SmartOnTheRocks
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Share your experience with a Capricorn
I'm attracted to one. He is to me. Nothing happened. He's justt observing me all the time and me him 😄
Posted by SmartOnTheRocks😄 😄
I have always attracted Capricorns. My first boy friend was a Capricorn. And my last fling was one 2. He could have been a bf but I found out he had 5 other girlfriends.
People say Capricorns are emotionless. I find them too emotional. I love the fact that they straight talkers and are hard working. We have fun. I can spend and have spent 5 weeks with 1 and we were never bored. We always had something to talk about.
They always told me their deepest darkest secrets and spoiled me. The sex was in tense. We could go for hours without getting tired.
Only negative thing is the mind games. I mirrored them and dished it back and that's why they kept on coming back. Because I ALWAYS caught them with their bs. But I got tired and moved on. 1 is still close to me though. He spoils me with presents and a good night out. But he stays with his baby mommy. He comes to me for advice on how to treat her better. He treats her like a girl friend not a friend. With us friendship is solid and I told him he has to open up.
The other 1 hates my guts over the phone only. When I see him it's like I never left. We have fun have a good time too but the minute I leave he blames me for not giving us a chance and blocks me everywhere and then the cycle begins. like he really wants me to be gf number 6.
The girls we get along but at first they compete with me until they realize I'm just being me and then we click. We really close but they annoy me because they only come to me mostly when their relationship is going bad. I love the loyalty and fun times we share.
Bad characteristics are they lie a lot. They are pathological liars and create good stories. They also promiscuous. Good characteristics they fun easy going. loyal and spontaneous. hands down
lol is there one in every forum?
I get along with well enough, I am a attracted to them. Recent ex is a cap. When we were good it was amazing, when were bad it was horrifying.i compare it to a typhoon meeting an earthquake, it is beautiful chaos but so destructive. She didn't have the traits usually attached to caps though.
She didn't have the characteristics attached to the sign. She was way too dependent on other people to get things done for her and she was very lazy. I think she was with me because I was hard working and always ready to give her what she wanted,I like to take care of those I love. I think the biggest issue was that I wasn't making enough money to support the both of us, in her opinion. The two years we were together she lost four jobs.
So I was left to take care of the bills and housework throughout the relationship. I told her to go ahead and take a break and find out what you want to do, find what you want to do with your life go to school, get another job or she just wanted to stay home then stay home and just take care of the home. I got turned down for a supervisor position and she left me.
the sad thing is that I am now doing pretty well for myself and can totally afford to take care of the two of us. I love her but she is very toxic to me. I was probably toxic to her to be fair.
I loved her personality and she was my best friend and the sex was amazing but we just didn't click right in the work of the relationship. It was very unbalanced in that aspect.
In all honesty I have met some really great caps in my life had a couple of best friends that were caps. I think it mainly has to do with the maturity level of the person more than the sign. My ex was just immature and didn't know what she wanted and what she had. With time I guess.
Would I ever date one again probably lol make friends of course. little more wary yes lol for the most part I do get along with them and do make great connections.
She didn't have the characteristics attached to the sign. She was way too dependent on other people to get things done for her and she was very lazy. I think she was with me because I was hard working and always ready to give her what she wanted,I like to take care of those I love. I think the biggest issue was that I wasn't making enough money to support the both of us, in her opinion. The two years we were together she lost four jobs.
So I was left to take care of the bills and housework throughout the relationship. I told her to go ahead and take a break and find out what you want to do, find what you want to do with your life go to school, get another job or she just wanted to stay home then stay home and just take care of the home. I got turned down for a supervisor position and she left me.
the sad thing is that I am now doing pretty well for myself and can totally afford to take care of the two of us. I love her but she is very toxic to me. I was probably toxic to her to be fair.
I loved her personality and she was my best friend and the sex was amazing but we just didn't click right in the work of the relationship. It was very unbalanced in that aspect.
In all honesty I have met some really great caps in my life had a couple of best friends that were caps. I think it mainly has to do with the maturity level of the person more than the sign. My ex was just immature and didn't know what she wanted and what she had. With time I guess.
