
Damnata
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Posted by SensitiveBluesI was away when you made that whole topic, managed to read just the OP and some replies.
why are virgos so easily embarrassed, the virgo told me i embarrassed him and made him look bad, because i went to his house...social acceptability that his brother judged me for it and what i said to him...
that's a real stretch you know...there's so many ways to embarrass someone...i wouldn't think that would be it.

Posted by SensitiveBluesYou have to take into consideration that we have long fuses so it is possibly it built up over time and it just exploded in anger over this one event. Not discounting the other person idea.Posted by Damnataya but there was alot of heat, he was furious...but ya i see what your'e saying.Posted by SensitiveBluesI was away when you made that whole topic, managed to read just the OP and some replies.
why are virgos so easily embarrassed, the virgo told me i embarrassed him and made him look bad, because i went to his house...social acceptability that his brother judged me for it and what i said to him...
that's a real stretch you know...there's so many ways to embarrass someone...i wouldn't think that would be it.
I would say it wasn't embarassment at all at that point, wanted a way out and whatever else would have happenes, it would be the same behavior from him.
im going to open up for you to read. you can pm me your thoughts.
for me it's like why didn't he say those things a year and half ago, why wait so long, i have a feeling there's someone else in the background and he used that as an excuse, its just all very weirdclick to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesYeah, this is truth sadly. I noticed it and always make a point to express things and stuff so i'm not on some one-sided quest. But I think it's the fire in my chart, not the Virgo Sun.Posted by Damnataright but talk about it. virgos expect you to behave in a certain way and if you don't fit that mold, its unacceptable...Posted by SensitiveBluesYou have to take into consideration that we have long fuses so it is possibly it built up over time and it just exploded in anger over this one event. Not discounting the other person idea.Posted by Damnataya but there was alot of heat, he was furious...but ya i see what your'e saying.Posted by SensitiveBluesI was away when you made that whole topic, managed to read just the OP and some replies.
why are virgos so easily embarrassed, the virgo told me i embarrassed him and made him look bad, because i went to his house...social acceptability that his brother judged me for it and what i said to him...
that's a real stretch you know...there's so many ways to embarrass someone...i wouldn't think that would be it.
I would say it wasn't embarassment at all at that point, wanted a way out and whatever else would have happenes, it would be the same behavior from him.
im going to open up for you to read. you can pm me your thoughts.
for me it's like why didn't he say those things a year and half ago, why wait so long, i have a feeling there's someone else in the background and he used that as an excuse, its just all very weird
I can't find the topic though, think it was on your other account.click to expand
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Since earth is what we all stand on, build with, draw sustenance from and in which we are inextricably rooted, it might be said that the element of earth in astrology is a symbol of the three-dimensional world of matter, the observable conjunction of space and time. Earth is real, earth is solid, earth is reliable and factual and present. And the earthy signs - Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn - possess, as their basic mode of experiencing life, an attentiveness to and a recognition of all that occupies the senses. Earth represents the reality function par excellence. Or, if we are to summarize all this, earth people are above all else realistic.
Now realism is a dangerously relative term to anybody but an earth sign. After all, there are lots of different kinds of realities. But an earth sign will tell you, 'That's all very well, but nevertheless, regardless of all your theories to the contrary, what I perceive is what I perceive, and therefore I will work with that and make something of it'. Earth is not interested in why, how, what might be, what was, what could be. It is interested in what works. Pragmatic to the end.
What is really important in studying astrology is not to catalogue behaviour traits, but to understand the real essence, the innermost motivation, and way of experiencing life that a sign - or a group of signs belonging to one element - share. Hence, if we catalogue the traits of Virgo, Taurus and Capricorn, they will not do justice to this fascinating, apparently simple, underrated and undervalued element. Probably fewer earth signs study astrology than any other group; I have found fewer Taureans and Capricorns in my classes than any other signs. Virgos tend to like the systematization, and therefore come because they find it useful. But the true earth personality has no time for abstruse cosmological speculations. He is much more interested in what is going on at this moment in this world, how to deal with it, how to master it, how to build security and safety in a chaotic cosmos, how to apply his skills to carve out for himself a life that is productive, useful and full.
Most textbook descriptions of the three earth signs share some common adjectives. For example: practical, efficient, full of common-sense, sensual, realistic, well-organized, fond of money and security and status. To a great extent this is true. In the sphere of reality - or what we consider to be really via the senses - the earth type excels.