Why do I destroy anything I love

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I'm a capricorn. I always mess up my relationships badly.
Most recently with my bf of 5 years a wonderful cancerian.
The only person in this world who loved and cared for me.
Why do we do this


yup. i do the same thing. ughhh


Me too.


y do we do it ? ughhhhh 😢
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Yes, why?
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Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by cappygirl11
I'm a capricorn. I always mess up my relationships badly.
Most recently with my bf of 5 years a wonderful cancerian.
The only person in this world who loved and cared for me.
Why do we do this


yup. i do the same thing. ughhh


Me too.


y do we do it ? ughhhhh 😢


Yes, why?
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maybe deep down don't think we deserve love, possibly we like to test the person to see how much they love us. i know this tearing down period is temporary which leads me to believe its a test. i know if the object of our love can hang in there through this with us, they will be richly rewarded. but only the strong survive. 😛
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Posted by Sn1p3r187
There are better things to do than come to us for your problems. Those things are entirely up to self.



Have some consideration u may not feel advice is needed an only self could answer but if that was the case we wouldn't need forums like these or we wouldn't have problems we need help with addressing i don't think its anything wrong with asking for help about a situation or advice
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Posted by cappygirl11
I'm a capricorn. I always mess up my relationships badly.

Most recently with my bf of 5 years a wonderful cancerian.

The only person in this world who loved and cared for me.

Why do we do this



yup. i do the same thing. ughhh



Me too.
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Me too. I even let a little bit of my female crazy jeopardize my relationship with the aqua this weekend. Kicking myself for not controlling my emotions.

*slaps scorpio venus, ties up her and locks her back in the cage*
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Posted by Sn1p3r187
There are better things to do than come to us for your problems. Those things are entirely up to self.



Have some consideration u may not feel advice is needed an only self could answer but if that was the case we wouldn't need forums like these or we wouldn't have problems we need help with addressing i don't think its anything wrong with asking for help about a situation or advice
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Agree. Sometimes it is good to have someone objective to talk to. Sometimes we just need to get it off our chest and feel some encouragement, sympathy, understanding, validation, a kick in the ass, or whatever else we need to help us get over it.
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Posted by highlyclassified
Posted by Sn1p3r187
There are better things to do than come to us for your problems. Those things are entirely up to self.



Have some consideration u may not feel advice is needed an only self could answer but if that was the case we wouldn't need forums like these or we wouldn't have problems we need help with addressing i don't think its anything wrong with asking for help about a situation or advice



Agree. Sometimes it is good to have someone objective to talk to. Sometimes we just need to get it off our chest and feel some encouragement, sympathy, understanding, validation, a kick in the ass, or whatever else we need to help us get over it.
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@trucap u my girl......... +1