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Gemini man losing interest or just needs time?
Why a Gemini Man Might Lose Interest or Need Time
A Gemini man may lose interest or need time due to miscommunication or feeling overwhelmed. If he is genuinely interested, he will likely return after some space. Understanding his need for mental stimulation and independence is key to maintaining the connection.
If he's interested, he won't leave you alone.
When Geminis are not interested, you'll never hear from them. Personally, I don't think you did anything wrong, but it may be a good idea to ✂ cut this off and move on.
^^^^THIS^^^
When they want you you don't have to look for them - they come after you. Similar to Aries chase except they don't get tired after they get you. They know what they want.
Why do you have to wait on him to text first? Reach out and say hi. Y’all sucked face but can’t text him? Just balls up and say hi how you been stranger.
Keep it light and fun.
He texted after a few hours and you responded with a criticism.
He hasn't texted in 48 hours and you are ready to call it quits?
You sound like hard work after only 1 date.
Just chill out. If you want to text him do but yes, keep it light.
...A few hours after the date he texted and asked how I was, I replied and said 'I honestly wished you'd text soon' which might have triggered this weird cold attitude(?). He texted back that he tries not to be that kind of bloke who texts soon and left me on read soon after. It's almost been two days now and I don't think he's going to text soon based on our last texts, should I move on?? ...
"Move on" from what exactly? You're not together. It was one date. Continue to date/see/chat with other men and if he pops back up and you have time, entertain him. if not, your mind and energy has been placed elsewhere...
Sounds like you're already putting all your egg in once basket based on one short walk in the rain and a kiss. Don't.
The Gemini man with Taurus venus I'm getting to know moves slow, but maybe it's different from your situation..
Also, from what life taught me, when a relationship moves too fast, you can lose it as fast
From day 1, you both rushed into things.. any relationship takes time to develop and unfold into something real, ain't a game.. this is my opinion anyway
I just met three weeks ago a Gemini. He’s been in contact daily been out twice. I guess if you don’t expect anything it’s good to hear when they text. No expectations out of this.
Will he tex today who knows but the energy of expectation is not there n men can sense
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Probably your choice of wording, could’ve said something like “I was just thinking about you” instead of making him hold accountability for his texting patterns, but if he likes you he will be back.