@nngemini
12 Years
when a cap man says it's over
Wow and I just posted a similar situation, hang in.
He has probably put a lot of thought into it and means it. Caps aren't spontaneous so this isn't coming out of no where.
Hi guys, no hard feelings but most of you are pointing out the obvious- I believe i know my cap well enough as a person, and i know enough about Cap men, to know that he wasn't joking and he meant it seriously. after all, we are grown up people, i am sure he wouldn't play with such things...
anyway, my question was is there anything i can do about it when we meet (he said we should talk things over), and try make things work, or I don't know...
@stillwat3r, i am not 100% sure, but i think his moon is in Aqua...what does that exactly mean could you tell me?
I don't think we're stating the obvious. We're saying accept it and there's probably not anything you can do to change it.
When you meet, just be mature and rational.
Posted by nngemini
Hi guys, no hard feelings but most of you are pointing out the obvious- I believe i know my cap well enough as a person, and i know enough about Cap men, to know that he wasn't joking and he meant it seriously. after all, we are grown up people, i am sure he wouldn't play with such things...anyway, my question was is there anything i can do about it when we meet (he said we should talk things over), and try make things work, or I don't know...
@stillwat3r, i am not 100% sure, but i think his moon is in Aqua...what does that exactly mean could you tell me?
In our defense, you also asked "is this the end?"
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i've written about this turbulent relationship with my cap guy...after a very brief encounter a few days ago, he told me today that 'he thinks he wants this to end' and he is sorry he can't get involved as he should.
i will keep it this short and ask...is this really the end? how should i approach this whole situation?
i don't want to lose him but i am also aware that this probably may not work out for various reasons...
what can i expect from him, and should i refrain from saying something or doing something when we meet up to talk things over, which should happen in the next few days?