What is the deal?

Hi,
It's me again..My Cap and I are pretty much back to normal after the "incident"...BUT he has my head spinning..He's sweet and complimentary to me, but when I say anything remotely sweet, it takes him half an hour to return my text, and when he does, he changes the subject entirely.For example, he was saying how he feels badly that I got in a fight with my mother over him. When I said that she just didn't realize how much he meant to me, the next text is 35 minutes later and says "So what's for dinner?" Huh? Can he not take a compliment? Is he not into me? Phobic of someone saying nice things to him? He does this all the time..Still talks to me all day and night, unless he's doing a Cap space thing.. He did it two weeks ago too..I texted that these teenagers making out made me miss him and he went silent, then started texting about Avatar..WTF? I feel like I need to ask him what it's all about, but know from all the advise I've gotten here, not to back him into a corner asking about his feelings..I also feel like he's always testing me..little stuff, just to see how far I'll go for him..What is his deal?

And i forgot to say his moon is in Virgo..rising sign is Sag