Would I ever date one again probably lol make friends of course. little more wary yes lol for the most part I do get along with them and do make great connections.
Posted by elguapolibraare you sure you are not the Capricorn and she the Libra. lol oh my word you are so sweet. And you will get someone deserving who will love you with all you have and stick around no matter the weather
I get along with well enough, I am a attracted to them. Recent ex is a cap. When we were good it was amazing, when were bad it was horrifying.i compare it to a typhoon meeting an earthquake, it is beautiful chaos but so destructive. She didn't have the traits usually attached to caps though.
She didn't have the characteristics attached to the sign. She was way too dependent on other people to get things done for her and she was very lazy. I think she was with me because I was hard working and always ready to give her what she wanted,I like to take care of those I love. I think the biggest issue was that I wasn't making enough money to support the both of us, in her opinion. The two years we were together she lost four jobs.
So I was left to take care of the bills and housework throughout the relationship. I told her to go ahead and take a break and find out what you want to do, find what you want to do with your life go to school, get another job or she just wanted to stay home then stay home and just take care of the home. I got turned down for a supervisor position and she left me.
the sad thing is that I am now doing pretty well for myself and can totally afford to take care of the two of us. I love her but she is very toxic to me. I was probably toxic to her to be fair.
I loved her personality and she was my best friend and the sex was amazing but we just didn't click right in the work of the relationship. It was very unbalanced in that aspect.
In all honesty I have met some really great caps in my life had a couple of best friends that were caps. I think it mainly has to do with the maturity level of the person more than the sign. My ex was just immature and didn't know what she wanted and what she had. With time I guess.
Would I ever date one again probably lol make friends of course. little more wary yes lol for the most part I do get along with them and do make great connections.
Lmao I was about to say that. I hear bad descriptions of Libra and I think of my ex. I checked her chart and she is pretty much all cap in the first six placements... I'm Virgo rising, Libra sun, Aquarius moon, mercury Scorpio, Aquarius Mars and Venus Scorpio... Maybe the other placements is where we clashed.. I'm more than certain it was just a maturity thing though. I know I will find someone, I just make bad decisions when it comes to women. I always look past the negative. I am a fool when it comes to love lmao
k Oh my word is that scorpio Venus. You look so handsome and you sound so sweet. has I been in your area I would date you and love you. And appreciate you. You only have 1 life learn to be selfish with yourself until you find someone deserving
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksthirsty girl
k Oh my word is that scorpio Venus. You look so handsome and you sound so sweet. has I been in your area I would date you and love you. And appreciate you. You only have 1 life learn to be selfish with yourself until you find someone deserving
nope sweety is called appreciating the good in someone. The World has made people who compliment other people to seem desperate thirsty or weak. Oh well. .. Enjoy your world I still sick to my appreciative nature
My most recent ex is a Capricorn and honestly, she's made me want to swear off of Cappies FOREVER!
When we first got together, things were great between us. She even told me that she felt like I was the one and could see a future with me. I felt the same way about her because she had all of the qualities I wanted in a woman, and I could truly see myself with her in the long run. She treated me like a princess.
So, one day, I sat down with her and we had a talk about something that I wasn't expecting to get her all riled up, but it did. She ignored me for a few days and then she stopped treating me the same. It was her way of punishing me for speaking my mind and when I confronted her about it, she denied everything. I noticed that I wasn't happy anymore, but I tried to stick it out in hopes of things getting better. They didn't though.
We eventually broke up and while it was amicable, the aftermath has been comparable to a nightmare. We went back and forth on social media (I'm young...sue me), tried to be friends with each other, the whole nine yards...it just wasn't working for me.
 So, I decided to go back into no contact with her and sent her a message Sunday night saying that we can't be friends or talk to each other anymore because I need to heal and move on. Of course, she got upset, but I didn't care. I told her that I had to do this for myself and for my sanity. She still wasn't hearing it and told me that I was being cruel for cutting her off. Once again, I explained that this was for my sanity because it's to difficult to be friends with you because my feelings for her are too strong and too deep. She finally backed down and told me that she would leave me alone. I thought it was over.
