@PISCESDOLL
10 Years
AQUARIUS MAN MAD AT ME
Understanding Aquarius Men When They Are Upset
Aquarius men can become distant and skeptical when they feel betrayed or misunderstood. Trust issues may lead to him questioning your honesty, especially if he perceives inconsistencies. Clear communication and patience are essential to rebuild trust. Recognizing his need for honesty can help resolve conflicts and strengthen your relationship.
I easily feel lied to because thats just my experience. Be patient with him even though he pushes u away. We need extreme consistency. Stick to ur version of the truth.
Good luck
Welcome to dating an aquarius.
Thank you,
Mine still does that when he's feeling some kind of way. After 13 years living together.
Posted by sultrykitty
Mine still does that when he's feeling some kind of way. After 13 years living together.
I sent him a funny text message to break the ice. but still no answer.am going to give him space and time.
Aquas are more insecure than they let on. Even though they're not good at reassurance, they like to be reassured. Just be consistent and honest because they can see through the BS if there is any.
I'm sure a lot of them will deny this, though. lol!
Well if he doesnt reply or talk to me after this is going to hard to reassure anything.. at least for me, if im being ignored I would just disapear and not look back
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What I do if he's acting weird about me "being somewhere" is that I'll actually call him either from wherever I am so he can hear the background noise (proving I'm not up to no good) or on my way home. That usually does the trick.
Posted by starwars
you gotta reassure and compromise while being in relationship or things would never works.
I feel bad that he is thinking the worst of me . I want us to work and him ignoring me isnt helping .
It isn't you, it's him. Seriously. Just do your thing and if you're confident he'll see that and love you for it. If you're loyal he will know that too, but sometimes they need to have you confirm it so they feel it.
It's hard to explain. It's like they assume you're going to screw them over so that if something does go wrong they can tell themselves they knew it would happen, and then it's easier to let go and move on.
its like a mind game,, im going to just focus on me and relax
Posted by PISCESDOLL
its like a mind game,, im going to just focus on me and relax
It may seem like that, but it's not. An aquas worst fear is looking like a fool .
Posted by sultrykitty
What I do if he's acting weird about me "being somewhere" is that I'll actually call him either from wherever I am so he can hear the background noise (proving I'm not up to no good) or on my way home. That usually does the trick.
Or send a selfie with the place in the background!
Posted by sultrykitty
What I do if he's acting weird about me "being somewhere" is that I'll actually call him either from wherever I am so he can hear the background noise (proving I'm not up to no good) or on my way home. That usually does the trick.Or send a selfie with the place in the background!
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Or that. ..Mine REFUSES to get a cell phone.
Try to see it from his point of view.
If he was going out for drinks (at a BAR where there are women who will undoubtedly hit on him) with his friends (who are all quite possibly single) and you texted him and asked where he was and he said at home. Then you asked if you could come by for a minute before he went out, and his immediate response was no, I'll see you tomorrow. Then you said, no I want to see you now, then he responded he already left. Wouldn't it leave you wondering? (he said he was home, now he's not....he doesn't want to see me, I wonder why...suspicious thoughts pop into your head). Then he shows up at your place all dressed up (you might think, yeah, uh huh, he just said he was home, he didn't want me over there...um hmmm...he was somewhere else...where was he?)
If all these thoughts were going through your head....wouldn't you be upset, too? Which would make you distant? Or at least make you feel a little insecure?
From a guy's point of view, women in happy relationships have no business going to a bar where some dirty legged boy is going to be hitting on her. (just sayin' a LOT of guys think this way because they know how they act in a bar).
Not saying that's his logic, but sometimes putting ourselves on the other end can give us a different point of view that we might can understand and empathize with.
Posted by sultrykitty
What I do if he's acting weird about me "being somewhere" is that I'll actually call him either from wherever I am so he can hear the background noise (proving I'm not up to no good) or on my way home. That usually does the trick.Or send a selfie with the place in the background!
Or that. ..Mine REFUSES to get a cell phone.
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Old school!! lol!
Posted by sultrykitty
What I do if he's acting weird about me "being somewhere" is that I'll actually call him either from wherever I am so he can hear the background noise (proving I'm not up to no good) or on my way home. That usually does the trick.Or send a selfie with the place in the background!
Or that. ..Mine REFUSES to get a cell phone.
Old school!! lol!
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Cat lady astrology claims that aquas LOVE technology. Not this guy. He loves astronomy, Sci fi and nerds stuff...his business is restoring arcade games and pinball machines, but he hates computers, cell phones, or anything IT related.
Posted by sultrykitty
What I do if he's acting weird about me "being somewhere" is that I'll actually call him either from wherever I am so he can hear the background noise (proving I'm not up to no good) or on my way home. That usually does the trick.Or send a selfie with the place in the background!
