If a Gemini man cheats on you does it mean he doesn’t love anymore?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Purpleaqua01 on Tuesday, December 10, 2019 and has 29 replies.

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@Purpleaqua01
7 Years

Or any sign for that matter. Me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years have been going through it and I just found out he cheated on me lol. He was at a strip club where most of the dancers are friends of mines. He’s not supposed to be in there period because I know when he’s drunk he doesn’t gaf. So he meets a girl, they end up having a threesome and the girls rob his ass out of 10,000. If you know my past stories you know my man is a major trick lmao. So next, he blows another bag on the b* and fucks her AGAIN this time one on one. How do I know all of this? Because the girl is actually my homie. She saw him creeping on my page from a fake account, she asked him if he knew me and that she could put him down with me. She said he looked like he saw a ghost. But still, after him finding out that I’m friends with the girl he still fucks right afterwards lmao. So I haven’t been having sex w him in the last 2 months. because of all the fighting. He literally begs me for sex and sometimes I give in but not often. I knew he was cheating, I just didn’t know he do it with someone I know 😢 so during the time he was dealing with her me and him were very unhappy with each other and even went a week without talking. So my homegirl put 2 & 2 together because she asked him after the second time he had sex w her if he knew me, so my man changed his number all together and comes running back to me like the dog he is. So I’m like now what. He got caught and it’s not often a Gemini keeps it real so he’s pissed. The only reason my homegirl told me about it is because she really wanted to keep getting money off of him and he kept it pushin. My thing is I do love this man dearly. I need a reality check. I don’t think he really loves me. How could he have sex w her knowing she’s a friend. Now that I know he’s extremely remorseful. He gave me 10,000 as a gift, he’s crying saying he’s never going to hurt me this way again. So my question is could a man do this to a woman he truly loves. We’ve been talking about getting married and he begs me to have his baby. Do Gemini’s just keep a girl around til he finds better? I’m so confused and I feel like I’m going crazy.

And this post is not for any judgmental miserable ppl either state your opinion on the situation or keep it pushing.

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@Gemitati
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

"But still, after him finding out that I’m friends with the girl he still treetrunks right afterwards lmao" btw are you calling that a friend? 🤣

Your brain needs a whole reset.

It seems like where she is from - it’s a custom.

Men shortage maybe? She sounds strangely aloof about all of this and not suffering at all as long as he is there...yelling at her...🤷‍♀️

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@sweetpea2977
7 Years1,000+ Posts

You don't want anyone to judge this 💩 show your invested in?

You have yourself a real nasty prize. Including this so called "friend" you have. Y'all are all toxic in an unsettling kinda way. SMH @ true f**kery SUCH AS THIS 😒

Do better. Period.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by Purpleaqua01

So he meets a girl, they end up having a threesome and the girls rob his ass out of 10,000. If you know my past stories you know my man is a major trick lmao. So next, he blows another bag on the b* and fucks her AGAIN this time one on one.

Once a trick ALWAYS a trick.

In your heart of hearts you know this.

How is he gonna claim he was robbed when he turned around and gave her more money right after??! You should be more mad that he thinks he can trick you with these bs stories than the actual cheating itself.

He is playing you for a fool.

Your giving him your pussy for free when the only language a trick understands is the transaction.

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Purpleaqua01

So he meets a girl, they end up having a threesome and the girls rob his ass out of 10,000. If you know my past stories you know my man is a major trick lmao. So next, he blows another bag on the b* and fucks her AGAIN this time one on one.

Your giving him your pussy for free when the only language a trick understands is the transaction.

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typical Neptune shade.....I've missed this lol

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@Purpleaqua01
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

"But still, after him finding out that I’m friends with the girl he still treetrunks right afterwards lmao" btw are you calling that a friend? 🤣

Your brain needs a whole reset.

She didn’t know until I told her.

