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Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Are you on the outside in the red for the synastry chart?

Yep

Pluto conjunct Venus in Scorpio 😱 😱 😱 😱

Posted by Undine
Pluto conjunct Venus in Scorpio 😱 😱 😱 😱

any experience with this? 🙂

Posted by oxSunQueenxo
So I like that his Moon sits in your IC because that's a supportive House overlay to have in a relationship, but I don't really see anything else that could bind you guys together in a healthy way besides maybe his Venus in your DC which is very supportive and a good marriage aspect. The more magnetizing aspect you guys do have, though, is your Venus conjunct his Pluto orb 0 degrees, but that's not necessarily a healthy aspect to have because the Pluto person (him) would want to control you and you guys would have to have lots of communication about what's acceptable and what's unacceptable for you two as a couple because Pluto contact with any personals in synastry can characterize a relationship to be a very destructive one with power struggles, mind-games/manipulation, etc. Communication is going to be extremely important, and the fact that his Chiron falls in your 3rd House of communication doesn't help. Has he gotten hurt by the way you communicate to him at times? Chiron or Saturn in 3rd in synastry often indicates that the House person has to modify how they communicate to the other person. I also don't like seeing your Chiron in his 7th House; I'm not sure how this overlay plays out but my guess would be that one of you would be very defensive towards the other in regards to being together. I also don't really like seeing your Moon in his 11th House; that does create a friendly atmosphere but I wouldn't say it really indicates a romantically emotional connection since the 11th House is more centered on friendships than romantic relations. I also see that your Saturn sits in his 1st House: do you sometimes put a damper on the way he expresses himself? I'd also be careful about how intense you are in the relationship if I'm reading this correctly.

I'll try and post more later because I have other charts I really need to look at but I hope this is accurate/helpful somewhat. I will come back to this soon.

Appreciate you taking the time... Here are some thoughts on your curiosities:

1) Has he gotten hurt by the way you communicate to him at times?

- In the past I've blocked him and he did bring that up in a negative light.

- Also when I'm trying to be direct, he takes that as in "i'm angry" and even though yes i might be upset it doesn't mean i'm angry like lashing out. To me when he says it makes me think that he thinks i'm just being so unreasonable.

2) don't really like seeing your Moon in his 11th House; that does create a friendly atmosphere but I wouldn't say it really indicates a romantically emotional connection since the 11th House is more centered on friendships than romantic relations

- yes we're very friendly but there is definitely romance involved and it's very hard to stay just "friendly" at least on my side. I don't know who initiates the flirting but I'd like to think both.

3) do you sometimes put a damper on the way he expresses himself?

- he could be in a mood and i over talk it with something else at times

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Posted by oxSunQueenxo
You guys have Moon square Moon - emotions clash with each other. I also see Mars in 1st House - do you encourage your s/o to be more assertive? Is he annoying talking about things that bother him to you?

He’s not a s/o, just someone I’m interested in but he encourages me to be more assertive actually. And I don’t find his communication annoying except part where he ignores or avoids certain topics and when he only wants to communicate when he wants to so picking and choosing.

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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by oxSunQueenxo
You guys have Moon square Moon - emotions clash with each other. I also see Mars in 1st House - do you encourage your s/o to be more assertive? Is he annoying talking about things that bother him to you?

He’s not a s/o, just someone I’m interested in but he encourages me to be more assertive actually. And I don’t find his communication annoying except part where he ignores or avoids certain topics and when he only wants to communicate when he wants to so picking and choosing.

The composite chart will have no function unless you guys are in a relationship.

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I don’t know about this chart stuff; just being proactive lol. But I guess it’s good to read it to see what a relationship with this person could be like , right?

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Posted by stillstillwater
@Squishy_Marshmallow Thank you! Appreciate this!

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So sorry I didn't get to this before... Okies let's see

Are you guys together??!

The synastry has a lot of beautiful aspects for love and emotional compatability... Venus on North node, moon/moon(4R to 8R), moon on IC is just lovely... And Venus/Pluto on Pluto... 5R to 7R , so many beautiful aspects

BUT I hate this part.--

Ugh! His Saturn? It isn't doing anything... Now Mars is how they will chase you or behave in a certain way to get your attention but we need the guy's Saturn to be touched. Saturn is the hardwork and all the legal stuff as in him walking his ass to come and see you, putting with a girls insecurity issues and meet you after the physical intimacy stuff? Saturn is the one that will see relationship through!

The technical terms like gf/bf or marriage --all that needs lots of help from Saturn! And it sucks his Saturn isn't aspected... Your Neptune is close to his Saturn and Neptune rules your 12th house. Add to this your Venus on his NN, you may keep doing a lot for him or show or even believe there could be more or look at things with hope- without getting a lot in return... He may learn what love is from you without putting in a lot of hardwork and giving you what you want. Sorry if this reading is off but it has great aspects but that unaspected Saturn may hurt the actual reality of a relationship!

All the best... I hope this reading is wrong and you guys are happy together!

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Thanks for this reading. It was really good ! No we're not together. He's just a crush and someone i've known for a while now.