Trapping a Capricorn woman

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I'm a virgo guy who wants a relationship that is proven.

My mom is a Capricorn, we get along fairly well save for when I criticise her, she can't handle that.

Capricorn girls are sparse... at least for me.

The one most interesting one I found is always surrounded by a group of unnattractive morons who block my game.

She seems to enjoy being the centre of attention, being buttered up with compliments daily and having her lunch bought for her.

I also noticed some Capricorns are materialistic and poor with money management.

"I also noticed some Capricorns are materialistic and poor with money management."

umm, i wouldn't bring this up at dinner. no matter who's paying.

Capricorn girls are sparse... at least for me.

The one most interesting one I found is always surrounded by a group of unnattractive morons who block my game.

She seems to enjoy being the centre of attention, being buttered up with compliments daily and having her lunch bought for her.

I also noticed some Capricorns are materialistic and poor with money management.

lol, why is it that earth men think cappy women are materialistic? *shakes head* I will comeback to this topic. I HAVE TONS TO ADD.

You have no idea cajun-man 🙂 You have the wrong idea about cappy girls 😉

i think the word 'trapping' is highly appropriate. it's all about holdin' em down long enough and getting them to sit still for a minute.

If you can make them "look good" be it because you have a high social status or are rich or even better, BOTH!..they'll be all yours

*rolls eyes* Again with negativity, I swear, you and Brandon can hold hands and skip down the sidewalk together 😛

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Okay, Cajun Man 😄

As a cappy cusp, I don't like men who stand in the background but I also don't like it when men are too forward. Being honest and direct is the best approach with us. We can usually since a bull-shiter a mile away, the only reason when end up with terrible men is because we believe that we can help them or better them in some way. We as cap women have a huge fear that people will not accept us as our true selves, so if you can show the cap girl you fancy that you are fine with who she REALLY is (once you get to know her better) the she will be like putty in your hands -- we adore acceptance because we feel that we have to always show a different side then our real side.

Oh and another piece of advice is to never listen to another virgo man about capricorn women 🙂 Just trust me on this, I'm on the cusp of prophecy 🙂 Most virgo men spend so much time looking at the negative traits of a cap women, they fail to see any postives, so do not listen to any other virgo men 🙂

Lmao

I am a charming devil who is attracted to many. Is it wrong to want to understand all my experiences further? 😛

Thank you for the information cappysweetie.

Capricorn women are great, I love the straightforwardness and reliability.

I did manage to whisk away this same female I spoke of with one of the morons, who was a Capricorn guy incidentally.

Anywho, I took her to the bar I work at and learned about her. The connection really amazed me. She has always been one to look at me from afar and she said she was trying to figure me out.

I would do the same in like and I was pleasantly amused to learn all the similarities we share.... however, I have not been able to speak with her since.. so whatever heat that may have developed has probably fizzled.

She seems to be avoiding me and I suspect one of these morons sad ill things of my character... or maybe she noticed how many other females I talk to.

Care to help give some more insight?

probably a little freaked out that she likes a bartender. do you have any other pursuits?

We go to the same school, studying Information Systems.

Really, I'm a biology major myself 🙂

cappywenched nailed it right on the head 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

At the end of the day virguy will criticise the lighthearted guy, while himself doing the same things he criticises and trying to justify them. The problem is that virguys will appear to be true to you, but I've noticed a lot of them have a roving eye and are total mansluts.

*bits lip* another truth I'm sad to say. But, in the virgos defense, I think the reason virguys reveal their darksides so qucikly to us is because they can sense a certain commonality with cap women. Our problem is that we take their attitudes as negative. Another problem with us (cap women) is that we go for lighthearted and charming men, but those same men don't mean us a bit of good LOL!!! I think we in turn don't take the time to get to know the virguy because their attitudes put us off so much.

Morning cappywench 🙂

My view is that most virguys despite their self righteous holier than thou view of themselves, also don't mean us a bit of good. But they don't coat their badness with sugar like some signs.

Hmmmm, I don't believe thats the case. Honestly, I'd trust my feelings with a virgo man before I'd trust them with a cancer man -- oh, with the exception of Mike Phelps 😄

Yeah, now trusting one is a totally different thing. However, I can trust them as friends, I know this from experience. Now on a romantic level ... I don't know, they lie alot LOL!!!!!!!!!!! They are so focused on getting into every pair of pants they see, then after the fact, they are like, "oh yeah, I have a girlfriend or oh yeah, I'm married"

Let put it this way:

If it comes down to a cancer or a virgo -- I trust the virgo man

If it comes down to an Aqua or a Virgo -- I trust the virgo man

If it came down to a Gemini or a Virgo -- hmm, I don't know

If it came down to a Leo, Pisces, Scorpio, Saggie, Libra, a taurus, a cappy or a virgo -- I'd go with all the men EXCEPT the virgo man, all of them have him beat LOL!!!!

