Someone else HATES all that Water people?

I just don't know why, has been 3 months I discovered astrology, and I realized the people that I could not build a friendship or even stand what they talk, is water people, in special Pisces and Cancer.
I mean... C'mon, I make a question and the answer can be YES or NO, and the person just MANAGES to run in circles and "answer my question with another question"? o.0
Wait, wait, wait... How can I not kill this guy? Let's try one more time...
Now the person answers "Well, it depends you know"
Ok, I give up. Die alone.
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And I will not even start talking about sex with Cancer woman, let me put this way: "Sex with lights off or eyes closed IS NOT nice"

I love water signs, they're very nice. I could never date one besides scorpio. Pisces and cancer are very needy, I feel like I'm babysitting, which I actually don't mind if we're just friends. Other than that they're very kind people.

True, Scorpios likes a practical aproach too.
But damn, as you can see by this thread all they 3 signs seems to drawn women attention because of the mistery. So I feel envy for it, because I know all they do is talking and when it's time to do it it goes other way. "The marketing" is great you know, gotta learn it from them. Cheers.

I'm a cancer, do you hate me?

I've found the same things you have, all my friends are either aquarius, gemini, or leos, aries, sagits, virgos, i can count just one scorpio and I kinda hate him, he's all about sex and showing off who has the biggest penis. And my other cancer friend is kinda gay, I can't talk straightforward or he gets offended and withdraws.

I guess they got my date wrong.

Posted by theie
Hey OP


im a scorpio


Trust me, when i look into your eyes your legs will shake

you will realize that youre a poor insect infront of water people, instantly


also dont bring your girlfriend around me..

she will realize that youre a small limited person 😉)))))

Nah, you are just an 19 year old kid that surely lives with his mom.

ALL the water signs?

Well, this here cap LIKES the water signs!

Sometimes I dont like scorpios, because they usually are too pretentious.

As for Cancers they are somewhat tricky and mean sometimes lol

No hard feelings.

exceptions only assure the rules

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Posted by FeelingShred
I just don't know why, has been 3 months I discovered astrology, and I realized the people that I could not build a friendship or even stand what they talk, is water people, in special Pisces and Cancer.
I mean... C'mon, I make a question and the answer can be YES or NO, and the person just MANAGES to run in circles and "answer my question with another question"? o.0
Wait, wait, wait... How can I not kill this guy? Let's try one more time...
Now the person answers "Well, it depends you know"
Ok, I give up. Die alone.
.
And I will not even start talking about sex with Cancer woman, let me put this way: "Sex with lights off or eyes closed IS NOT nice"

So I am wondering, Taurus: Why did you pick the Cap board to post this bs?

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Good point. Why did ya?

He thinks Caps are water signs? or he is a Cap disguised as a Taurus?

Messy

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
He thinks Caps are water signs? or he is a Cap disguised as a Taurus?

The plot thickens ...;p

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hihi, someone might drown in a pool of water

Im not the greatest water sign fan either, I like them in small doses. Dealing with them can get draining, Im about action, they are about being emo 😛

I like water signs, but I usually have problems with air signs (except Libra).

i *feel* as though we are collectively putting too much thought into this

Posted by conflictedfish
This is an example of letting astrology get WAYYYYY too far into your heads.

A. Sun sign does not even come close to defining an entire person, its called a birth chart dude.
B. A birth chart does not even come close to defining an entire person, Its called life experiences dude.
C. Go along judging everyone you meet because of their sign, you will be the one dying alone.

LOL a dxp-noob trying to teach us astrology, bless him.

Posted by conflictedfish
This is an example of letting astrology get WAYYYYY too far into your heads.

A. Sun sign does not even come close to defining an entire person, its called a birth chart dude.
B. A birth chart does not even come close to defining an entire person, Its called life experiences dude.
C. Go along judging everyone you meet because of their sign, you will be the one dying alone.

Great answer 🙂

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by conflictedfish
This is an example of letting astrology get WAYYYYY too far into your heads.

