Can I be That Annoying Girl N Ask That Question??

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Sag89 on Friday, May 23, 2014 and has 26 replies.

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14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

My first ex scorp...( I feel ) hates me. I have on good authority (fb stalking) that he is on good terms with all his ex's but me.

Last year in july we were sort of hanging out/dating we stopped and he said we can always be friends though someday. Haven't heard from him since. Every now and than I would send a "hey how are you?" "whats up" not one response ever. It's been almost a year now.

Why am I always the hated exβ€” Now, strangers of the internet who know nothing about me tell me the answer πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

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17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Yeah but in this specific scenario he's on good terms with the other exes but ignores the Sag and refuses to even reply a simple text message. Passive aggressive behaviour is usually an indication some vital parts of the human anatomy have been hurt-- either the butt or the heart.

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Posted by GetMisted
I'm not sure that's passive aggressive behavior. It's passive (because he's not saying outright that he doesn't want to be with her), but it's not aggressive. Avoident behavior at best.

"and he said we can always be friends though someday."

There is something about her he just couldn't stand anymore.

this.

why does everyone believe it's "pining for her from afar? and it's so painful that he can't stand to be with her?" my neptunian-venus aspects are romanticizing this alot.....but....the saturn is shaking its head.

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Thanks everyone for your replies. He did misted. It's very possible he just doesn't like me. There are a lot of reasons that would make that very true, I guess you would hope that with time people would get over things but some don't I suppose.

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Posted by GetMisted
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Thanks everyone for your replies. He did misted. It's very possible he just doesn't like me. There are a lot of reasons that would make that very true, I guess you would hope that with time people would get over things but some don't I suppose.

If you don't mind me asking.. Which Scorp was this?

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The scorp moon sag/venus one

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Yeah but in this specific scenario he's on good terms with the other exes but ignores the Sag and refuses to even reply a simple text message. Passive aggressive behaviour is usually an indication some vital parts of the human anatomy have been hurt-- either the butt or the heart.

hahahaah

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Posted by GetMisted
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Thanks everyone for your replies. He did misted. It's very possible he just doesn't like me. There are a lot of reasons that would make that very true, I guess you would hope that with time people would get over things but some don't I suppose.

If you don't mind me asking.. Which Scorp was this?

The scorp moon sag/venus one

I'm willing to say he is involved with another potential.

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Oh yea, I know that's why we stopped cause he wanted to see other people, but a year later even a " hi " from me still isn't ok? When he still cool with other ex's. I don't know, I guess it makes me feel like I'm always the odd one out. oh well.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Posted by Sag89
My first ex scorp...( I feel ) hates me. I have on good authority (fb stalking) that he is on good terms with all his ex's but me.

Last year in july we were sort of hanging out/dating we stopped and he said we can always be friends though someday. Haven't heard from him since. Every now and than I would send a "hey how are you?" "whats up" not one response ever. It's been almost a year now.

Why am I always the hated exβ€” Now, strangers of the internet who know nothing about me tell me the answer πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

I think it's more important to ask yourself why *you* care. πŸ™‚

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I want valdationnnnn πŸ˜›

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Posted by GetMisted
Posted by Sag89
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Posted by Sag89
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by Sag89
Thanks everyone for your replies. He did misted. It's very possible he just doesn't like me. There are a lot of reasons that would make that very true, I guess you would hope that with time people would get over things but some don't I suppose.

If you don't mind me asking.. Which Scorp was this?

The scorp moon sag/venus one

I'm willing to say he is involved with another potential.

Oh yea, I know that's why we stopped cause he wanted to see other people, but a year later even a " hi " from me still isn't ok? When he still cool with other ex's. I don't know, I guess it makes me feel like I'm always the odd one out. oh well.

Saggy.. πŸ˜‰

You know as well as I do that Scorps have a one track mind. Don't think too much about it.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Posted by Sag89
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Posted by Sag89
My first ex scorp...( I feel ) hates me. I have on good authority (fb stalking) that he is on good terms with all his ex's but me.

Last year in july we were sort of hanging out/dating we stopped and he said we can always be friends though someday. Haven't heard from him since. Every now and than I would send a "hey how are you?" "whats up" not one response ever. It's been almost a year now.

Why am I always the hated exβ€” Now, strangers of the internet who know nothing about me tell me the answer πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

I think it's more important to ask yourself why *you* care. πŸ™‚

I want valdationnnnn πŸ˜›

lol.....

and I just wanted to post in your thread because we don't get to talk that much πŸ˜„

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How are you?! πŸ˜„

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Posted by Sag89
My first ex scorp...( I feel ) hates me. I have on good authority (fb stalking) that he is on good terms with all his ex's but me.

Last year in july we were sort of hanging out/dating we stopped and he said we can always be friends though someday. Haven't heard from him since. Every now and than I would send a "hey how are you?" "whats up" not one response ever. It's been almost a year now.

Why am I always the hated exβ€” Now, strangers of the internet who know nothing about me tell me the answer πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

Didn't you know? When you screw a Scorp over (I'm assuming because you are giving us permission to in your last sentence without revealing any info) You become non-existent. Want to feel more non-existent?.. send another text