Female vs Male of the same SIGN

I don’t remember ever talking about female bs male of the same sign.

I despise men of my sign. I think Gemini men are most ridiculous creation there is. They don’t have personality so they creating one and trying to perform spectacle they produced but it is coming out as good as school concert. They also acting without reason or purpose. Is there good pairing for them at all?

Then I read Aries female said she hates Aries male.

So I want to ask - does anybody has an info on why same sign opposite sex people are different to rejection of their own sign which SUPPOSED to have same characters and qualities, right or wrong?

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

I don’t have any bad feelings towards Gemini men.

I especially like those Gemini men with a lot of fire in their chart, such as myself.

They are funny, smart, cool.

As for dating, never dated one. I have a much younger Gemini m that I sometimes talk to, usually when I am extremely bored. He is a nerd and always asks me “am I attractive enough for you, am I your type” which is a turn off. But he is young and polite, so I go easy on him.

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the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

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Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

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He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

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Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

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i got married at nineteen when i didn't yet have a clear sense of who i really was so i ended up feeling trapped and confused....:/

i tried hard to be a reliable husband (making sure all the rent/bills were paid and going to school at the same time) i barely even saw my wife 'cause i wasn't at home most of the time and communication eventually became non-existent...i felt lonely....my mom was also drinking heavily around this time (relapsing) so i was dealing with that too...

my wife didn't do anything wrong...she didn't want the divorce...which made things gut-wrenching but it just felt like the relationship had ran its course and i was pretty much just there robotically...

nonetheless, it was 6 years of beautiful memories and valuable lessons and i'm so thankful that i got to share that period of my life with her....she still sends me birthday messages every now and then which is really sweet...😢

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Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

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aww you're one of my favorite posters here too. 😢

a few days ago, i saw you helping a wounded cat (on the home page comment section?) and i honestly thought that was the sweetest thing....😢 i really hope god sends you someone amazing who will bring so much love and peace into your life.♥

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Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

i got married at nineteen when i didn't yet have a clear sense of who i really was so i ended up feeling trapped and confused....:/

i tried hard to be a reliable husband (making sure all the rent/bills were paid and going to school at the same time) i barely even saw my wife 'cause i wasn't at home most of the time and communication eventually became non-existent...i felt lonely....my mom was also drinking heavily around this time (relapsing) so i was dealing with that too...

my wife didn't do anything wrong...she didn't want the divorce...which made things gut-wrenching but it just felt like the relationship had ran its course and i was pretty much just there robotically...

nonetheless, it was 6 years of beautiful memories and valuable lessons and i'm so thankful that i got to share that period of my life with her....she still sends me birthday messages every now and then which is really sweet...😢

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You sound lovely

❤️

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Posted by serenidad

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

i got married at nineteen when i didn't yet have a clear sense of who i really was so i ended up feeling trapped and confused....:/

i tried hard to be a reliable husband (making sure all the rent/bills were paid and going to school at the same time) i barely even saw my wife 'cause i wasn't at home most of the time and communication eventually became non-existent...i felt lonely....my mom was also drinking heavily around this time (relapsing) so i was dealing with that too...

my wife didn't do anything wrong...she didn't want the divorce...which made things gut-wrenching but it just felt like the relationship had ran its course and i was pretty much just there robotically...

nonetheless, it was 6 years of beautiful memories and valuable lessons and i'm so thankful that i got to share that period of my life with her....she still sends me birthday messages every now and then which is really sweet...😢

You sound lovely

❤️

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♥

my other favorite poster...😳

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Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

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Vey! I didn’t hear THAT story…

I just KNEW that men don’t just leave.

I posted and then hid my question after I saw your explanation.

Man or woman - men leave when someone else is igniting their pilot…

Just curious what’s other partners sign. ❤️

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Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

aww you're one of my favorite posters here too. 😢

a few days ago, i saw you helping a wounded cat (on the home page comment section?) and i honestly thought that was the sweetest thing....😢 i really hope god sends you someone amazing who will bring so much love and peace into your life.♥

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Thank you sweetheart 😻

I appreciate your kind words!

You are always refreshing to read on dxp 🙏

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Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

i got married at nineteen when i didn't yet have a clear sense of who i really was so i ended up feeling trapped and confused....:/

i tried hard to be a reliable husband (making sure all the rent/bills were paid and going to school at the same time) i barely even saw my wife 'cause i wasn't at home most of the time and communication eventually became non-existent...i felt lonely....my mom was also drinking heavily around this time (relapsing) so i was dealing with that too...

my wife didn't do anything wrong...she didn't want the divorce...which made things gut-wrenching but it just felt like the relationship had ran its course and i was pretty much just there robotically...

nonetheless, it was 6 years of beautiful memories and valuable lessons and i'm so thankful that i got to share that period of my life with her....she still sends me birthday messages every now and then which is really sweet...😢

You sound lovely

❤️

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Aries men can be soooooo adorable!!!!! 😍😍😍

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by serenidad

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

i got married at nineteen when i didn't yet have a clear sense of who i really was so i ended up feeling trapped and confused....:/

i tried hard to be a reliable husband (making sure all the rent/bills were paid and going to school at the same time) i barely even saw my wife 'cause i wasn't at home most of the time and communication eventually became non-existent...i felt lonely....my mom was also drinking heavily around this time (relapsing) so i was dealing with that too...

my wife didn't do anything wrong...she didn't want the divorce...which made things gut-wrenching but it just felt like the relationship had ran its course and i was pretty much just there robotically...

nonetheless, it was 6 years of beautiful memories and valuable lessons and i'm so thankful that i got to share that period of my life with her....she still sends me birthday messages every now and then which is really sweet...😢

You sound lovely

❤️

Aries men can be soooooo adorable!!!!! 😍😍😍

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He is 😘

Would like to know his chart 😃

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the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

Vey! I didn’t hear THAT story…

I just KNEW that men don’t just leave.

