Neptune aspects (negative?)

I have Neptune opposite my Sun and square my Moon. I have a friend with the exact same aspects. Some of my family members have had Neptune trine a personal planet, supposedly a positive aspect. In my experience, when I think of myself and said family members, we're all pretty dreamy, artistic, extremely sympathetic, empathetic, sensitive... pathetic? We can really go out on a limb for others and sacrifice a lot to do so. I'll say that I'm not uncomfortable with anyones grief or personal problems, even if I do absorb their feelings for a while, I can't turn away from them.

We can and have been deceived and disillusioned. All that negative stuff that Neptune supposedly causes. None of us have had PROBLEMS with drugs or alcohol, though we do indulge our guilty pleasures regularly (mine is my horrible sweet tooth!) Anyway, I think too much of what is written about Neptune is one sided. The positive aspects get all the glory (you can be artistic, imaginative, sympathetic, helpful, sensitive) while the "bad" aspects make us automatically suck (you might have problems with drugs, weight, deception, you're too "out there" for our own good, your mental heal sucks, you're too weak and wishy washy!)

Well, your input is appreciated, if you have any. I'd like to add one last thing, BOUNDARIES! WE HAVE A PROBLEM WITH BOUNDARIES!!!!

I have Neptune as one of my dominant planets (being a Virgo...I HATE IT). It trines my sun, sextiles my mars, and squares my moon. (And rules my IC)

I can be very dreamy. I daydream a lot, idealize a better future, and work towards making my dreams come true.

And I'm the same as you. I don't have a drug or alcohol addiction and identify with the so called positive aspects. It makes it hard to see things as it is without adding any wishful thinking into the equation. I personally don't like Neptune. However, everyone is different, some people would rather be blissfully unaware or just have faith in life.

I have Neptune conjunct rising and I'm dreamy spacey nice psychic. Sensitive and compassionate and so have addictions

I have Neptune in 1st, trine Pluto, square Asc. It's interesting but mostly negative I think. I can't block out anything, physically or psychically. It's true, there is no boundary of Self - like I experience other people. That's why I mostly avoid them. My Scorpio rising probably helps prevent people from bothering me too much, thankfully. I don't really fall for other people's whining or deceptions. But yeah, I spent most of the time in another reality.

No problems with addictions or anything of that sort. I don't like alcohol and life is weird enough for me without drugs. I do get distracted easily though, especially by cute animal videos.