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Young guy older woman advice needed
How to Approach a Mature Woman You Admire
To approach a mature woman respectfully, start with casual interactions and build rapport. Avoid leaving notes or messaging without her consent, as it may seem intrusive. Instead, initiate a friendly conversation when you see her, showing genuine interest without pressure. Respect her response and boundaries to foster a positive connection.
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Shoot. Your. Shot.
I wanted to expedite this by putting a letter or a note in her door, ringing the bell and running away or just leaving the note for her to discover whenever she comes home or leaves home.
Any thoughts on this? How would you react if you got a note saying something like “I really like you please text me ###-###-####” or “hey let’s go to the beach together ###”
Ok I posted first without reading.
This is horrifying. I've been on the receiving end of getting a random note from an admirer (cough stalker cough) and moved shortly after as I was severely creeped out that this rando knew where I lived.
That libralife that’s how I’m gonna do it I guess, I got a very bad feedback from everyone on another platform about the note as well.. and yeah in her gown I startled her, but we said hi to each other, I don’t think she worked today or from home. When I was sitting home it would be possible to stalk her out but right now it will be difficult..
I think leaving a note on her door asking her out or if you two could talk sometime would be a nice gesture to get things going. Especially if you don’t tend to bump into her much naturally. Only if you’ve already introduced yourself and she knows who you are. Just be mature, straightforward and sincere and I think she’ll appreciate it.
I think leaving a note on her door asking her out or if you two could talk sometime would be a nice gesture to get things going. Especially if you don’t tend to bump into her much naturally. Only if you’ve already introduced yourself and she knows who you are. Just be mature, straightforward and sincere and I think she’ll appreciate it.
Thanks for the response Abby, that’s my thinking... I don’t intend to keep leaving her messages, I want to leave something funny so she would text me and immediately ask her to go to the beach on weekend. I could even leave such note on Friday so beach would be next day.
I’m pretty sure she’s well off
Yikes who would want to date a guy 20+ years younger. It’d feel like I was dating my son 🤦♀️
I’m pretty sure she’s well off
So she is looking for you? 🤦♀️
And why at 28 you don’t have a normal age difference woman in your life and looking at this woman like if she was your only option?
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I didn’t say she was I’m just saying money has nothing to do with anything here, I find it weird some people here mention it. It’s about an exciting relationship. She adores my cat, maybe if I have another encounter I could get her talking and get her number Idk..
I’m pretty sure she’s well off
So she is looking for you? 🤦♀️
And why at 28 you don’t have a normal age difference woman in your life and looking at this woman like if she was your only option?
I wonder this too. Serious question.
I don’t get it. Is it purely physical? Curiosity about what it’s like to be with an older woman? I don’t get it and always question their intentions.
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Yeah right now it’s just physical attraction
I’m pretty sure she’s well off
So she is looking for you? 🤦♀️
And why at 28 you don’t have a normal age difference woman in your life and looking at this woman like if she was your only option?
I didn’t say she was I’m just saying money has nothing to do with anything here, I find it weird some people here mention it. It’s about an exciting relationship. She adores my cat, maybe if I have another encounter I could get her talking and get her number Idk..
Sooo...you ARE the one of those ‘men’ who can’t court a woman of your age and hoping that an older woman will ‘appreciate’ your youth and teach you how to fuck so you can take this lessons to get a woman you can actually date?
That figures...
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“Nooo...” I’m not, you just assumed a whole bunch of nonesense. I’m a completely normal 28 year old male who’s had girlfriends and fwb’s and right now I want her, simple as that.
I’m pretty sure she’s well off
So she is looking for you? 🤦♀️
And why at 28 you don’t have a normal age difference woman in your life and looking at this woman like if she was your only option?
I didn’t say she was I’m just saying money has nothing to do with anything here, I find it weird some people here mention it. It’s about an exciting relationship. She adores my cat, maybe if I have another encounter I could get her talking and get her number Idk..
Sooo...you ARE the one of those ‘men’ who can’t court a woman of your age and hoping that an older woman will ‘appreciate’ your youth and teach you how to fuck so you can take this lessons to get a woman you can actually date?
