Saying I love you....does he mean it?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by astrologicallycurious on Sunday, June 14, 2009 and has 4 replies.

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@astrologicallycurious
17 Years

Ok, long story short. Deep, deep connection for over a year now but I'm a scared puppy. haha

One night, he texts me and says he meant what he said to me that night and I'm like...what did he say? We had both been drinking and I remember everything...he was very very sexual but I didn't let anything happen. I asked him what he had said...he said I told you I loved you and I meant it. I do not member this at all and trust me I would!

He's like he meant it but now I'm thinking was that his way of trying to get sex or could he be seriously confused? Do Caps say stuff like that just to be saying it? We've known each other for almost two years...I'm a virgo btw. He's funny as hell too and I have a hard time believing or trusting this charming sweetheart.

What should I say seriously regarding the "love" word?...

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@astrologicallycurious
17 Years

And I don't want to say it over text...I would like him to say this to me...where I actually can hear him say it while not drinking but I understand the drinking does help when talking. We act like high school kids and we are much older.

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@astrologicallycurious
17 Years

I don't want to have to ask him to say it....I want him to be comfortable enough to do so on his own. That I guess is the question... and the motives are the other...sorry I over think.

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@noirecapricornprincess
17 Years

WOW, this Virgo Capricorn connection is something else. Virgos seem to bring out the best in us and allow us to be carefree and have fun. that being said, I don't think your Capricorn would say he loved you just for sex. We don't generally toss around the L word for sex or just to say it. If We say it WE MEAN IT.