lisathom893
@lisathom893
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Posted by FrenchKpricornAww. You're bad. Just bad I say!!!Posted by truecap
He probably likes you, but how smart is it to mess around with a subordinate? Career suicide, in my opinion.
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Posted by lisathom893Just like with women, when they have a crush, that person isn't just hot, but also holds a superior title, it's attractive yet intimidating at the same time.
Hi Greentea thanks for your response! What do you mean not just physically but to my status too?

Posted by lisathom893Ya it seems like a crush.
So it sounds like it's a crush?
I was wondering because I had started to feel like maybe he just hated my guts.
But now i don't know how to respond to him since he's so awkward around me.

Posted by cheekyfaerieI woukd not.take it any further than colleagues, but eventually the ice needs to be broken if they're going to work together. Cap is shy around her and may be attracted, she can keep it strictly professional though.Posted by GreenteaGiven their work situation, I'd say appropriate isn't exactly the right word.Posted by lisathom893Ya it seems like a crush.
So it sounds like it's a crush?
I was wondering because I had started to feel like maybe he just hated my guts.
But now i don't know how to respond to him since he's so awkward around me.
Talk to him, two awkward people is not going to get either one of you anywhere. However I would wait until it's the appropriate time to do so.click to expand

Posted by lisathom893Probably lol
So this "attraction" is what is preventing him from even being cordial enough to say Good morning?
And avoiding me at all costs as if his life depended on it?

Posted by lisathom893What's your sun sign?
So this "attraction" is what is preventing him from even being cordial enough to say Good morning?
And avoiding me at all costs as if his life depended on it?

Posted by lisathom893How is that similar?
Funny thing is we have extremely similar charts.
He is Capricorn sun, libra moon, capricorn merc, saggitarius venus
i am Gemini sun, capricorn moon, gemini merc, gemini venus
Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Posted by lisathom893lol
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Posted by FrenchKpricornsag venus/sag mars *smh*Posted by truecap
He probably likes you, but how smart is it to mess around with a subordinate? Career suicide, in my opinion.
challenge acceptedclick to expand
Posted by HappyCapperI love helpful information. Just like this.Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?click to expand
Posted by lisathom893Ah, so if I don't agree with you i should do what? Lie or shut it?Posted by HappyCapperI love helpful information. Just like this.Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Is it a capricorn thing to be so obnoxious instead of giving a response related to the actual question/issue?click to expand
Posted by HappyCapperERRR...or you could just still to the question/issue posted.Posted by lisathom893Ah, so if I don't agree with you i should do what? Lie or shut it?Posted by HappyCapperI love helpful information. Just like this.Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Is it a capricorn thing to be so obnoxious instead of giving a response related to the actual question/issue?click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieExactly.Posted by lisathom893You set em off when you finished with the, "got it truecap?" bit. It reads condescending.Posted by HappyCapperI love helpful information. Just like this.Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Is it a capricorn thing to be so obnoxious instead of giving a response related to the actual question/issue?click to expand

Posted by lisathom893Posted by HappyCapperI love helpful information. Just like this.Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Is it a capricorn thing to be so obnoxious instead of giving a response related to the actual question/issue?click to expand



Posted by HappyCapperYa, that sounded rude. Don't do that with the Cap at work. The crush will end there.Posted by cheekyfaerieExactly.Posted by lisathom893You set em off when you finished with the, "got it truecap?" bit. It reads condescending.Posted by HappyCapperI love helpful information. Just like this.Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Is it a capricorn thing to be so obnoxious instead of giving a response related to the actual question/issue?click to expand
Posted by lisathom893Free forum. I post whatever I like as long as it's according to the forum rules. Didn't like your tone - you sound a bit arrogant. Don't forget: you're his boss, not mine.Posted by HappyCapperERRR...or you could just still to the question/issue posted.Posted by lisathom893Ah, so if I don't agree with you i should do what? Lie or shut it?Posted by HappyCapperI love helpful information. Just like this.Posted by lisathom893Well, I sure don't get it. You may argue that it's a good combo in a relationship(which I don't. But that's another story), but similar? Nah, I'm with truecap.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?
Is it a capricorn thing to be so obnoxious instead of giving a response related to the actual question/issue?click to expand

Posted by lisathom893Libra moon and Capricorn moon aren't very compatible. Libra moons are too clingy, needy, wishy washy and indecisive for a cap moon.
Sun and Moon signs are 2 of the most important signs because Sun sign speaks to personality and Moon to emotions i.e. how you are in personal relationships.
His sun is in Capricorn, my moon is in Capricorn. This creates sun conjunct moon which is a positive relationship.
My sun is gemini which is an air sign and his moon is libra which is an air sign. So there is a lot of similarities between us.
Got it truecap?

