
Who have experienced this with their SO ? How was it? Intense? Annoying? Frustrating? Sensitive?



Posted by palehoovesWe're you the mars or the moon person?
i've had it.
it was one of the most intense and emotionally volatile connections i've ever had. i told them it felt like i was emotionally raped. made me pretty crazy. i freaked out all the time. i felt like every little thing they did was grinding me into the ground. it's hard to even explain. it also felt like my feelings were broadcast to them and that i had no privacy. i don't think they realized to the degree that shit fucked me up. lmao. it was a super rough connection at first. which was hard on me because i'm a taurus and i want everything to be pretty and gentle. i think it might have been worse because of the fact it was in a mars ruled sign.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I didn't try.. it just happened.. ??
Conjunct is bad try to aim for trine and sextile. Conjunction you will automatically have to bend or compromise but which ego will let it be.

Posted by palehoovesI'm the moon he's the mars...
i was the moon.

Posted by LilianniMy moon is in aries and his mars is in Aries as well... Ugh!!! I feel like he gets turned on when I'm angry and evil... That's when he feel most loved.... when I'm being gentle and talking to him nicely, he feels like I'm being "fake".... But if I'm verbally abusive to him, then he likes that....
I've had this where I was moon and mars.
When i was mars (Scorpio), I felt like I could read him. He turned me on and the things he did made me happy. I kind of liked seeing him act that way because it was was genuine and interesting. We talked about kids a lot. He later implied that I was abusive towards him.
When I was moon (Aries), it was TERRIBLE but part of the reason why was because I didn't even like him. He was already in a relationship and he rubbed off on me the wrong way so we never even became friends. I felt like he was VERY direct. Like he wanted to conquer me. Like he wanted me to get emotional and angry for his own sake. And I felt like he got turned on that way. I felt like everything he did made me feel on edge and supercharged. I couldnt feel calm around him, i always felt on edge. I felt like I couldn't hide. I wanted to defend myself but I felt like he could see through me.
When I was Scorpio, he told me that how many children he has is the woman's decision and so if she wants two kids, then he's okay with that. It was a turn on for me because that was deep and sexual. I liked when he was deep.
When I was Aries, I spoke up to my teacher to try to get clarification for a friend and he wasn't being clear so I asked again and the teacher ignored me. I asked again and he ignored me. I was starting to get pissed and it was showing through my voice. Then the Aries mars spoke up and clarified for me. He turned around and looked straight at me and smiled. Like, no bs, I'm interested in you. It felt kind of direct. Whenever I acted my aries moon, he would say that was real, that wasn't a fake reaction. And he would like to watch me act that way. I didn't like it.
It does feel like emotional rape. Make sure you both like each other first.
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by LilianniMy moon is in aries and his mars is in Aries as well... Ugh!!! I feel like he gets turned on when I'm angry and evil... That's when he feel most loved.... when I'm being gentle and talking to him nicely, he feels like I'm being "fake".... But if I'm verbally abusive to him, then he likes that....
I've had this where I was moon and mars.
When i was mars (Scorpio), I felt like I could read him. He turned me on and the things he did made me happy. I kind of liked seeing him act that way because it was was genuine and interesting. We talked about kids a lot. He later implied that I was abusive towards him.
When I was moon (Aries), it was TERRIBLE but part of the reason why was because I didn't even like him. He was already in a relationship and he rubbed off on me the wrong way so we never even became friends. I felt like he was VERY direct. Like he wanted to conquer me. Like he wanted me to get emotional and angry for his own sake. And I felt like he got turned on that way. I felt like everything he did made me feel on edge and supercharged. I couldnt feel calm around him, i always felt on edge. I felt like I couldn't hide. I wanted to defend myself but I felt like he could see through me.
When I was Scorpio, he told me that how many children he has is the woman's decision and so if she wants two kids, then he's okay with that. It was a turn on for me because that was deep and sexual. I liked when he was deep.
When I was Aries, I spoke up to my teacher to try to get clarification for a friend and he wasn't being clear so I asked again and the teacher ignored me. I asked again and he ignored me. I was starting to get pissed and it was showing through my voice. Then the Aries mars spoke up and clarified for me. He turned around and looked straight at me and smiled. Like, no bs, I'm interested in you. It felt kind of direct. Whenever I acted my aries moon, he would say that was real, that wasn't a fake reaction. And he would like to watch me act that way. I didn't like it.
It does feel like emotional rape. Make sure you both like each other first.
He's making me HATE him more and more, day by day.... Every time I try to cut him off (block him from my phone), he'll find another way to get to me (ask people to contact me for him)... He makes me so emotional and I really don't like it.... But the sex is AMAZING.... Ugh!!!! Also, his moon is conjunct my Venus and my Mars is conjunct his Sun.... So there's a lot of Moon in this relationship....
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Posted by LilianniPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by LilianniMy moon is in aries and his mars is in Aries as well... Ugh!!! I feel like he gets turned on when I'm angry and evil... That's when he feel most loved.... when I'm being gentle and talking to him nicely, he feels like I'm being "fake".... But if I'm verbally abusive to him, then he likes that....
