Too much difference or I'm just a stick in the mud?

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Posted by Phangus

That actually looks like good synastry to me, mostly. The Venuses are a little weird for each other. What's the situation?

A little weird? From what I'm learning is that my Taurus Venus wants to be reasonably committed and that her Sagittarius Venus wants to be free to what ever life may bring. She is still out of town and could be for a couple months now or until spring.
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A lot of posts never show the outcome.

I had patiently been waiting for this lady to move back so I could say more than "hi, hello". Well she bought another house near where she had lived. At our age she basically just made a life decision and obviously I wasn't in the back of her mind when she did. The one and only time she called me she was asking for housing advice in my area and I was not helpful and did not realize it was her until I hung up.

@LadyNeptune "They can work. But in your case, she's just not into you." I wished it was that easy for me to get her off my mind.
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Posted by Shy_Taurus

A lot of posts never show the outcome.

I had patiently been waiting for this lady to move back so I could say more than "hi, hello". Well she bought another house near where she had lived. At our age she basically just made a life decision and obviously I wasn't in the back of her mind when she did. The one and only time she called me she was asking for housing advice in my area and I was not helpful and did not realize it was her until I hung up.

@LadyNeptune "They can work. But in your case, she's just not into you." I wished it was that easy for me to get her off my mind.


Couple of things caught my attention in this message. Why are you expecting her to consider you in her home buying purchase and you have not even made a pass at her yet? You are way to up in age to be beating around the bush like this, If you are interested in this woman, use your taurean charm and Show her.

When she called you After you realized it was her, you should have called her back and told her I’m sorry, I didn’t realize it was you. I would like to offer some more advice. Can we talk over lunch? Then you could have had a date set up.
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Couple of things caught my attention in this message. Why are you expecting her to consider you in her home buying purchase and you have not even made a pass at her yet? You are way to up in age to be beating around the bush like this, If you are interested in this woman, use your taurean charm and Show her.

When she called you After you realized it was her, you should have called her back and told her I’m sorry, I didn’t realize it was you. I would like to offer some more advice. Can we talk over lunch? Then you could have had a date set up.

It's not that I expected her to, Its that I had heard that was her plan, to move back home. Never made a pass at her but had a crush on her and she knew. Then we married other people and now are both single again. I'm still close with her family. I can walk around the block and visit her mother, which we both enjoy. My Taurean charm has severe (paralyzing) stage fright if I'm attracted to someone or not on my own turf/in my element. I should have called her back and offered to be more helpful. I kept doing nothing. Because I thought she would move back to town I would then pursue. She literally went from no plan yet in October to selling house and buying house simultaneously in January. So I have goofed up good again. But I believe @LadyNeptune is correct "she's just not into you".