2nd chance?

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pisces1303
@pisces1303
10 Years

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I am Sun: Pisces; Ascendent: Sagitarrius; Moon: Virgo; Venus: Aquarius; Mars: Aries; Mercury: Aquarius. He is Sun: Virgo; Ascendent: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Venus: Leo; Mars: Cancer; Mercury: Virgo. We met 20yrs ago but I was with someone else. We both "felt something" instantly but never acted on it. We both stayed with our spouses for and were mutual acquaintances. I separated in 2006 and finally divorced in 2011. He didn't separate, but was in a bad marriage for most of it and finally they separated in 2014 after too much cheating on her part. We started dating within a month of their separation--I know too soon. I had reservations, but he kept pursuing me and assuring me. They had a final divorce within 5 months. We had a 14 month relationship. I thought he was the one! There were some issues because we both have children and it would take time to blend, but that's just it.....that takes time. Long story short, I found out he was cheating on me. I confronted him. He tried to deny it....over text! He wouldn't even talk to me or face me. I'm not sure how long it was going on, but he was "in a relationship" with her a week later! She moved in a month later!! With her kid!! That he swore he didn't want to deal with! How could I have been so blind? Is he fooling himself? Was he scared of my stability and kindness? She's a Scorpio. If she was willing to cheat with him, is she willing to cheat on him or him on her? Whaaaat— I just didn't think he was that kind of guy.
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Udylaw1
@Udylaw1
10 Years

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Maybe he was dating her even when he was stl married, Let go now that its not messy.Maybe he was the one cheating in his marriage.This is not about who he's dating or living with now,its about u and your happiness.I think you need to give yourself time before getting into another relationship.You really dodged a bullet here.consider your kids too,is that the kind of man u want to raise them with?