what is your mate n u venus compatibility

Im a sag n venus,aries in mars,hes a scorpio n venus,aqua n mars..do what n fire mix for love signs?then both our mars energies are air siigns,so I supposed that is good..i looked at water can put out fire ,but fire will make water boil,water can be cold like ice,so fire could melt it,either way this is opposites but they say opposites attract..someone interprete plz..