need help

i am in love with my capricorn man. this happened 2 years back. and now i am trying to fix it. we actually were in love with each other. we both were very true in our feelings. But after 9 month he was not paying much attention to our relationship many misunderstandings came our way. Then after a fight i didn't talk to him and he did not ,ind and stayed calm. After few months when I texted him about a charity work he talked to me. and all of a sudden he was asking me to get back together. But I refused. I didn't know how to handle things. After a week he disappeared. But i missed him so much and i wanted to talk to him. after three months i got a text from him wishing on my birthday. then we both became friends. he did everything he could to talk to me and spend time with me. As we were in long distance we cannot meet very often. when ever i was in town he would ask me out and meet me. after few months i asked him about our relationship. He told me that he wasn't going to marry anyone and wants to stay single. When i asked him for the reason he told me that when we broke up it was very hard for him to get over it and now he wants to stay in contact with me but he doesn't want anything else. I was actually in love with this guy. i asked him whether he loves me or not he told me that he loves me but cannot do anything about it. i tried really hard to explain it to him. But he wanted to stay single. then i agreed not to talk about relationship stuff. then we were good. as days passed he got really close to me. i can guess from his activities he was hiding his feelings well. then when we met we got intimate it was really good that we both were happy. it was like fire works. then i asked him about our relationship. all of a sudden when i asked him about our relationship, he started pulling away. this happened recently and now he is saying that i must marry some other guy and move on with my life. he is also saying that he has been having the feeling that he is spoiling my life and wants me to move on in my life.can anyone help me. will he come back——

All I can tell you is he's been pretty clear with you. Weather he has feelings or doesn't anymore he's not coming back. Guy who wants you would definitely not tell you to go find someone else trust me. No matter what sign he is. And well Caps from what I know so far when are done are really done for good. He may find it good to hook up from time to time but is that really what you want? I think he was just honest and fair to you stating his mind, don't think there's much you can do to change that. You can maybe keep seeing him like that but it may only postpone inevitable. I know it's hard to let go on a person you really want to keep in your life but if that was his decision there isn't much to do about it.

You bailed on him 2 times, there's no way he would go through it again no matter how much he was into you is how I see it. Honestly neither would I, and I'm not even Cap...

thanks for ur comments.