Or that. ..Mine REFUSES to get a cell phone.
Old school!! lol!
Cat lady astrology claims that aquas LOVE technology. Not this guy. He loves astronomy, Sci fi and nerds stuff...his business is restoring arcade games and pinball machines, but he hates computers, cell phones, or anything IT related.
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the guy who wrote star trek (if i remember) is a Leo sun/Pisces moon. He may have aqua or 11th house but ...
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Gene_Roddenberry
ok he only has aquarius lilith.
my husband only has juno in aquarius. asteroids are underrated.
Posted by lisabethur8
my husband only has juno in aquarius. asteroids are underrated.
oh and 11th house. Like how George Clooney has 11th house moon Capricorn. something like that. i dont remember if he has any asteroids in aqua.
but of course other placements too make a difference.
Posted by PISCESDOLL
Hello folks,We started dating about 2 months ago he is an Aquarius born on Feb 11th and Im a Pisces born March 12th , we got into our first argument last night. I was home getting ready to go out for a couple of drinks while he was at his house watching the soccer game, we had texted earlier that day when It got late and it was almost ready to leave my house to meet with my friends he sent a text asking me where i was? I responded I was home . Then he mentioned he wanted to see me and I suggested we should leave it for the next day instead ( i said lets leave it for tomorrow ). Then hes like no but I can come just for a few minutes, by the time I read the text I had left and i replied I just left my house. He starts telling me that its weird how I said I was home one minute and gone the next . So I decided to stop by his house on my way to the bar and He was super upset and distant. So I explained to him what happened he said he thinks I am lying . That who knows where I wqas before I got to his house. that i wasnt at my house. so I told him exactly how things happened and left.
He sends a morning text everyday and today I havent heard a word from him ( this all happened last night) I didnt like the fact he called me a liar and that he doesnt trust me, he also compared me to women in his past he said he had heard the same story before that it was all a lie.
I am worried this could damage the relationship we are still building. I like him a lot but as a Pisces I cant stand rejection and I rather swim away that try to fight for someones love and attention..
Please advise?
it's like he's already stalking you and being all paranoid. Jeeeez.
Posted by lisabethur8
my husband only has juno in aquarius. asteroids are underrated.
My Aqua is 49% air too. Most of that is aqua. I'm nerdy as much as he is though. Aqua rising is my only aqua placement.
anyway, reading it, he feels you should tell him EVERYTHING. from when you got into the car, the bus, train or whatever it is, who you are meeting, ect.
omg. this guy is already paranoia crazy.
Posted by PISCESDOLL
Hello folks,We started dating about 2 months ago he is an Aquarius born on Feb 11th and Im a Pisces born March 12th , we got into our first argument last night. I was home getting ready to go out for a couple of drinks while he was at his house watching the soccer game, we had texted earlier that day when It got late and it was almost ready to leave my house to meet with my friends he sent a text asking me where i was? I responded I was home . Then he mentioned he wanted to see me and I suggested we should leave it for the next day instead ( i said lets leave it for tomorrow ). Then hes like no but I can come just for a few minutes, by the time I read the text I had left and i replied I just left my house. He starts telling me that its weird how I said I was home one minute and gone the next . So I decided to stop by his house on my way to the bar and He was super upset and distant. So I explained to him what happened he said he thinks I am lying . That who knows where I wqas before I got to his house. that i wasnt at my house. so I told him exactly how things happened and left.
He sends a morning text everyday and today I havent heard a word from him ( this all happened last night) I didnt like the fact he called me a liar and that he doesnt trust me, he also compared me to women in his past he said he had heard the same story before that it was all a lie.
I am worried this could damage the relationship we are still building. I like him a lot but as a Pisces I cant stand rejection and I rather swim away that try to fight for someones love and attention..
Please advise?
it's like he's already stalking you and being all paranoid. Jeeeez.
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He really likes her.
Posted by PISCESDOLL
Hello folks,We started dating about 2 months ago he is an Aquarius born on Feb 11th and Im a Pisces born March 12th , we got into our first argument last night. I was home getting ready to go out for a couple of drinks while he was at his house watching the soccer game, we had texted earlier that day when It got late and it was almost ready to leave my house to meet with my friends he sent a text asking me where i was? I responded I was home . Then he mentioned he wanted to see me and I suggested we should leave it for the next day instead ( i said lets leave it for tomorrow ). Then hes like no but I can come just for a few minutes, by the time I read the text I had left and i replied I just left my house. He starts telling me that its weird how I said I was home one minute and gone the next . So I decided to stop by his house on my way to the bar and He was super upset and distant. So I explained to him what happened he said he thinks I am lying . That who knows where I wqas before I got to his house. that i wasnt at my house. so I told him exactly how things happened and left.
