My Complicated Cap

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by LadyPisces on Wednesday, April 16, 2014 and has 4 replies.

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@LadyPisces
12 Years

Hi There

I am in a relationship with an Cap and during the 'chasing' phase he used to text me all the time. Now I'm lucky if I get 5 messages from him during the day.

He convinced me that everything was fine between us.

Do I as a Pisces just want too much attention?

Is texting your partner not a big thing for Cap's.

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@mika7
13 Years

I think when they write less,actually they start to feel more.
They just think,now,no worries.
Be patient-)

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

5 messages a day is a lot!

We get so many people on here posting they haven't heard from their cap in 5 days and you're complaining because you're getting 5 messages a day?

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Honestly, constant communication throughout the day gets on my nerves. I have a full time job, responsibilities at home, errands to run and I really don't have time to be texting with someone all day long. If they are the type that texts constantly throughout the day, I will start ignoring them for longer and longer periods of time in between to train them to accept less frequent contact.

A couple or three times a day is okay, unless I'm busy. Once a day is ideal unless we are trying to make plans or something comes up that necessitates more communication.

Just because I'm not a big texter, it doesn't mean I don't care about them, but I want them to respect my time.

You really have nothing to worry about. That's what I was trying to get at before.