Why do you say that SB? Explain youself lady *wink*

I'm proud of you by the way girl 🙂 I just read it a few minutes ago. I'm at work right now but I have to rush to school because I need a few more things from the book store.

ttyl

It was crazy! YOU WOULD BELIEVE IT! It took an hour to drive work both days because there was a huge rain shower and the next day, I left my job later then I should have. Also, I was late for my graduate class because the student aid dept didn't have what I needed ready and I really needed to get my books for class because I knew I would have no time to get them other then that day. So I was like an hour late to class or whatever, so I missed part of the lecture because I sat outside because I know its rude to interupt the prof by just walking in. It wouldn't been easier to sit in the back of the class but all the sets in the back were taken :O So far, I have eight different textbooks for just two classes and I'm working on another independent thing -- this is to make up for being a part-time student.

Plus, I needed to go back to the bookstore today because I needed more stuff but it closed before I got there. One of the girls who worked there said that they were closing at five today and I was student enough to believe her. They closed at 2:00pm not 5:00pm

*breaths deeply*

So yeah, thats how my week went 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Really? OOHHH Why didn't I think of that!!! Bloody hell!!!!!!

Okay, well in my Diversity course, I need all four books because my instructor is basing all three exams including the final. In my grad course, I do know that I need one of the books because the professor work it.

Let me look at the syllabus ...

''Maybe if you need just a few chapters here and there you can photocopy them, thereby saving some money. ''

very very true - I only got a few books at college - there was always a long queue at the library copy machines.

Also, since you're studying biology, it not a subject that really re-invents, it just is - so the books don't change much. I did a similar course and sometimes my revision would involve researching the past questions - they can only ask as many questions on a subject that remains the same...some weird logic we used to use and it saved us a lot...

Never mind the profs too much - I had a prof recommend like 12 books one time! 😢

my one cent...good luck.

hahaha, I feel like such a bonehead! I know how to do this, why didn't I do this. I've used the library copy of textbooks in the past -- in my Physic II course (which was horrible), I used the money on my copy card to copy the darn book. Why on earth did my brains go to my ankles this time?

Right, I its legel to copy about 33% to 35% of the book but not more.

Well ... when you put it that way Evan ... I guess that makes sense 🙂 I'm just afraid someone will see this online and report it LOL!!!!!

I'm a cap, I can't help it, I don't want to incriminate myself LOL

That was probably just an attempt to americanize you.

"Reading books? In America? Oh, not on my watch, you don't!"

HAHAHAHA!!!! Yum HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

That sucks SB, I would've threw a fit and dropped a few F-Bombs lol

*rolls eyes twice*

😛

The college I went to prior had a limit on how long you can use the copiers. I have my moments, things are very push-pull. I have the soul of a saggie but a heart of a cap you see 🙂 hahhaha, yes Evan, I can get very paramoid at times, this is nothing compared to my early posts!

Remember some of my threads SB, I thought I was completely losing it. But my fellow cap along with a few others helped me through my nuttiness 😄 I don't think you were around then Evan, if you were, you didn't come to the cap board lol So yeah, I was way worse 😉

Just because Nixon was a cap and he broke all kinds of rules doesn't mean we all are like that sort of thing LOL!!!

I like reading too, but ... I don't know. I like to go look for stuff, like my mind gets caught in other things, so I never finish most of the things I start reading lol

Really? She was just being a battle-axe SB, should could have done it because she wasn't going to get in trouble for it.

hahahaha, we totally took over cajun's topic.

Hey Cajun,

If you really want a good rapport with a cap girl, talk about educational topics. We are all ears and we can talk for hours about our pains and victories 🙂 🙂

SB, I thinking about doing something but it may not be a good idea ... its concerning my major and minor ...

Nevermind, I need to sort threw it more 🙂

Well, I was thinking about Majoring in Psychology and minoring in biology and chemistry.

But can I still be a PA doing this?

I only want to do this because I know I can't squeeze chemistry and biolgy into the same semester while working full-time and part-time ...

Well, I may have to keep workinf full time if I'm on my own until ... haha, I really don't know what the future holds. Every week is different, every day is different, except for working and now I have to go to class.

Can you imagine a cap not being stable, its not a pretty picture. My apartment effects my life and I don't like it 😢

Yes 🙂 But now I think of it, I'm nost share if that would work 😢 I want to double minor in biology and chemistry so I can have the background needed to be a PA but I don't know ...

lol
Thanks Cappiesweetie

I always used to talk to people about their academic goals and such, but most people find it boring.

She and I both are very interested in studying psychology.... however, It would seem she IS in fact focusing on my bad aspects. I have a very strong presence so that quite possibly turned her off.