A. Sun sign does not even come close to defining an entire person, its called a birth chart dude.
B. A birth chart does not even come close to defining an entire person, Its called life experiences dude.
C. Go along judging everyone you meet because of their sign, you will be the one dying alone.

LOL a dxp-noob trying to teach us astrology, bless him.

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He might be new here :: does't mean he is new to anything or even astrology.

A warm welcome 🙂

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by conflictedfish
This is an example of letting astrology get WAYYYYY too far into your heads.

A. Sun sign does not even come close to defining an entire person, its called a birth chart dude.
B. A birth chart does not even come close to defining an entire person, Its called life experiences dude.
C. Go along judging everyone you meet because of their sign, you will be the one dying alone.

LOL a dxp-noob trying to teach us astrology, bless him.

He might be new here :: does't mean he is new to anything or even astrology.

A warm welcome 🙂

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He's an idiot because he launched an attack on everybody based only on what he read on this thread, he should definitely read a few more of dxp before assuming we are all newbs to astrology, in fact personally when I started studying astrology this dumb noob was probably struggling to say his very first words.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by conflictedfish
This is an example of letting astrology get WAYYYYY too far into your heads.

A. Sun sign does not even come close to defining an entire person, its called a birth chart dude.
B. A birth chart does not even come close to defining an entire person, Its called life experiences dude.
C. Go along judging everyone you meet because of their sign, you will be the one dying alone.

LOL a dxp-noob trying to teach us astrology, bless him.

He might be new here :: does't mean he is new to anything or even astrology.

A warm welcome 🙂

He's an idiot because he launched an attack on everybody based only on what he read on this thread, he should definitely read a few more of dxp before assuming we are all newbs to astrology, in fact personally when I started studying astrology this dumb noob was probably struggling to say his very first words.

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I have never seen his others posts. This answer seemed harmless.

Posted by ellessque
I'm too lazy to read.

Did he ever answer why he decided to put this on the cap board?

seems like he's trying to troll.

no...

Posted by 88PisceScorp
Besides you are too stubborn anyways, any answer I give will not be what you want to hear or you will act on it, so why bother.

^^^^^^ this ^^^^^^

I mean there is nothing wrong with generally not liking water signs, if its not your bag its cool. But I often find Earth signs who proclaim they dislike us a bit humorous, like my Cappy sister, who for years lamented her dislike for water signs due to being the only earth sign in a family of water signs (my mother is a scorpio).

I find it hilarious because this type of mindset often comes from the perfectionistic always right tendency Caps exhibit, They are absolutely sure that they have it all figured out and a plan for everything that they miss out on the fact that life isn't that easy or perfect to navigate even with the perfect plan. My sis was so sure that she disliked water signs that she was surprised when she found herself leaving her Taurus Boyfriend for a Pisces. This surprised me as well but not as much because I knew that she had a lot of growth to do on her constant desire for order and for things to go her way.

I respect the OP on how he feels about the lack of direct answers, but life doesn't merit always a yes or no answers, most water signs see limitless possibilities in any one situation, and realize that choosing is not always as a simple task as earth signs would like it to be.

Sometimes We (water signs) can see that our answers sometimes don't matter, especially if we can tell someone has their mind made up or is stubborn, or just don't plain care.

or listen to this http://www.rainymood.com/</a><BR>

LOL @ "I give up, die alone".....to funny.

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Posted by Lex
I respect the OP on how he feels about the lack of direct answers, but life doesn't merit always a yes or no answers, most water signs see limitless possibilities in any one situation, and realize that choosing is not always as a simple task as earth signs would like it to be.

Sometimes We (water signs) can see that our answers sometimes don't matter, especially if we can tell someone has their mind made up or is stubborn, or just don't plain care.

Often it's not a yes or no answer that people look for. I do recognize that some questions are difficult to answer or people are not comfortable answering, but the lack of a straight forward answer also leaves a lot of room for doubt in one's mind. It also leaves room for misinterpretation.

While it's true that there may some questions where the person feels they are know the answer and do not want to hear other possibilities, often it's more about those questions that DO matter and that the other person may not like having their questions remain unanswered.

