@mzcancerian00
10 Years
Capricorns are NOT what ASTROLOGY proclaims them to be lol
This isn't how astrology works.
Sorry to hear about your bad relationship.
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.
True indeed. Such a sad case. Mine cheated on me too
Posted by ramengirl
I'm sure you contributed to the downfall of the relationship. People usually attract what they are or intentionally hide.You focus a lot on his negative aspects, yet you stayed with him for months only to leave him during the holidays. If you knew about incompatibility issues then perhaps your distress is of your own doing by not listening to your gut.
There is nothing wrong with Capricorns. There are millions of people on this planet with that sign. Two relationships is hardly a qualifier for such generalized statements.
The Capricorns I know are brutally honest or completely indecisive.
The Cancers I know can be extremely kind or extremely patronizing.
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Well if you read in entirety, you will see like in the first or second sentence before I started my rampage on his negativity, that I stated I am BIG on working thing out in relationships, and even establishing one with signs I may not be compatible with because signs don't 100% define a person. I am the type of person to give people the benefit of the doubt(if you want to mention downfall...then yes giving people multiple chances knowing full well it is a waste of time is my MAJOR downfall). The first few months were amazing but apparently he got comfortable and I started seeing his true side. You must be a Capricorn? lol Something is wrong with them(sorry) just like Im sure people think something is wrong with Cancers(based on the Cancer forum I see more negative then positive but not even about to go there lol) That particular Capricorn wouldn't know the definition of honesty let alone know how to spell honesty. I always asked him several times to let me know where I stand with him and he would claim he loves me and there is no problem. I go by actions and honey his actions did not compare to his bs out his mouth. I am extremely kind yet patronizing when need be. *shrugs* I am loyal until I see my loyalty is being taken for granted and lord behold I can be a coldhearted individual when played with.
Oh I don't know because it just seem like you were a bit offended by my negativity towards Capricorns lol I totally agree. Me hoping he would appreciate my LOYALTLY(that he claim is the reason he fell in love with me from the start, yeah I bet) and because I did love him, is why I stayed. It usually doesn't take a year for me to get tired of crap but I guess I also got comfortable with his BEST qualities which eventually disappeared. I was just honestly venting because this is the second failed relationship with a Capricorn. So from now on, Im just steering clear of them or any other sign that shows CLEAR red flags.
The red flag I'm seeing is your blaming-everyone-else-for-everything attitude. If you would steer clear from capricorns in the future, I'm sure we would all be much obliged.
Posted by HappyCapper
The red flag I'm seeing is your blaming-everyone-else-for-everything attitude. If you would steer clear from capricorns in the future, I'm sure we would all be much obliged.
Go figure. Hey Cappy! First off I never blamed him for everything...did you read my post or just quick to take defense because you too are a Capricorn? You sound just like him, when someone tells you the problems they have with you, you switch it around and put it on the other person. How am I possibly blaming somebody for their ACTIONS? Illogical bs. If that's how the person is, oh well so be it, I stated it and moved on. Im no longer with the asswipe because whenever I felt like I could express how I felt about his ways, he gets upset and does exactly what you are doing lol Anyway Im over it and the fact still remains about him...he is childish, inconsiderate, definitely not loyal and a liar. Get over it lol
Posted by Koniucha
They way you described him sounds a lot like a Cancer....
Lol really?
Posted by HappyCapper
The red flag I'm seeing is your blaming-everyone-else-for-everything attitude. If you would steer clear from capricorns in the future, I'm sure we would all be much obliged.Go figure. Hey Cappy! First off I never blamed him for everything...did you read my post or just quick to take defense because you too are a Capricorn? You sound just like him, when someone tells you the problems they have with you, you switch it around and put it on the other person. How am I possibly blaming somebody for their ACTIONS? Illogical bs. If that's how the person is, oh well so be it, I stated it and moved on. Im no longer with the asswipe because whenever I felt like I could express how I felt about his ways, he gets upset and does exactly what you are doing lol Anyway Im over it and the fact still remains about him...he is childish, inconsiderate, definitely not loyal and a liar. Get over it lol
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Sorry, I can't even take you seriously. The funniest thing about your last post is you calling him childish. I mean, have you read your own posts? Seriously? And if you have been lurking for such a long time, you should know we like line breaks. A lot.
Where is his moon?
We don't care, go away..
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.
You were not a part of his plans. Sorry.