You all are more complicated than I thought....

Guess you'll have to go game someone who doesn't know any better.

I suggest trying another Virgo.

She and I both are very interested in studying psychology.... however, It would seem she IS in fact focusing on my bad aspects. I have a very strong presence so that quite possibly turned her off.

You all are more complicated than I thought....

Well ...

Guess you'll have to go game someone who doesn't know any better.

I suggest trying another Virgo.

Exactly 🙂

J/K, actually, how do you know she is focusing on your bad aspects? capricorns usually don't say anything unless there is evidence 😄

Well if she is avoiding me, what am I to think?

Well if she is avoiding me, what am I to think?

What do you mean avoiding you? If you mension disappear, like virgos, cappies disappear for a number of reasons. How do you know its you?

You think it's obvious?
I do not recall anything of the sort...
However, I did give her some very deep and heavy conversation during our "connection" introduction so yeah... I figure this is possibly an issue

I don't hang around her like a fly hovers over a pile of dung.
She has those morons for that.

I believe they may have spoken ill of me.

I definately want to stick to Earth signs Branh, but trapping a Capricorn seems to be a tough proposition...

"I definately want to stick to Earth signs Branh, but trapping a Capricorn seems to be a tough proposition..."

Take Note - Brahn !!

Haha Xun2, I'm just trying to see how good my charm is. Conquest is the name of the game.

Nothing in a relationship can hurt me either, Branh. I care for so little in life...

I totally agree, I don't force anything or ask anyone to change.
My philosophy is identical either she is INTERESTED or NOT INTERESTED!
So simple!

Okay, now I see why she is avoiding you Cajun. Capricorn women do not have anytime for things like that. I knew a virgo guy like that last year -- I haven't talked to him since 🙂 He tried to talk to me, but no way 😉

"willing player "

*Redirects Cajun to the Sag board*

LOL!!! Xun, stop being so hard on the virgo guys 😛 Its not their fault that they are one-dimensional, they are just born that way. Plus, I part Saggie too so quit that 😛

He's a young virgo, he has to learn the hard way, most of them do 😉 My brother is almost freaking 40 and he still hasn't learned but he's a player ... and its starting to show, he looks so old now lol.

Cajun, you best bet is to get someone who is willing to play games with you. We cappies don't like that stuff 😛 Nope (regardless to what other virgos may say) -- gaming and cappy girls do not mix well at all. If we since you are playing with our emotions, we run as fast as we can because we don't have to heart to be rude to you virguys but trust me, we know when someone isn't good for us.

I also noticed some Capricorns are materialistic and poor with money management.
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That's why we keep virgo partners to manage finances for life :-).

sagigoat, I can conquer anyone, once I win their trust.

cappysweetie,
How are Virgos one dimensional?
And what do I have to learn the hard way?

Completely and 100% accurate sagigoat, I've lived all that you said.

However, few have the ability to discern my intentions. I have not even given the slightest notion for her to pick that up.
And yes, I just want to find out whether or not I could have conquered this Capricorn.

cappysweetie,
How are Virgos one dimensional?
And what do I have to learn the hard way?

Well, in my experience, Virgo men fail to see whats underneath the surface. of course, they don't think so because they are programmed to look about things from an abstract point of view.

I often told my Virgo friend that he cannot look at women the same way he looks at his career 🙂

Think about that and you'll know why my made my previous comment.

Guys i need help with a Capricorn girl.. we have neva met in real but we kinda fell in love an even she told me loves me as well an she will be mine forever an we have texted each other all night for a week now an i really love this girl from inside.. am an Aries but i am not like most other Aries and i want only 1 girl for life.. she too told me that she would never hurt me ever.. but the thing is she used to text me everyday an all of a sudden i dont get a reply to any of my texts from the past 36 hrs.. she has not even come online an my msgs are not even seen.. i know wer she goes to coll to an we actually planned to meet cery soon.. i called her an her mom picked up an asked who i was an who i wanted i just said sorry u must have had the wrong number knowing her parents are quite strict.. now i am like so so in love with her its killing me not even being able to talk to her for a day.. i mean we used to chat every day at night.. or atleast keep in touch even if i was busy.. now i feel like i cant chill without talking to her or atleast getting a reply she is busy with something.. i just wanna know if she loves me so so much just as i do why is she not letting me know wats up an i dont mind waiting for months as well if she can just inform me it will be fine.. bit i susoect maybe her mom found out she was into me or something an took away her cellfone..but wat i was thinking was since i know wer she studies is it wise to go meet her without informing her? How would she feel if just went to talk to her coz she never came online.. i mean she said that she loves me too an is ready to be serious an get committed right? Do caps entertain an unexpected visit from who they love? I just wanna meet her 😭😭 pls help asap