I hope I make sense lol. Just my opinion. 🙂

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I can empathize with the impending feeling of doubt that people can feel when they feel like their answer isn't being answered. However it has been my experience as a self proclaimed wishy washy watery person that I have no problem admitting to anyone that the answer I have to give is either more than just one definite response, or cannot just be answered in the manner in which someone would like. When and if that is the case I will tell someone out right that my final answer is that indefinite.

Its only awkward because I can tell when I am dealing with someone who doesn't quite get how an indefinite answer is definite. Hence why in the end we feel like our answers don't matter, especially when someone is not satisfied with the honesty in our response. I do like to add that I do know when to be absolutely definite when necessary, but in most cases that usually regard to big life changing questions that don't come around too often.

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Posted by Lex

Posted by 88PisceScorp
Besides you are too stubborn anyways, any answer I give will not be what you want to hear or you will act on it, so why bother.

Sometimes We (water signs) can see that our answers sometimes don't matter, especially if we can tell someone has their mind made up or is stubborn, or just don't plain care.

So... you give yourself the power to decide whether someone else will or will not accept your answer before even letting them hear it? See, I think that is very presumptuous to withhold information based on how you THINK the person might respond. I think it is a respectful thing to just be honest/direct with them if they asked you a question. Whether they want to accept it or not afterwards is their concern.

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Sometimes its a bother, kind of like what 88 said if its a stupid question, is it presumptuous, yes. I will totally own up to that, but as a fish I don't like the hassle. But overall I personally have no problem giving people the answer they might not want to hear, I just don't like hearing the complaining all the time that the response wasn't "direct" enough. It gets tiresome and I cannot blame myself for wanting to avoid the situation all together at times. *typical pisces shrug*

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Posted by Lex

Sometimes We (water signs) can see that our answers sometimes don't matter, especially if we can tell someone has their mind made up or is stubborn, or just don't plain care.

this is more a mutable pisces trait.

you won't really see that from a fixed scorpio or cardinal cancer.

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I would agree with this to a degree, given I am not a scorpio or cancer I don't know how they internally handle things. But from and external view, my mother a Scorpio is pretty good about being direct when she is comfortable with the question, which is generally most of the time. She does have her moments where she gets quietly fussy and says a lot of nothing that matters to the question.

The best example I had was when I had asked her if she had done a body count for a party she was planning and stressing about, she gave me indirect roundabout answers that made no sense. I called her out and told her she directly wasn't giving a number to show she had counted. She finally admitted after vetting her for a while that she had not counted the R.S.V.P's, something that would have minimized her stress.

First point, I loved all the answers, this thread had more replies than I expected. By the way, I posted this under Capricorn section because that is my ascendant. I planned to ask that in Taurus section too, but I was caught by lazyness the half way and did finish my plan LOLOLOL
Second point, I posted this on the —Capricorn?? area, but as everyone can see, the majority of people posting here were Water-sings people. It lost a bit of balance, since I wanted to know if my other Earth colleagues think the same way, and through that I want to learn more —love?? and less —rage??, since that's basically the —mission?? we all came down to do on this insane world, isn't it?
Third point, my —rage?? is based on the fact I knew many water sign people, but all of them showed a —pattern of behavior??, that I actually find very curious to study about, since 6 months ago I did not even know about astrology and all that stuff. I am quite shocked by this whole thing —cause it can be quite a —mind-reading?? tool. Imagine if you apply that from a sales perspective. Or to give children advice to know what will they do when they become adults. Quite interesting after all.