Posted by ramengirl
I'm sure you contributed to the downfall of the relationship. People usually attract what they are or intentionally hide.You focus a lot on his negative aspects, yet you stayed with him for months only to leave him during the holidays. If you knew about incompatibility issues then perhaps your distress is of your own doing by not listening to your gut.
There is nothing wrong with Capricorns. There are millions of people on this planet with that sign. Two relationships is hardly a qualifier for such generalized statements.
The Capricorns I know are brutally honest or completely indecisive.
The Cancers I know can be extremely kind or extremely patronizing.
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And extreme hypocrites.
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.True indeed. Such a sad case. Mine cheated on me too
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I don't blame him.
i would comment on your thread, but there's something wrong with me.
I guess...uhmm....maybe....possibly....uhmmmm....it's because I'm a capricorn?
Posted by truecap
i would comment on your thread, but there's something wrong with me.I guess...uhmm....maybe....possibly....uhmmmm....it's because I'm a capricorn?
Ewww! You freak! 😉
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.You were not a part of his plans. Sorry.
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Hers*. And it's for the best. She asked me to marry her twice, said no both times, so her plans after that involved having sex with someone else while trying to keep it a secret. Ha.
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.Show me proof.
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Believe what you will. You've most likely believed lies in the past unbeknownst to you, and assumed the true facts were lies too.
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.Show me proof.
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For your entertainment:
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.You were not a part of his plans. Sorry.
Hers*. And it's for the best. She asked me to marry her twice, said no both times, so her plans after that involved having sex with someone else while trying to keep it a secret. Ha.
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Damn, she must've taken those no's really personal.
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.You were not a part of his plans. Sorry.
Hers*. And it's for the best. She asked me to marry her twice, said no both times, so her plans after that involved having sex with someone else while trying to keep it a secret. Ha.
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Ooo! Charming. 😢
Posted by mission
My ex-Cap cheated on me. Caps are loyal to their own plans.You were not a part of his plans. Sorry.
Hers*. And it's for the best. She asked me to marry her twice, said no both times, so her plans after that involved having sex with someone else while trying to keep it a secret. Ha.
Damn, she must've taken those no's really personal.
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Pretty sure it was borderline personality disorder.
Caps rule, you drool.
That is all.
you're a moron, hope your kids turn out to be capricorns
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Well hello you all!! I have been lurking around on the forum for awhile, particularly the Cappy section, and I must say my ex Cappy is totally not described in this forum. Hence my username, yes I'm a Cancer, ummm we aren't compatible with Capricorns anyway lol However although I may be big on astrology, I am also big on things can work out regardless of signs. WELL, this is the second Capricorn I have dated or established a relationship with and I'm started to totally believe THRE IS NO WAY AROUND IT...CANCERS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE WITH CAPRICORNS lol Well this relationship lasted a year, I finally broke up with him on Christmas Eve. Boo hoo...I know I should have waited until after the holidays but I doubt very seriously I wouldn't survive without wanting to drink bleach first(don't get offended or take that seriously, I am NOT suicidal) SOMETHING IS REALLY WRONG WITH CAPRICORNS!! Well this particular relationship was totally different, the first Cappy I dated only lasted five months(he was entirely too childish) well the one I just currently ended because me being the intuitive Cancerian I am(sometimes I hate that because I feel like Im right even when Im wrong), well he started giving me the cold shoulder. Mind you we have been arguing on and off for the past gazillion months over him not willing to take consideration of my feelings about him being INCONSIDERATE, LAZY, SELFISH AND A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR!! So long story short, when I am fed up, I get quiet and just start making plans to move on...oh yeah I have mentioned to him NUMEROUS times that I am sick of his bs and want to leave. Ha! Typical behavior he shows "compassion" and apologizes, which I don't even know if he is genuine or not. ANYWAY..they say capricorns are LOYAL, AMBITIOUS, LOVING, BLAH BLAH BLAH...but this Capricorn was the total opposite. He was beyond lazy, always played the victim, very manipulative, always making assumptions instead of being a GROWN man and just downright a headache. So I broke up with him and he decides to steal my phone, break it and then badmouth me on facebook. So in conclusion I am done with CAPRICORNS!
Me being a Cancer could not and will not play the guessing game with a damn Capricorn lol Why can't Cappys just be honest on how they feel instead of reversing it back on YOU and acting like a baby? Why cant they accept criticism and TRY? Just a waste of time dealing with them personally.