmao!!!!

Posted by cowpuncher

Posted by CanceritaBonita

Posted by james tate
CAP MEN

ARE GENTIAL WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP
WE JUST WANT TO MOVE THE WOMEN IN OUR LIFE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
LEAD THEM INTO THE LIGHT
WE TRY TO GET THEM TO SEE THE BENNY'S OF DOING THINGS IN A RIGHT WAY ACORDING TO US THAT IS.
THE WORST IS LIKE CAPGRIL AND OTHER CAPRICORN WOMEN WHO THINK THEY KNOW BEST
THEY ARE SO SADLY MISLEAD BY WEAK MEN WHO FALL IN LINE FOR THEM.
WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP ALL THE WOMEN OF THE WORLD THE SEXY ONES FIRST.

RIIIIIGHT! Like leaving them to pay the tab!!! I still giggle at that one, psssssh

That one isn't really manipulation, it's just really good business sense when you are dating and decide it isn't working out. Why are WE always expected to take the loss on a bad investment? Women today have equal rights, and Tater's method for escaping from a bad date is just another way of letting them enjoy their freedom and equality today rather than oppressing them by paying the bill and making them feel obligated to a guy.

Couple that one with my method of eating before the fancy dinner date, then just ordering a salad or appetizer so that the gal isn't ordering lobster and ribeye surf and turf and a half dozen Umbrella Foo-Foo drinks, and dating becomes a lot more affordable too.

click to expand

I only have two things to say to that!
1. Now I know why daddy always taught me to take enough money on a date to cover myself.
2. Reminder not to date CP or Tate!

lmao!!!

truecap tate would never show you a ghost. LLLTBL welcome back my true love she could lead me but did not send me an address in florida