This —pattern of behavior?? I was talking about happened with Pisces and Cancer peers. I did not notice that in Scorpio peers. It was like this: They come to me (with that hopeless depressing face) asking my help. The first thing I notice, they don't give a S*** if I am in the middle of some hard task, they come to me and demand all the attention instantly. Ok child, ok, let's go. I stop what I was doing, because I am feel great helping others (don't know if it's an Aries moon trait or if it's my Libra MC). I show the guy how to do the thing. Before I even finish explaining the task to the dumb5h1t, he interrupts me with a loud voice —But if I do that way—. Oh, seems that he knew it all the time, but even so he felt the NEED to use my precious time anyway. Not even some —Thanks dude?? after the explanation. By that time I just go back to my desk to finish what I was doing and trying not to set the whole office on fire and spitting on the cadavers next.
Another —behavior?? of that people I observed, is their atraction to money, lots of it by the way. They just lick balls of superiors (a way to get more money). And usually when they get promoted they don't mention YOU was the guy who teach him to do that task. Even if they don't do as many results per-hour than you, they achieve —success?? because they lick balls so much (Water in the Balls? LOL) This happened to me and three other friends of mine, all with water people, so that —behavior?? is observed using real examples.
The only solution I can see is: —Stop helping others, because no one gonna help you when you need??. I mean, is that what life is supposed to be? I can't understand that, but seems to be reality.

Posted by cappy129
I love water signs, they're very nice. I could never date one besides scorpio. Pisces and cancer are very needy, I feel like I'm babysitting, which I actually don't mind if we're just friends. Other than that they're very kind people.

Feel the same way. Scorpios are my favorite water sign; I just get along well with them as a Capricorn.

Posted by FeelingShred
This —pattern of behavior?? I was talking about happened with Pisces and Cancer peers. I did not notice that in Scorpio peers. It was like this: They come to me (with that hopeless depressing face) asking my help. The first thing I notice, they don't give a S*** if I am in the middle of some hard task, they come to me and demand all the attention instantly. Ok child, ok, let's go. I stop what I was doing, because I am feel great helping others (don't know if it's an Aries moon trait or if it's my Libra MC). I show the guy how to do the thing. Before I even finish explaining the task to the dumb5h1t, he interrupts me with a loud voice —But if I do that way—. Oh, seems that he knew it all the time, but even so he felt the NEED to use my precious time anyway. Not even some —Thanks dude?? after the explanation. By that time I just go back to my desk to finish what I was doing and trying not to set the whole office on fire and spitting on the cadavers next.
Another —behavior?? of that people I observed, is their atraction to money, lots of it by the way. They just lick balls of superiors (a way to get more money). And usually when they get promoted they don't mention YOU was the guy who teach him to do that task. Even if they don't do as many results per-hour than you, they achieve —success?? because they lick balls so much (Water in the Balls? LOL) This happened to me and three other friends of mine, all with water people, so that —behavior?? is observed using real examples.
The only solution I can see is: —Stop helping others, because no one gonna help you when you need??. I mean, is that what life is supposed to be? I can't understand that, but seems to be reality.

Perhaps you need new water friends. Water and earth goes good together, if you make the right connection. Maybe with your chart strong in fire you are uncomfortable and intolerant of certain aspects of their personality.

I love when people don't realize that we don't give a fuck what they think!!

Posted by LunarMaiden
I love when people don't realize that we don't give a fuck what they think!!

You cared enough to reply to this thread 😛 if you really didnt care you would have just ignored it.

But like I said before, in general I like water signs in small doses 🙂

At the end of the day this thread is about a frustrated kid trying to vent, who wants to use astrology to make his case, when his issues go way beyond astrology.

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Posted by LunarMaiden
I love when people don't realize that we don't give a fuck what they think!!

You cared enough to reply to this thread 😛 if you really didnt care you would have just ignored it.

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How about some creativity for once. You really need to keep up with the thread to understand why I made that comment. But of course this phrase is so common and overused you jumped right on it.

Yet my point stands, no matter how it is said.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Yet my point stands, no matter how it is said.

Not really, you just look silly.

Posted by champranger

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Posted by LunarMaiden
I love when people don't realize that we don't give a fuck what they think!!

You cared enough to reply to this thread 😛 if you really didnt care you would have just ignored it.

I don't think this was directed at OP ...

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It wasn't. Thank you for being intelligent 🙂

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Yet my point stands, no matter how it is said.

Not really, you just look silly.

