WTF?! Poof he's gone?

Um so been talking to a Cap guy. For a a little over a month. We communicate all the time. I met him at my train stop as planned to bring him food that my family prepared for our July 4th BBQ. He said he was tired and appreciated the food (He has been working alot, was coming from work).I asked if he was under stress and he replied "perhaps" we had a kiss and I said it was better than the first time and he said that "his head was somewhere else the first time". He found out I wasen't wearing panties.(I hate when panties show underneath low rise pants) he said that he notices everything and that I should wear a belt... I also pointed out that I saw that he hit himself with his umbrella by mistake (Virgo rising...I notice everything too).. I wanted to crack a joke but he didn't look as if he would recieve it well so I just changed the subject. We shared another kiss this time an akward aggresive kiss and he went home. He texted me that the food was good and I said "glad you enjoyed" it and then wished him a goodnight last thing I heard from him was "night baby" I haven't heard from him at all today! WTF?!

I just texted him and no reply. Was it the lack of undergarments?

Thing is he is supposed to come over my house for the first time tommorow (I admit I told him I did want him to)...he invited himself...lol...but no word from him.

What is this mess?

Oh gosh, I think Caps belong with other Caps. I think we are the only people that can deal with the lack of communication. I haven't talked to my Cap best friend in about three months, and I'm perfectly fine with that...would probably still be fine with it if we dated. Sorry, had to get that out for some reason lol.

Don't take him not texting or getting back to you personal. We are people that need breathers, often. If it seems he's stressed just give him his time and he shall come back around. If this is something you think you can't deal with then keep your options open because it's probably going to be a lot of hot/cold and in/out in the future. I don't care how much I like someone, I do not want to see them and talk to them every single day.

So this is normal?...lol. As long as I know this is the reg M.O. I am cool. I have dealt with an Aquarius pretty similar with that need space biz. Bout 2-3 days was the standard.

Sounds like he should be wearing the women's underwear.

:-)

lol ... only one day and you are already freaking out ...

Capriocrns need space ... a lot a lot of space .. if you seem to clingy they will back away ... keep yourself busy with other things .. you'd be surprised when you see him standing at your door step

he probably found out you were a leo and wised up

Um yea....so we are cool now. We have spoken. I am not clingy just wondered if I should expect him or not... so that I could make other arrangements if need be. I don't like my time wasted.Gemni moon so I need space at times too and understand when another needs it. I have a Virgo rising and venus as well so I am a pretty calm cat.

I hear Caps are flighty at times so I wanted some feedback (I like to plan).

Thanks for the feedback everyone.

I like an enthusiatic man (im cappy woman) but if it looks like hes very submissive I wont respect that. So if the clingyness is not a pathetic inability to cope but is more a lusty or creative positive energy I would be happy for my partner and want them to enjoy those energies. Clingy can mean a lot of things. I know being distant can turn the other person desperate for contact and intimacy. Mostly I would say a capricorn is either oblivious to this (in which case tell them) or looking forward to some intense passion. If its negative clingy or youve offended them they might be cooling off thinking your incompatible though.

Posted by oxlostxo
lol ... only one day and you are already freaking out ...

Capriocrns need space ... a lot a lot of space .. if you seem to clingy they will back away ... keep yourself busy with other things .. you'd be surprised when you see him standing at your door step

I dont neccessarily agree with this. Im a cappy and love to be chased by someone passionate because then I know they are going to match my own passion. I also like a good tussle. A goat is solitary so they will see it as a bit pathetic if you say you cannot cope on your own. But if you say you dont want a crutch you just are filled with passion and enthusiasm this is not scarey at all....they may even like that cos they think you will marry sooner and give them all that security they are craving as well as a strong family unit. if someone is mentally weak this doesnt look like a good prospective partner. So the crux is what is the energy you are presenting is it oh Im broken fix me or oh im ready to live life to the full

http://www.compatible-astrology.com/leo-capricorn.html

Thats good website

Thanx for the input fellow Leonian and Mere goat =)! I really am starting to feel this guy...I don't really want to...lol. I say I am just gonna go with the flow.