That figures...
“Nooo...” I’m not, you just assumed a whole bunch of nonesense. I’m a completely normal 28 year old male who’s had girlfriends and fwb’s and right now I want her, simple as that.
‘Normal’ 28 y/old male don’t get an ideas of leaving a note and run...
You are a man/child with screwed up outlook on life and sex all together. She admired your cat?
And you hadn’t found a way to say a word to her?
Not even introduce yourself? You ARE a child. Grow up!
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That was before I realized how sexy she was.
I think leaving a note on her door asking her out or if you two could talk sometime would be a nice gesture to get things going. Especially if you don’t tend to bump into her much naturally. Only if you’ve already introduced yourself and she knows who you are. Just be mature, straightforward and sincere and I think she’ll appreciate it.
Thanks for the response Abby, that’s my thinking... I don’t intend to keep leaving her messages, I want to leave something funny so she would text me and immediately ask her to go to the beach on weekend. I could even leave such note on Friday so beach would be next day.
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As long as you’ve met her and introduced yourself beforehand, I don’t find an issue with this method. If you have and have just missed her a lot due to different schedules, it could open it up for a date. Also, just saying hi remember me? I hope we get to bump into each other again soon! Signed-#whatever
I don’t get why there is such an issue with age from other people on here, but I say you like who you like. Either she reciprocates or she doesn’t. Life is too short to wonder what if.
I’ve decided to wait and get another random encounter, but from now on I’ll be sweet with her and jokingly ask her to go to the beach with her. Or bring my cat over to her place for a play date.
Before I just ignored her, but twice already I was blown away, she’s HOT, butbnormally wears crappy clothes so you can’t tell
I’ve decided to wait and get another random encounter, but from now on I’ll be sweet with her and jokingly ask her to go to the beach with her. Or bring my cat over to her place for a play date.
Waiting to ask her out in person would always be good. Not jokingly, seriously. No point in being coy if you are interested. Just be confident and maybe she’ll bite.
Before I just ignored her, but twice already I was blown away, she’s HOT, butbnormally wears crappy clothes so you can’t tell
Probably bc you see her at home. She dresses down for comfort I’m sure like the rest of us. Stop ignoring her and show your interest if you want a date. She either says yes or she says no.
I think leaving a note on her door asking her out or if you two could talk sometime would be a nice gesture to get things going. Especially if you don’t tend to bump into her much naturally. Only if you’ve already introduced yourself and she knows who you are. Just be mature, straightforward and sincere and I think she’ll appreciate it.
Thanks for the response Abby, that’s my thinking... I don’t intend to keep leaving her messages, I want to leave something funny so she would text me and immediately ask her to go to the beach on weekend. I could even leave such note on Friday so beach would be next day.
As long as you’ve met her and introduced yourself beforehand, I don’t find an issue with this method. If you have and have just missed her a lot due to different schedules, it could open it up for a date. Also, just saying hi remember me? I hope we get to bump into each other again soon! Signed-#whatever
I don’t get why there is such an issue with age from other people on here, but I say you like who you like. Either she reciprocates or she doesn’t. Life is too short to wonder what if.
Why the age issue? Imagine 16 y/old is asking you for a sex date...even 18 (to be legal)...wheeeew! 🤮
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That’s not the case though. They are both adults. I just don’t agree with your perspective but it’s yours so it is what it is. I’m just giving mine. Adults can do what they please.
I dated a man 18 years my senior when I was 22. He was very young at heart so it didn’t mean much to me. No it didn’t work out but I don’t blame the age difference.
I think leaving a note on her door asking her out or if you two could talk sometime would be a nice gesture to get things going. Especially if you don’t tend to bump into her much naturally. Only if you’ve already introduced yourself and she knows who you are. Just be mature, straightforward and sincere and I think she’ll appreciate it.
Thanks for the response Abby, that’s my thinking... I don’t intend to keep leaving her messages, I want to leave something funny so she would text me and immediately ask her to go to the beach on weekend. I could even leave such note on Friday so beach would be next day.