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Ive never been afraid of looking silly, dahlin'. I dont take myself seriously enough for that, you on the other hand..

i can relate to you OP. mercury in pisces makes me want to die sometimes. they communicate totally differently.

Posted by StillWater
LOL I don't know why all of you guys are getting defensive and trying to change his mind.

He has the right to his opinions based on his experience. He's not insulting anyone.

Anyways, I can't say I hate water signs but I understand what you mean. I also value directness a lot.

+1

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Im not the greatest water sign fan either, I like them in small doses. Dealing with them can get draining, Im about action, they are about being emo 😛

i agree, sometimes its difficult to be around them. all the moping and moodiness and pessimism.

hopeless depressing face

this guy is FUNNY!

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Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Yet my point stands, no matter how it is said.

Not really, you just look silly.

Ive never been afraid of looking silly, dahlin'. I dont take myself seriously enough for that, you on the other hand..

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Good for you, I hope you enjoy yourself.

Posted by FeelingShred
This —pattern of behavior?? I was talking about happened with Pisces and Cancer peers. I did not notice that in Scorpio peers. It was like this: They come to me (with that hopeless depressing face) asking my help. The first thing I notice, they don't give a S*** if I am in the middle of some hard task, they come to me and demand all the attention instantly. Ok child, ok, let's go. I stop what I was doing, because I am feel great helping others (don't know if it's an Aries moon trait or if it's my Libra MC). I show the guy how to do the thing. Before I even finish explaining the task to the dumb5h1t, he interrupts me with a loud voice —But if I do that way—. Oh, seems that he knew it all the time, but even so he felt the NEED to use my precious time anyway. Not even some —Thanks dude?? after the explanation. By that time I just go back to my desk to finish what I was doing and trying not to set the whole office on fire and spitting on the cadavers next.
Another —behavior?? of that people I observed, is their atraction to money, lots of it by the way. They just lick balls of superiors (a way to get more money). And usually when they get promoted they don't mention YOU was the guy who teach him to do that task. Even if they don't do as many results per-hour than you, they achieve —success?? because they lick balls so much (Water in the Balls? LOL) This happened to me and three other friends of mine, all with water people, so that —behavior?? is observed using real examples.
The only solution I can see is: —Stop helping others, because no one gonna help you when you need??. I mean, is that what life is supposed to be? I can't understand that, but seems to be reality.

im sorry, but this shit is good and quite accurate.

mercury in cancer, sidesteps its way through communication. side to side.

mercury in scorpio, answers questions that havent even been asked. i admit that one being one myself. never stays on the topic.

mercury in fire is so direct. straight to the point

not too much experience with the air/earth folk, except for merc in gemini; they bounce around topic to topic. merc in tauri have lovely voices; perfect for radio.

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Posted by FeelingShred
They just lick balls of superiors (a way to get more money). And usually when they get promoted they don't mention YOU was the guy who teach him to do that task. Even if they don't do as many results per-hour than you, they achieve —success?? because they lick balls so much (Water in the Balls? LOL)

im sorry, but this shit is good and quite accurate.

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Lol. I dont know. I have seen this done best from a cap female. THEN followed by a cancer female. As a Scorp I would rather cut off my tounge then lick the balls of a superior. *shrug*

Yes, maybe my mental age is 14 years old, maybe I am demanding so much of the world.
I know one thing for sure: everything I get my hands into, I do my best, and more than often I don't receive any extra bonus for this effort. I can't stand waiting 3 months to know that I've been used. Is it called "instant gratificaton"? OK, do I admit it.
I am talking about my 10 jobs I've passed the last 3 years, 8 of them I quit, the other 2 I got fired. I wanna know a job that pleases my hunger for "instant gratification", and I need to know that fast, because I am in fear my money is over and I go on becoming a homeless, even knowing I have strong leadership traits and I am loyal.
Just, don't ask me to be loyal to a lier boss, that tries to use me for his own benefit. I want to receive a good amount of money, for the good amount of dedication I put into it.
Anybody feels used too?