Posted by CG04Pay attention to the birthday calendar. And if you can find out their age, you can figure the year they were born.
P.S. HOW DO YOU PEOPLE FIND OUT PEOPLES CHARTS (ESPECIALLY COWORKERS?) Like I get when you're dating someone, but like what...does one just going around the office asking someones time of birth?
Posted by truecapInteresting. I always thought that could give you a vague reading cause so much can change with time of birth/place.Posted by CG04Pay attention to the birthday calendar. And if you can find out their age, you can figure the year they were born.
P.S. HOW DO YOU PEOPLE FIND OUT PEOPLES CHARTS (ESPECIALLY COWORKERS?) Like I get when you're dating someone, but like what...does one just going around the office asking someones time of birth?click to expand
Posted by FrenchKpricorni dont believe it.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by FrenchKpricornsag venus/sag mars *smh*Posted by truecap
He probably likes you, but how smart is it to mess around with a subordinate? Career suicide, in my opinion.
challenge accepted
no it's my lilith in capricorn, it's said that it woulndt be à surprise if there is sexual scandal in my career because i want succès by any way,click to expand

Posted by CG04Sure, most people are born locally though (same time zone), aren't they? You'll probably know if they're from somewhere else. You won't get houses or rising because you probably won't find out their birth time.Posted by truecapInteresting. I always thought that could give you a vague reading cause so much can change with time of birth/place.Posted by CG04Pay attention to the birthday calendar. And if you can find out their age, you can figure the year they were born.
P.S. HOW DO YOU PEOPLE FIND OUT PEOPLES CHARTS (ESPECIALLY COWORKERS?) Like I get when you're dating someone, but like what...does one just going around the office asking someones time of birth?click to expand
Posted by lisathom893You have the emotional intelligence of a refrigerator, don't you? *smh*
Exactly Greentea,
But what I was getting at is, it doesn't mean either of us will allow anything to happen. Neither did I say I was going to act on it.
Or else I would have approached the guy sheesh.
But if he is attracted and doesn't intend to act on it why can't he carry on a normal conversation?
Posted by FrenchKpricornit is SAGITTARIUS LILITH that is the scandal at work.Posted by lisabethur8
your Sagittarius is the Gambler, buster. 😛
i could sleep once with my english teacher but i didnt have the balls, i will regret this all my lifeclick to expand
Posted by FrenchKpricornyeah you have a double cap.....and lilith...Posted by lisabethur8
your Sagittarius is the Gambler, buster. 😛
i could sleep once with my english teacher but i didnt have the balls, i will regret this all my lifeclick to expand
Posted by Chance_11lol "CAP CODE" 😛
A cap won't generally cross the picket line unless it's worth the risk. I did once for a Pisces girl that was a better looking version of Jennifer Love Hewitt. I broke Cap code but we worked in different areas.
Sounds like you're slightly intrigued as well. It would be hard for me to not banter back and forth and that may be coming once he's past the observation phase thereby forcing your hand rather than the other way around.. when the shy turns to bold.
Posted by Chance_11i thought SO!!!Posted by lisabethur8Yep, my Sag Mars is very prominent or maybe it's the Aries moon..when in doubt, blame fyeah placements 😄Posted by Chance_11lol "CAP CODE" 😛
A cap won't generally cross the picket line unless it's worth the risk. I did once for a Pisces girl that was a better looking version of Jennifer Love Hewitt. I broke Cap code but we worked in different areas.
Sounds like you're slightly intrigued as well. It would be hard for me to not banter back and forth and that may be coming once he's past the observation phase thereby forcing your hand rather than the other way around.. when the shy turns to bold.
you have Sagittarius right?
when shadow side, it's gonna ROAM FREE and take RISKS!! 😄 😄
when single, you are alriiighty lemme have at all of them hot chicks! D 😄click to expand
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And then there's me. 26. His boss. But not immediate boss. He answers to my partner but we both govern the whole team. i'm also easy on the eye. elegant and posh dress style. always well put together. introverted when it comes to emotional stuff. serious. no nonsense.
i noticed him a few days into training because it appeared he was checking me out.
he only talks to my partner but never speaks to me. not even good morning or hello. he avoids me like the plague.
we had a training event yesterday. i wore an a line skirt. highlighted my curves. i went into the training room to take photos for PR purposes.
as soon as i entered room he became quiet. and his work colleague and friend who is female nudged him because he had suddenly gone quiet. apparently this was strange behaviour in him.
i took the photos. turned to leave the room. look back a quick second and saw him looking in my direction. at my ass?
after lunch. he came over to my table to sign in. stood there waiting behind people. didn't say anything. when i looked up at him. his face was red but his eyes lowered.
his female colleague loudly and jokingly asked him what he was doing over there because it wasn't the room he was in in the morning session.
it seemed he was embarrassed.
i was talking to my male partner about logistics and laughed at something he said. i turn around and capricorn guy is looking at the both of us.
at snack break, i end up walking right beside capricorn and he looks like a horse in blinders not looking left or right in attempt to avoid me.
after event i speak to my friend, he didn't know she was my friend, but by chance she sat next to him in the training.
older lady. acts young. troublemaker.
she tells me how extroverted he is, making jokes, taking pictures, talking loudly etc.
it surprises me because he is extremely quiet and muted around me.
likes me or can't stand me?