I posted and then hid my question after I saw your explanation.

Man or woman - men leave when someone else is igniting their pilot…

Just curious what’s other partners sign. ❤️

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you're right....men don't just leave....for me, it was a well-thought out decision....😢

my biggest lesson at the time was that you hurt many people when you do not truly know yourself and what you want....

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Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

Vey! I didn’t hear THAT story…

I just KNEW that men don’t just leave.

I posted and then hid my question after I saw your explanation.

Man or woman - men leave when someone else is igniting their pilot…

Just curious what’s other partners sign. ❤️

you're right....men don't just leave....for me, it was a well-thought out decision....😢

my biggest lesson at the time was that you hurt many people when you do not truly know yourself and what you want....

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Can’t be good all the time or you’ll be Saint or some sort.

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

Vey! I didn’t hear THAT story…

I just KNEW that men don’t just leave.

I posted and then hid my question after I saw your explanation.

Man or woman - men leave when someone else is igniting their pilot…

Just curious what’s other partners sign. ❤️

you're right....men don't just leave....for me, it was a well-thought out decision....😢

my biggest lesson at the time was that you hurt many people when you do not truly know yourself and what you want....

Can’t be good all the time or you’ll be Saint or some sort.

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it's impossible to be a saint but you also don't want to create too many victims around you while you're soul-searching/ figuring things out...that's what i meant....

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Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by GemiMay

Posted by serenidad

the "trying to perform spectacle they produced" comment cracked me up 'cause i just got off the phone with a gemini guy (client) and he said "you gotta have more than a couple of personalities to get through life in one piece." lol he was saying that he wears many masks in order to protect his heart (which he described as pretty fragile and prone to worrying a lot). i felt like it made sense. he also told me the reason he built his own business was because he didn't want his life to be in anyone else's hands. he said being a worrywart actually made him more independent and not afraid to take risks to carve out his own path in life....interesting guy.

sorry for derailing a bit....lol

as for your question, i don't have any ill feelings towards my own sign. i was married to an aries girl before (got married super young haha)....our marriage only ended 'cause i wanted out for reasons that had nothing to do with her....i still to this day don't have a single bad thing to say about her....nothing but appreciation and love for her and just constantly wishing her the best.

i think the people who say stuff like, "i can't date my own sign" are probably into people who are *different* from them.

they probably think someone of their own sign carries all the bad traits that they kinda recognize within themselves or don't like within themselves....? or maybe they just want someone completely different from them. i'm not sure lol

Soooo interesting! And I appreciate the Gem guy story. I think you 100% in point about fragile ass ego and scared to be hurt.

See that’s why I disagree with last sentence. I am not afraid to get hurt. I don’t want to but if I was - I’ll live trough it. I guess Gem men lack of that masculine e ergo that women have. It’s debatable and strange but we had never discussed that (not on my watch) these differences.

My Aries was married an Aries woman and I am sure they would be together IF she wasn’t mentally I’ll and refused to take her meds. He didn’t have particular warm and fuzzy feelings toward her (he says) but it wasn’t a bad marriage and having a son together - he would stay. That’s for sure.

I would LOVE to hear what makes you leave your Aries because you may be the ONLY case if ‘it’s not you it’s me’ that is REAL and TRUE! Please tell. If you can’t - pm me. I am dying to know for my own purposes.

I guess we can have mighty discussion here ABOUT our sign other sex. 💪👏🕺💃

He left his Aries woman for a man. And he is very open about it.

He is also one of my favorite male posters here. If I could get him to leave his man for me, I’d totally date him!!! 🙈 ☺️ ❤️‍🔥

Vey! I didn’t hear THAT story…

I just KNEW that men don’t just leave.

I posted and then hid my question after I saw your explanation.

Man or woman - men leave when someone else is igniting their pilot…

Just curious what’s other partners sign. ❤️

you're right....men don't just leave....for me, it was a well-thought out decision....😢

my biggest lesson at the time was that you hurt many people when you do not truly know yourself and what you want....

Can’t be good all the time or you’ll be Saint or some sort.

it's impossible to be a saint but you also don't want to create too many victims around you while you're soul-searching/ figuring things out...that's what i meant....

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Let them worry about themselves. You can’t be responsible for every overly sensitive ass who can’t take rejection or whatever it is.

Everybody needs to toughen up and stop smearing snot and tears over their faces every time they lose what they wanted. Everybody gonna LIVE! 💪