But it's far from over...
At my new job, I'm not allowed to have my phone on me while I work, so I put it on the charger in the breakroom. When it was time to take my lunch break, I checked my phone to see that I had multiple messages--one from my best friend, my uncle, my mom, and...Ms. Capricorn. She sent me messages back-to-back that started with a jokingly/vengeful like tone that said:
"So you're trying to move on from me? Ha!"
Which turned into :
"You can try moving on, but you're always going to remember what we had and what happened between us."
Which finally turned into this:
"And I'll make sure you never forget me."
When I read that last message, my heart stopped for a moment. I'm not afraid to admit this, but I'm scared. She's basically threatening me and feels that if she can't have me, then no one can. I haven't updated anything on social media in almost a month and she doesn't know my home address or where my job is, so that makes me feel okay, but if she's acting this way about the breakup and the no-contact...I know that she may possibly try to blackmail me.
She has officially made my "never date again" list.
When we first got together, things were great between us. She even told me that she felt like I was the one and could see a future with me. I felt the same way about her because she had all of the qualities I wanted in a woman, and I could truly see myself with her in the long run. She treated me like a princess.
So, one day, I sat down with her and we had a talk about something that I wasn't expecting to get her all riled up, but it did. She ignored me for a few days and then she stopped treating me the same. It was her way of punishing me for speaking my mind and when I confronted her about it, she denied everything. I noticed that I wasn't happy anymore, but I tried to stick it out in hopes of things getting better. They didn't though.
We eventually broke up and while it was amicable, the aftermath has been comparable to a nightmare. We went back and forth on social media (I'm young...sue me), tried to be friends with each other, the whole nine yards...it just wasn't working for me.
 So, I decided to go back into no contact with her and sent her a message Sunday night saying that we can't be friends or talk to each other anymore because I need to heal and move on. Of course, she got upset, but I didn't care. I told her that I had to do this for myself and for my sanity. She still wasn't hearing it and told me that I was being cruel for cutting her off. Once again, I explained that this was for my sanity because it's to difficult to be friends with you because my feelings for her are too strong and too deep. She finally backed down and told me that she would leave me alone. I thought it was over.
But it's far from over...
At my new job, I'm not allowed to have my phone on me while I work, so I put it on the charger in the breakroom. When it was time to take my lunch break, I checked my phone to see that I had multiple messages--one from my best friend, my uncle, my mom, and...Ms. Capricorn. She sent me messages back-to-back that started with a jokingly/vengeful like tone that said:
"So you're trying to move on from me? Ha!"
Which turned into :
"You can try moving on, but you're always going to remember what we had and what happened between us."
Which finally turned into this:
"And I'll make sure you never forget me."
When I read that last message, my heart stopped for a moment. I'm not afraid to admit this, but I'm scared. She's basically threatening me and feels that if she can't have me, then no one can. I haven't updated anything on social media in almost a month and she doesn't know my home address or where my job is, so that makes me feel okay, but if she's acting this way about the breakup and the no-contact...I know that she may possibly try to blackmail me.
She has officially made my "never date again" list.
Posted by champrangerI'm sure they aren't, but she's done enough damage.Posted by Chelsey07😱
At my new job, I'm not allowed to have my phone on me while I work, so I put it on the charger in the breakroom. When it was time to take my lunch break, I checked my phone to see that I had multiple messages--one from my best friend, my uncle, my mom, and...Ms. Capricorn. She sent me messages back-to-back that started with a jokingly/vengeful like tone that said:
"So you're trying to move on from me? Ha!"
Which turned into :
"You can try moving on, but you're always going to remember what we had and what happened between us."
Which finally turned into this:
"And I'll make sure you never forget me."
When I read that last message, my heart stopped for a moment. I'm not afraid to admit this, but I'm scared. She's basically threatening me and feels that if she can't have me, then no one can. I haven't updated anything on social media in almost a month and she doesn't know my home address or where my job is, so that makes me feel okay, but if she's acting this way about the breakup and the no-contact...I know that she may possibly try to blackmail me.