I've had this where I was moon and mars.
When i was mars (Scorpio), I felt like I could read him. He turned me on and the things he did made me happy. I kind of liked seeing him act that way because it was was genuine and interesting. We talked about kids a lot. He later implied that I was abusive towards him.
When I was moon (Aries), it was TERRIBLE but part of the reason why was because I didn't even like him. He was already in a relationship and he rubbed off on me the wrong way so we never even became friends. I felt like he was VERY direct. Like he wanted to conquer me. Like he wanted me to get emotional and angry for his own sake. And I felt like he got turned on that way. I felt like everything he did made me feel on edge and supercharged. I couldnt feel calm around him, i always felt on edge. I felt like I couldn't hide. I wanted to defend myself but I felt like he could see through me.
When I was Scorpio, he told me that how many children he has is the woman's decision and so if she wants two kids, then he's okay with that. It was a turn on for me because that was deep and sexual. I liked when he was deep.
When I was Aries, I spoke up to my teacher to try to get clarification for a friend and he wasn't being clear so I asked again and the teacher ignored me. I asked again and he ignored me. I was starting to get pissed and it was showing through my voice. Then the Aries mars spoke up and clarified for me. He turned around and looked straight at me and smiled. Like, no bs, I'm interested in you. It felt kind of direct. Whenever I acted my aries moon, he would say that was real, that wasn't a fake reaction. And he would like to watch me act that way. I didn't like it.
It does feel like emotional rape. Make sure you both like each other first.
He's making me HATE him more and more, day by day.... Every time I try to cut him off (block him from my phone), he'll find another way to get to me (ask people to contact me for him)... He makes me so emotional and I really don't like it.... But the sex is AMAZING.... Ugh!!!! Also, his moon is conjunct my Venus and my Mars is conjunct his Sun.... So there's a lot of Moon in this relationship....
Oh god, that sounds crazy..
I feel like the effect is worse because it's in Aries. And unfortunately for me, I never experienced the sex part.
Are you guys still going out?
And i dont know about you but I personally don't like to go all out and evil. I can but it gives me a headache
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Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by LilianniPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by LilianniMy moon is in aries and his mars is in Aries as well... Ugh!!! I feel like he gets turned on when I'm angry and evil... That's when he feel most loved.... when I'm being gentle and talking to him nicely, he feels like I'm being "fake".... But if I'm verbally abusive to him, then he likes that....
I've had this where I was moon and mars.
When i was mars (Scorpio), I felt like I could read him. He turned me on and the things he did made me happy. I kind of liked seeing him act that way because it was was genuine and interesting. We talked about kids a lot. He later implied that I was abusive towards him.
When I was moon (Aries), it was TERRIBLE but part of the reason why was because I didn't even like him. He was already in a relationship and he rubbed off on me the wrong way so we never even became friends. I felt like he was VERY direct. Like he wanted to conquer me. Like he wanted me to get emotional and angry for his own sake. And I felt like he got turned on that way. I felt like everything he did made me feel on edge and supercharged. I couldnt feel calm around him, i always felt on edge. I felt like I couldn't hide. I wanted to defend myself but I felt like he could see through me.
When I was Scorpio, he told me that how many children he has is the woman's decision and so if she wants two kids, then he's okay with that. It was a turn on for me because that was deep and sexual. I liked when he was deep.
When I was Aries, I spoke up to my teacher to try to get clarification for a friend and he wasn't being clear so I asked again and the teacher ignored me. I asked again and he ignored me. I was starting to get pissed and it was showing through my voice. Then the Aries mars spoke up and clarified for me. He turned around and looked straight at me and smiled. Like, no bs, I'm interested in you. It felt kind of direct. Whenever I acted my aries moon, he would say that was real, that wasn't a fake reaction. And he would like to watch me act that way. I didn't like it.
It does feel like emotional rape. Make sure you both like each other first.
He's making me HATE him more and more, day by day.... Every time I try to cut him off (block him from my phone), he'll find another way to get to me (ask people to contact me for him)... He makes me so emotional and I really don't like it.... But the sex is AMAZING.... Ugh!!!! Also, his moon is conjunct my Venus and my Mars is conjunct his Sun.... So there's a lot of Moon in this relationship....
Oh god, that sounds crazy..
I feel like the effect is worse because it's in Aries. And unfortunately for me, I never experienced the sex part.
Are you guys still going out?
And i dont know about you but I personally don't like to go all out and evil. I can but it gives me a headache
No, I'm done with him... I blocked him and the people he tell to contact me... Also, I have this same aspect in Aries with my mom... UGH!!!.... my Moon conj her Mars and my Moon conj her Moon... So stuff gets pretty intense... Also, I feel as if her Aries Mars make her impulsive and I HATE THAT.... But at the same time she's my best friend and is the only person that I can truly say "understands" me
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