Why am I doing this?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Sag89 on Tuesday, August 12, 2014 and has 13 replies.

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So I met this cap a while back. We hung out had a pretty good night ( ending up having sex ) but it was REALLY bad. He's got a ( venus in aqua, moon sag, mars taurus )

Like he just left and we texted everyday for a while after that but there was like " no chemistry " didn't go anywhere. He never brought up sex or said anything flirty. It's like we pretend it didn't happen.

We are trying to make plans to go see a movie tomorrow night. Do cap men usually hide their sexual feelings? Or is this platonic?

I'm seeing a leo (exclusively ) so nothing physical can happen for me and him at the moment but I guess I'm sort of emotional interested a bit? I don't know..

bad idea?

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Posted by Impulsv
I can imagine asking a sag. Ok u say we are exclusive do u mean only physically or emotionally or just dating exclusively.
Leo are fixed too. Are u sure he understand what u meant?
I'd assume we are dating , sexing exclusively.

The leo is great and I like him a lot but he is sort of shallow. He says he wants to be my boyfriend but he doesn't seem emotional enough for me. Than I feel deprived and lonely.

I just want someone to baby me and make me feel cared about. My ex scorpio w scorpio moon is the only one who made me feel cared about. I'm just yearning for that again.

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He actually texted me last night and we were talking about robin williams. We haven't talked in forever and I couldn't stop smiling the whole time. Just the smallest text from him made me feel warm and cozy.

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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Why bother being exclusive with the Leo? Why not just date around?

If I were you, I'd really want a mulligan on the Cappy. Would be curious to see if the sex might be better the second time around.

Lol cause the leo is great I like him and most of the time I feel fine with just that. But idk every now and than. Haha I'm not really attracted to the cap that sexually.

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You're just keeping the Leo guy around as a backdoor until you find someone else who "meets your standards" or "fulfills you emotionally" or "babys you".

I pity him.