What to do

I really, really miss my Scorpio best friend. We had a falling out about a month ago and haven't talked since. She got angry at me because I didn't wish her a happy Mother's Day during the time we we're in a huge fight...that was bad on my part, but she was really hurtful towards me and I didn't feel like she deserved me acknowledging her when she had been so rude. Now I feel bad. I haven't thought about her in a few weeks. Should I reach out? Ugh 😢

Why should she expect you to wish her a happy Mother's Day? She's not your mom.

She got upset over that??!! I'd hate being the one that REALLY upset her....she's playing typical Scorpio crybaby games. Don't give in is my advice!

I should mention that I was raised by an insane Scorp Sun/Moon/Merc mother. I was fully taught by the age of 5...

Posted by exxtasyx
She was wrong. Don't give in to Scorpio's "I'm ignoring you and making you awful so you can chase me" mindset. A lot of unevolved Scorpio's are like the devil. While you're hurting because you genuinely care and want to make things right, they are getting power and a kick out of making you feel bad about the situation. And they'll milk it for as long as they can.

This is my experience as well.

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Posted by WolfMoon
I should mention that I was raised by an insane Scorp Sun/Moon/Merc mother. I was fully taught by the age of 5...

LMAO

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I am serious! That bitch has taught me valuable lessons in chess aka "let's play games with anything that breathes", drinking and in how to best hate husbands.

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Posted by Bells93
She got angry at me because I didn't wish her a happy Mother's Day during the time we we're in a huge fight...

What?

Anyways, if she is a good Scorp and valued your friendship, send her a message. If she isn't, and you're desperate, time to play suck up and feed that ego.

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We we're already in an argument and not on speaking terms, and she got angrier at me for not wishing her a Happy Mother's Day, so she blocked me on all social media. What good that did, not sure. I'm not desperate, I have other good friends & there were bad parts of the relationship (she was very negative and judgemental), but I do miss her. I also was going through her favorite tweets on Twitter the other day, and she had unfavorited every tweet except for the nice ones I used to make about her. I think she may be going through a hard time. She doesn't have many friends, and I was one of the only friends she could trust.

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Posted by exxtasyx
She was wrong. Don't give in to Scorpio's "I'm ignoring you and making you awful so you can chase me" mindset. A lot of unevolved Scorpio's are like the devil. While you're hurting because you genuinely care and want to make things right, they are getting power and a kick out of making you feel bad about the situation. And they'll milk it for as long as they can.

This is my experience as well.

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When she had a falling out with one of her other friends, she was telling me how she found this girl's long messages to her funny and amusing, so I kind of agree. She's definitely not an evolved Scorp. I love her & miss her, but kind of doubt she'll message me.

I'm unsure of what to do. I want to reach out, because I'm afraid she's going through a hard time. I can sense it, if that makes sense? I swear I'm not crazy lol. We we're always very in tune with each other. But 1) I'm afraid of backlash, for even something as simple as texting her and saying I miss her, and 2) I'm not sure what she can give me right now friendship wise, seeing as before we stopped talking she was extremely judgmental of me (I think it was because she cared in some deep, twisted way) ...she is also the sister in law of my crazy, psychopath ex, and I've been recently feeling much happier having cut all ties from him. But still. We got along so well.

From my experience, once the bond is broken, scorpios need a lot of reassurance that your still going to be a good friend yo them. If you care, you should reach out (you may have to do so several times) and have a heart to heart.

Posted by CreativeCap
From my experience, once the bond is broken, scorpios need a lot of reassurance that your still going to be a good friend yo them. If you care, you should reach out (you may have to do so several times) and have a heart to heart.

I agree. I do care, but I'm starting to think that she's better out of my life than in it. I don't have the time or energy to chase after her when I apologized many times but she never apologized once for the hurtful things she said to me.

If you can't reason with her, then you should leave it alone. It will be too emotionally draining to tryvand mend a friendship that is broken, especially if only one person is trying to put the pieces together. Maybe she will come around when she gets ready. If not, that is her loss, not yours.

Posted by Bells93
I'm unsure of what to do. I want to reach out, because I'm afraid she's going through a hard time. I can sense it, if that makes sense? I swear I'm not crazy lol. We we're always very in tune with each other. But 1) I'm afraid of backlash, for even something as simple as texting her and saying I miss her, and 2) I'm not sure what she can give me right now friendship wise, seeing as before we stopped talking she was extremely judgmental of me (I think it was because she cared in some deep, twisted way) ...she is also the sister in law of my crazy, psychopath ex, and I've been recently feeling much happier having cut all ties from him. But still. We got along so well.

Maybe just call up and say hey, start chatting away and act like nothing has happened—

It's not really drama, it's more me being indecisive lol. But I sent her a text. Doubt she'll reply, but I did my part, and at least feel there's some closure now. I told her regardless of if we're mad at each other or not, that I love her like a sister and wish her only the best, and that if she still wants to be friends, we can be.

She surprisingly answered... And apologized. And now we're catching up 😄 Everything isn't fixed yet but I'm sure it will be. Luck has to be on my side today.

Good deal!!