As long as you’ve met her and introduced yourself beforehand, I don’t find an issue with this method. If you have and have just missed her a lot due to different schedules, it could open it up for a date. Also, just saying hi remember me? I hope we get to bump into each other again soon! Signed-#whatever
I don’t get why there is such an issue with age from other people on here, but I say you like who you like. Either she reciprocates or she doesn’t. Life is too short to wonder what if.
Why the age issue? Imagine 16 y/old is asking you for a sex date...even 18 (to be legal)...wheeeew! 🤮
That’s not the case though. They are both adults. I just don’t agree with your perspective but it’s yours so it is what it is. I’m just giving mine. Adults can do what they please.
I dated a man 18 years my senior when I was 22. He was very young at heart so it didn’t mean much to me. No it didn’t work out but I don’t blame the age difference.
I am not saying anything about older men. I always dated older...but can you imagine not dating - having sex with 18 y/old now when you are twice older?
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Neither is 18 yrs old so I find this to be a moot point. He’s 28 yrs old for peets sake.
You should ask her out for a cat play date at the beach. Your parents can drive you both there.
Definitely don’t do anything you’ve suggested! Wait till you bump into her again and see if she Is into you. You’ll know if she is, and if you don’t see it. It probably isn’t there. If she’s in her 40’s the gap is doable but if she’s in her 50’s probably not even a consideration. She’ll have kids your age!
A general conversation of weather and day to day small talk would be a better way to start before full on hitting her up on a date. Don’t be in such a rush.
14 year age gap ~ 🔥 as hell...
Definitely don’t do anything you’ve suggested! Wait till you bump into her again and see if she Is into you. You’ll know if she is, and if you don’t see it. It probably isn’t there. If she’s in her 40’s the gap is doable but if she’s in her 50’s probably not even a consideration. She’ll have kids your age!
A general conversation of weather and day to day small talk would be a better way to start before full on hitting her up on a date. Don’t be in such a rush.
She doesn’t gave any kids so she doesn’t have that mental package “oh no he’s like my son”
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
plus he is GUESSING her age. I have seen 30 year old woman who look 50.
Definitely don’t do anything you’ve suggested! Wait till you bump into her again and see if she Is into you. You’ll know if she is, and if you don’t see it. It probably isn’t there. If she’s in her 40’s the gap is doable but if she’s in her 50’s probably not even a consideration. She’ll have kids your age!
A general conversation of weather and day to day small talk would be a better way to start before full on hitting her up on a date. Don’t be in such a rush.
She doesn’t gave any kids so she doesn’t have that mental package “oh no he’s like my son”
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And she hasn’t got any friends that have kids your age?? Trust me, I am off that age and I have friends that also feel and think that when the situation arises. Woman are frowned upon if they date younger unlike men. 10 years... ok but 20 or more— You really stop and think!
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Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
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Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
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Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
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Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
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Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
plus he is GUESSING her age. I have seen 30 year old woman who look 50.
Amen to this
Huge double standard🙄
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Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
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But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
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Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
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One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
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I see what you are saying but it all depends on you as a person and they friends and family you have. Some might be more supportive than others, as per your example above. 😢
There’s a difference between love and lust, OP.
Exactly we are both consenting adults, but it is a bit of taboo even if it’s a double standard. If nobody knew us that would be fine, I’d have absolutely no issue being public and PDA. Since we lived in the same place for 15-20 years it’s a bit different everyone knows us, so flirting is only possible when no one is around and only when we bump into each other, which now can be considerably more rare..
I found her name yesterday, found her linked in profile, she doesn’t have a picture on it, and she hasn’t switched job places in the last 16 years. I’ve never seen her with any friends or on the phone with anyone, she used to live with her father who passed away, she now lives alone and she’s incredibly hot but hides it..
I didn’t add her on linked in just used it to find some basic info. I will probably try to approach her next time I see her and invite her to the beach..
Not only everyone knows us, my parents live in the same building infront of her apartment, I am in a different apartment.
Next time you see her in her thin gown you comment on it. You say "I love your gown, I would literally eat it while you are wearing it. And then I would eat you. Btw my name is XY and I am an Aries. Let's go to your place, I am hungry". The good thing about this is you don't waste any time talking stupid nonsense about the weather, cats or beaches. And also from now on she knows she can count on you whenever she really feels lonely. And there is another benefit to it as well because no matter what she says, she will be out of your system as soon as you tell her face to face that you want to see her naked.