She has officially made my "never date again" list.
Sorry to hear that. 😢 I'm sure not all Caps are like that. 🙂click to expand
Posted by Chelsey07
My most recent ex is a Capricorn and honestly, she's made me want to swear off of Cappies FOREVER!
When we first got together, things were great between us. She even told me that she felt like I was the one and could see a future with me. I felt the same way about her because she had all of the qualities I wanted in a woman, and I could truly see myself with her in the long run. She treated me like a princess.
So, one day, I sat down with her and we had a talk about something that I wasn't expecting to get her all riled up, but it did. She ignored me for a few days and then she stopped treating me the same. It was her way of punishing me for speaking my mind and when I confronted her about it, she denied everything. I noticed that I wasn't happy anymore, but I tried to stick it out in hopes of things getting better. They didn't though.
We eventually broke up and while it was amicable, the aftermath has been comparable to a nightmare. We went back and forth on social media (I'm young...sue me), tried to be friends with each other, the whole nine yards...it just wasn't working for me.
 So, I decided to go back into no contact with her and sent her a message Sunday night saying that we can't be friends or talk to each other anymore because I need to heal and move on. Of course, she got upset, but I didn't care. I told her that I had to do this for myself and for my sanity. She still wasn't hearing it and told me that I was being cruel for cutting her off. Once again, I explained that this was for my sanity because it's to difficult to be friends with you because my feelings for her are too strong and too deep. She finally backed down and told me that she would leave me alone. I thought it was over.
But it's far from over...
At my new job, I'm not allowed to have my phone on me while I work, so I put it on the charger in the breakroom. When it was time to take my lunch break, I checked my phone to see that I had multiple messages--one from my best friend, my uncle, my mom, and...Ms. Capricorn. She sent me messages back-to-back that started with a jokingly/vengeful like tone that said:
"So you're trying to move on from me? Ha!"
Which turned into :
"You can try moving on, but you're always going to remember what we had and what happened between us."
Which finally turned into this:
"And I'll make sure you never forget me."
When I read that last message, my heart stopped for a moment. I'm not afraid to admit this, but I'm scared. She's basically threatening me and feels that if she can't have me, then no one can. I haven't updated anything on social media in almost a month and she doesn't know my home address or where my job is, so that makes me feel okay, but if she's acting this way about the
yes welcome to my life. He literally sent a pic of me to all my family and my friends and he still didn't get a reaction from me.
I just kept quiet and moved along. I'm still nice to him and we hook up once in a while but I NEVER let him in my personal life. He is x obsessive and a bit psycho but when he's normal he's fun. But the no contact rule stick it until you run into her and act normal. The more you don't react the more stupid they become
Posted by Aggrippina66789Hey mine was an assclown too. She was mentally draining and her breaking up with me has probably been the best thing she's done. Now to get her to leave me alone...
No I won't ....arseholes!
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksThat's what I'm afraid of about her. I sent her some *pictures* while we were together and if she's doing all of this because of something as simple as No-contact, I can only imagine what she'd do with those pictures. She hasn't reached out (for today at least) and I'm feeling much better.
yes welcome to my life. He literally sent a pic of me to all my family and my friends and he still didn't get a reaction from me.
I just kept quiet and moved along. I'm still nice to him and we hook up once in a while but I NEVER let him in my personal life. He is x obsessive and a bit psycho but when he's normal he's fun. But the no contact rule stick it until you run into her and act normal. The more you don't react the more stupid they become
Oh yeah, she flips all holy butter on me when I don't answer her calls or texts. It's pretty funny actually 🙂
Posted by Aggrippina66789I hope so too. How are you holding up?Posted by Chelsey07Be strong I hope she does leave you be now ..Posted by Aggrippina66789Hey mine was an assclown too. She was mentally draining and her breaking up with me has probably been the best thing she's done. Now to get her to leave me alone...
No I won't ....arseholes!click to expand
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