He sends a morning text everyday and today I havent heard a word from him ( this all happened last night) I didnt like the fact he called me a liar and that he doesnt trust me, he also compared me to women in his past he said he had heard the same story before that it was all a lie.
I am worried this could damage the relationship we are still building. I like him a lot but as a Pisces I cant stand rejection and I rather swim away that try to fight for someones love and attention..
Please advise?
it's like he's already stalking you and being all paranoid. Jeeeez.
He really likes her.
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hm my husband DOES get upset when i don't get back from the grocery store, and he's home from work early, and he's waiting, and when i come home, as an example, he will go, "why didnt you call?"
-_-
and i have a shitload of groceries with me.
i don't think it ever really goes away. lol
Posted by PISCESDOLL
Hello folks,We started dating about 2 months ago he is an Aquarius born on Feb 11th and Im a Pisces born March 12th , we got into our first argument last night. I was home getting ready to go out for a couple of drinks while he was at his house watching the soccer game, we had texted earlier that day when It got late and it was almost ready to leave my house to meet with my friends he sent a text asking me where i was? I responded I was home . Then he mentioned he wanted to see me and I suggested we should leave it for the next day instead ( i said lets leave it for tomorrow ). Then hes like no but I can come just for a few minutes, by the time I read the text I had left and i replied I just left my house. He starts telling me that its weird how I said I was home one minute and gone the next . So I decided to stop by his house on my way to the bar and He was super upset and distant. So I explained to him what happened he said he thinks I am lying . That who knows where I wqas before I got to his house. that i wasnt at my house. so I told him exactly how things happened and left.
He sends a morning text everyday and today I havent heard a word from him ( this all happened last night) I didnt like the fact he called me a liar and that he doesnt trust me, he also compared me to women in his past he said he had heard the same story before that it was all a lie.
I am worried this could damage the relationship we are still building. I like him a lot but as a Pisces I cant stand rejection and I rather swim away that try to fight for someones love and attention..
Please advise?
it's like he's already stalking you and being all paranoid. Jeeeez.
He really likes her.
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anyway, they've started dating though. This is gonna kind of freak her out maybe. Unless she doesn't mind. lol
but the comparing women to his past is too freaky weird for me. and accusing of things you haven't even done...it's like cray already. too much overboard.
sorry my husband didn't start comparing me to women of his past. So .....i really can't say.
it's hard for me to be objective in this. sigh. -_-
so, it might be different for you, OP.
He's being very manipulative and trying to play the distant role...
When a man ignores you, live your life
And also most aquas do this...sit back and let him come to you, he will
Never ever chase anyone...as that will always be how the relationship will go
You didn't do anything wrong nor should you have to pay for what some crazy ex did to him
He's putting his past insecure baggage on your...as a pisces woman stay strong and be your beautiful self...trust me he wants you more than you like him...
I wouldn't do a thing, you've attempted to clear the air and he is still acting like a child.
also, if you can, what are his personal placements? that kind of thing?
sometimes a guy is just really insecure and you just need to reassure him. If you really really LIKE him alot, nothing will persuade you anyway because you want to be with him.
also!!
lol
i'll be honest. i really LOVE it when a man cares so freaking much. I may get all like, Humpf, look at you....getting all paranoid and stuff,
but when he cares so much, it makes me feel happy. it's such a weird and happy feeling.
some women dont like that. but i do.
kk that's my 50 cents.
Posted by lisabethur8
also!!lol
i'll be honest. i really LOVE it when a man cares so freaking much. I may get all like, Humpf, look at you....getting all paranoid and stuff,
but when he cares so much, it makes me feel happy. it's such a weird and happy feeling.some women dont like that. but i do.
kk that's my 50 cents.
I'm one that doesn't. If I tell you I'll be late, trust me enough that I'm working or at the store, not banging some faceless, nameless dude you've created to torment yourself and insult me.
Posted by truecap
Aquas are more insecure than they let on. Even though they're not good at reassurance, they like to be reassured. Just be consistent and honest because they can see through the BS if there is any.I'm sure a lot of them will deny this, though. lol!
😛
Well I have updates , he did respond my text later at night and said I had caused the argument, I asked him If we could talk and he said yes...
He came over my house I asked what did i do so bad for him to be upset. He said it just seemed weird that I rather go out with friends than him coming over my house to spend time together. I explained i had already planned it before he mentioned anything , I told him oi didnt appreciate him comparing me to anyone else because we are all different, that I havent given reasons to be called a liar.