Trust me I have done this 2.5 times, it works. Well ok, sometimes it didn't work because I was too stupid. I approached a 50 year old hot woman from Israel once and while acting all interested and nice she went like "Oooh, I know you, you want only sex huh?" I was trying to keep it serious and said "nooo, why would you think that". Well she just knew it 😡
I love her
Next time you see her in her thin gown you comment on it. You say "I love your gown, I would literally eat it while you are wearing it. And then I would eat you. Btw my name is XY and I am an Aries. Let's go to your place, I am hungry". The good thing about this is you don't waste any time talking stupid nonsense about the weather, cats or beaches. And also from now on she knows she can count on you whenever she really feels lonely. And there is another benefit to it as well because no matter what she says, she will be out of your system as soon as you tell her face to face that you want to see her naked.
Trust me I have done this 2.5 times, it works. Well ok, sometimes it didn't work because I was too stupid. I approached a 50 year old hot woman from Israel once and while acting all interested and nice she went like "Oooh, I know you, you want only sex huh?" I was trying to keep it serious and said "nooo, why would you think that". Well she just knew it 😡
I guessing because most older woman are not stupid lol
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Next time you see her in her thin gown you comment on it. You say "I love your gown, I would literally eat it while you are wearing it. And then I would eat you. Btw my name is XY and I am an Aries. Let's go to your place, I am hungry". The good thing about this is you don't waste any time talking stupid nonsense about the weather, cats or beaches. And also from now on she knows she can count on you whenever she really feels lonely. And there is another benefit to it as well because no matter what she says, she will be out of your system as soon as you tell her face to face that you want to see her naked.
Trust me I have done this 2.5 times, it works. Well ok, sometimes it didn't work because I was too stupid. I approached a 50 year old hot woman from Israel once and while acting all interested and nice she went like "Oooh, I know you, you want only sex huh?" I was trying to keep it serious and said "nooo, why would you think that". Well she just knew it 😡
I guessing because most older woman are not stupid lol
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Right. That's why you have to be direct with them
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
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Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
Because he is NOT an adult! He is note posting running off creep...
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I’m not talking about Mr. Note Poster 🤨
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴
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Yes but when you’re around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but it’d be Close.
Plus, it’s still like high school. People are always up in everyone else’s business, no matter what age you are. Some people can’t help themselves and want to gossip and stir shit!
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴
Yes but when you’re around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but it’d be Close.
Plus, it’s still like high school. People are always up in everyone else’s business, no matter what age you are. Some people can’t help themselves and want to gossip and stir shit!
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Yes people need to get a life lol ... 🙄
14 year age gap ~ 🔥 as hell...
That whole damn movie 🔥 🔥
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴
Yes but when you’re around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but it’d be Close.
Plus, it’s still like high school. People are always up in everyone else’s business, no matter what age you are. Some people can’t help themselves and want to gossip and stir shit!
Yes people need to get a life lol ... 🙄
Dxp isn’t confession booth where everything promises to stay private and non judged...and even there its not guarantee...
HERE people willingly post shit and thus they deserve blow in the head...ridiculing...ass slapping...insult...stupid shit from stupid people...and THEN AFTER MAYBE a sound advise they came for on a first place.
Some get ignored and upset.
Some get attention and get upset.
All unhappy asses - ITS FREE FORUM where NOBODY owes you an ass kissing. Ass kicking - yes but some don’t even get to that level.
And if your post sits without attention - you probably a real life loser. But you most likely don’t want to hear that.
Wait...what was that all about? I am not awake yet...and I am one hug short...🙄
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Yes you need more hugs 🤗 🤗 🤗
Time to call in the reserves!
🥴
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴
Yes but when you’re around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but it’d be Close.
Plus, it’s still like high school. People are always up in everyone else’s business, no matter what age you are. Some people can’t help themselves and want to gossip and stir shit!
Yes people need to get a life lol ... 🙄
Dxp isn’t confession booth where everything promises to stay private and non judged...and even there its not guarantee...
