Should I contact him?

Don't push and wait until he has time to spend with you. If you see him in public just give him a smile and continue on unless he wants to talk to you. You could try phoning or texting him to see how he's doing and so on but don't push it, Capricorn can get irritated. If you do continue to push we tend to lose interest.

Posted by kalin
I think the problem is if he has lost respect for her already since they started things off as a 1-night stand...?

I tend to agree. Giving up the goods so soon takes away the challenge. Cap men like to work for what they get, they don't respect or appreciate things that come easy to them.

Posted by littlelove
I don't think he has lost respect for me. He knows that I rarely do one night stands.
And he was the one who initiated it.

So you compromised your principals for him? How is he supposed to believe he's that special. If you did it for him, you've probably done it for others.

Not attacking you, but that is the mind of a capricorn.

Of course, he could be open minded and I could be wrong. *hoping*.

All that said, though, what have you got to lose? Give it a week or two and find a reason to contact him. Don't make it seem obvious, just ask him a question about something he knows about that you need an opinion on. It's contacting, but it's not chasing. Puts the ball in his court.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
She *has* a reason to contact him. What's so wrong with shooting a text saying that she knows he's busy, but she had a good time and wouldn't mind seeing him again?

Ehhhh...maybe that's okay. but, perhaps this would have been more appropriate the next day. But a few days later? It seems like begging for attention if he hasn't contacted her.

Just my humble opinion.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
ps. I hate these threads just as much as you.

🙂