He apologized and said he just doesnt want to get played specially cause the fact that he really likes me and he found out about it that night that he got so upset over me going out with friends. that he felt so angry and it was all because he really likes me.
then he just kept apologizing and asked me to stay over his house. so we were able to fix things however he tried to act a little arrogant. ( usually when we are at his house he will offer something to drink/eat and he would get it for me, last night he offered something to drink and told me to go get it myself-- lol i didnt mind but it was very unusual my first time ever touching his fridge! lol)
Just keep that conversation in mind and respect his feelings/thoughts in the future. If you do that, now that you know how he thinks, there shouldn't be any more problems.
Posted by truecap
From a guy's point of view, women in happy relationships have no business going to a bar where some dirty legged boy is going to be hitting on her. (just sayin' a LOT of guys think this way because they know how they act in a bar)..
...doesn't want to get played
...he really likes me
Yep, called it.😄
I do think this will happen still. You have to just rise above it and stay true to yourself. He's treating you like a best friend bit on the other hand he really likes you. So he's going to misinterpret a lot of things you say and do (although it may not be as often with a water sign as with a fire sign like me who's as stubborn as he is). He may never really get over that insecurity so be prepared for that.
But Aquas are so much fun and really sweet hearted.
umm yeah , I understand what you mean but he never had a problem with me going out with friends before. i mean i would mention i was going out and he would just say ok have fun. but then i think this time around was because he felt i turned him down to go out with friends.
Just be careful not to isolate yourself from friends because you're afraid of hurting his feelings. They're good at taking advantage of these situations. It happened to me and hasn't been particularly healthy. We tend to get post in each other and that's not good.
*Get lost in each other.
Posted by lisabethur8
also!!lol
i'll be honest. i really LOVE it when a man cares so freaking much. I may get all like, Humpf, look at you....getting all paranoid and stuff,
but when he cares so much, it makes me feel happy. it's such a weird and happy feeling.some women dont like that. but i do.
kk that's my 50 cents.
I'm one that doesn't. If I tell you I'll be late, trust me enough that I'm working or at the store, not banging some faceless, nameless dude you've created to torment yourself and insult me.
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lol
oh yeah i remember ...both of you are dominant air.
Posted by PISCESDOLL
Well I have updates , he did respond my text later at night and said I had caused the argument, I asked him If we could talk and he said yes...
He came over my house I asked what did i do so bad for him to be upset. He said it just seemed weird that I rather go out with friends than him coming over my house to spend time together. I explained i had already planned it before he mentioned anything , I told him oi didnt appreciate him comparing me to anyone else because we are all different, that I havent given reasons to be called a liar.
He apologized and said he just doesnt want to get played specially cause the fact that he really likes me and he found out about it that night that he got so upset over me going out with friends. that he felt so angry and it was all because he really likes me.then he just kept apologizing and asked me to stay over his house. so we were able to fix things however he tried to act a little arrogant. ( usually when we are at his house he will offer something to drink/eat and he would get it for me, last night he offered something to drink and told me to go get it myself-- lol i didnt mind but it was very unusual my first time ever touching his fridge! lol)
there you have it. he's very jealous of his time with you. he wants all your time and not you spending it with your friends.
Posted by sultrykitty
Just be careful not to isolate yourself from friends because you're afraid of hurting his feelings. They're good at taking advantage of these situations. It happened to me and hasn't been particularly healthy. We tend to get post in each other and that's not good.
i agree with this. my husband has his very close friends, but most of the time, he takes me with him and i hang out with him and them. lol
their girlfriends (his close friends gfs) dont like to join in which is sad for me. They are not into "clinging" around with their men or something.
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Hello folks,
We started dating about 2 months ago he is an Aquarius born on Feb 11th and Im a Pisces born March 12th , we got into our first argument last night. I was home getting ready to go out for a couple of drinks while he was at his house watching the soccer game, we had texted earlier that day when It got late and it was almost ready to leave my house to meet with my friends he sent a text asking me where i was? I responded I was home . Then he mentioned he wanted to see me and I suggested we should leave it for the next day instead ( i said lets leave it for tomorrow ). Then hes like no but I can come just for a few minutes, by the time I read the text I had left and i replied I just left my house. He starts telling me that its weird how I said I was home one minute and gone the next . So I decided to stop by his house on my way to the bar and He was super upset and distant. So I explained to him what happened he said he thinks I am lying . That who knows where I wqas before I got to his house. that i wasnt at my house. so I told him exactly how things happened and left.
He sends a morning text everyday and today I havent heard a word from him ( this all happened last night) I didnt like the fact he called me a liar and that he doesnt trust me, he also compared me to women in his past he said he had heard the same story before that it was all a lie.
I am worried this could damage the relationship we are still building. I like him a lot but as a Pisces I cant stand rejection and I rather swim away that try to fight for someones love and attention..
Please advise?