HERE people willingly post shit and thus they deserve blow in the head...ridiculing...ass slapping...insult...stupid shit from stupid people...and THEN AFTER MAYBE a sound advise they came for on a first place.
Some get ignored and upset.
Some get attention and get upset.
All unhappy asses - ITS FREE FORUM where NOBODY owes you an ass kissing. Ass kicking - yes but some don’t even get to that level.
And if your post sits without attention - you probably a real life loser. But you most likely don’t want to hear that.
Wait...what was that all about? I am not awake yet...and I am one hug short...🙄
Yes you need more hugs 🤗 🤗 🤗
Time to call in the reserves!
🥴
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LOL
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴
Yes but when you’re around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but it’d be Close.
Plus, it’s still like high school. People are always up in everyone else’s business, no matter what age you are. Some people can’t help themselves and want to gossip and stir shit!
Yes people need to get a life lol ... 🙄
Dxp isn’t confession booth where everything promises to stay private and non judged...and even there its not guarantee...
HERE people willingly post shit and thus they deserve blow in the head...ridiculing...ass slapping...insult...stupid shit from stupid people...and THEN AFTER MAYBE a sound advise they came for on a first place.
Some get ignored and upset.
Some get attention and get upset.
All unhappy asses - ITS FREE FORUM where NOBODY owes you an ass kissing. Ass kicking - yes but some don’t even get to that level.
And if your post sits without attention - you probably a real life loser. But you most likely don’t want to hear that.
Wait...what was that all about? I am not awake yet...and I am one hug short...🙄
Yes you need more hugs 🤗 🤗 🤗
Time to call in the reserves!
🥴
I did...mentioned...and we were in traffic and he tried to hug me...by placing both hands in my neck...we were in the way to his psychiatrist...lol
Believe it or not it’s all true. Except he was joking about chocking...😂😂😂
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Cracking up
🥴🤣😂
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴
Yes but when you’re around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but it’d be Close.
Plus, it’s still like high school. People are always up in everyone else’s business, no matter what age you are. Some people can’t help themselves and want to gossip and stir shit!
Yes people need to get a life lol ... 🙄
Dxp isn’t confession booth where everything promises to stay private and non judged...and even there its not guarantee...
HERE people willingly post shit and thus they deserve blow in the head...ridiculing...ass slapping...insult...stupid shit from stupid people...and THEN AFTER MAYBE a sound advise they came for on a first place.
Some get ignored and upset.
Some get attention and get upset.
All unhappy asses - ITS FREE FORUM where NOBODY owes you an ass kissing. Ass kicking - yes but some don’t even get to that level.
And if your post sits without attention - you probably a real life loser. But you most likely don’t want to hear that.
Wait...what was that all about? I am not awake yet...and I am one hug short...🙄
Yes you need more hugs 🤗 🤗 🤗
Time to call in the reserves!
🥴
LOL
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Back up!
One in the wash
One in the wear
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I didn't read anything but the age difference. I have hope for the future.
Make sure you have see trough night gown:..and future will be amazing! 💃 👶
What do you think?
That’s my jam there!
I don’t think she checks it, I do have the subscription but I’m not sure if my private browsing was enabled
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I’ve been coming and going here over the years. Anyway, there’s a gorgeous mature woman, I’ve recently started to notice her as she started to dress a bit provocatively in short skirts and with cleavage, and this morning I saw her at 7am in her thin night gown when I met her face to face as she was coming from laundry.
I want to approach her but our encounters are very rare and I started working now so they will be even fewer..
How do I approach her? I can’t just knock on her door, if I see her again I’ll joke that we go to the beach together, but I wanted to expedite this by putting a letter or a note in her door, ringing the bell and running away or just leaving the note for her to discover whenever she comes home or leaves home.
Any thoughts on this? How would you react if you got a note saying something like “I really like you please text me ###-###-####” or “hey let’s go to the beach together ###”
The issue is that my parents live in the same building, so if she gives me a hard no i can’t have her go to my parents or something.. I’m 28 and she’s in her 50s I think or late 40s I can’t tell.