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@Purpleaqua01
7 Years

Posted by 7thHouse
Posted by Purpleaqua01

Or any sign for that matter. Me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years have been going through it and I just found out he cheated on me lol. He was at a strip club where most of the dancers are friends of mines. He’s not supposed to be in there period because I know when he’s drunk he doesn’t gaf. So he meets a girl, they end up having a threesome and the girls rob his ass out of 10,000. If you know my past stories you know my man is a major trick lmao. So next, he blows another bag on the b* and fucks her AGAIN this time one on one. How do I know all of this? Because the girl is actually my homie. She saw him creeping on my page from a fake account, she asked him if he knew me and that she could put him down with me. She said he looked like he saw a ghost. But still, after him finding out that I’m friends with the girl he still fucks right afterwards lmao. So I haven’t been having sex w him in the last 2 months. because of all the fighting. He literally begs me for sex and sometimes I give in but not often. I knew he was cheating, I just didn’t know he do it with someone I know 😢 so during the time he was dealing with her me and him were very unhappy with each other and even went a week without talking. So my homegirl put 2 & 2 together because she asked him after the second time he had sex w her if he knew me, so my man changed his number all together and comes running back to me like the dog he is. So I’m like now what. He got caught and it’s not often a Gemini keeps it real so he’s pissed. The only reason my homegirl told me about it is because she really wanted to keep getting money off of him and he kept it pushin. My thing is I do love this man dearly. I need a reality check. I don’t think he really loves me. How could he have sex w her knowing she’s a friend. Now that I know he’s extremely remorseful. He gave me 10,000 as a gift, he’s crying saying he’s never going to hurt me this way again. So my question is could a man do this to a woman he truly loves. We’ve been talking about getting married and he begs me to have his baby. Do Gemini’s just keep a girl around til he finds better? I’m so confused and I feel like I’m going crazy.

And this post is not for any judgmental miserable ppl either state your opinion on the situation or keep it pushing.

Girl.... What are u doing hanging out with these people? Whatever his sign is, I'd dump his ass. And the girl that he slept with... Good lord. If I were you, I'd move on. Its just not right for u. Please. Don't waste ur time with a man like that. Also, knowing some Geminis, I know they can be loyalAF when they meet the one. Since he wasn't it goes to show you're not his one.... 😢

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He used to be. I moved away, and dated someone new. Then we got back together & I stopped having sex with him...

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@Purpleaqua01
7 Years

Posted by nanorobot

I've been following this alleged trainwreck relationship for years on the gem board, since the beginning when she posted about her gold digging stripper days

The first post or one of the first posts, was about her being mad that he wouldn't take her on an elaborate vacation and pay for it. Then it became more wild each time. One time she was pregnant, one time he bought her a car and then cheated, etc etc 😆😆😆

We come from different worlds baby. Don’t judge. Peace & love

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@Purpleaqua01
7 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Purpleaqua01

So he meets a girl, they end up having a threesome and the girls rob his ass out of 10,000. If you know my past stories you know my man is a major trick lmao. So next, he blows another bag on the b* and fucks her AGAIN this time one on one.

Once a trick ALWAYS a trick.

In your heart of hearts you know this.

How is he gonna claim he was robbed when he turned around and gave her more money right after??! You should be more mad that he thinks he can trick you with these bs stories than the actual cheating itself.

He is playing you for a fool.

Your giving him your pussy for free when the only language a trick understands is the transaction.

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Facts. Meanwhile I’ve been trying my HARDEST to be independent, and struggling lmao. He gave me 10,000 for feeling bad and he swears he’s not going anywhere. Just trying to decide if I should cut him off and hurt him like he hurt me or milk his ass til he ain’t got shit left

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@Purpleaqua01
7 Years

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus

You idiots have $ 10,000 to throw around? Stop the world. I want off.

It didn’t say $ $ $ . It might be rupees which is $ 10 I think...🧐

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Nah it’s $ 10,000 bitch, don’t be mad your trash p* isn’t worth more than a meal from McDonald’s lmao

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@Purpleaqua01
7 Years

Posted by Vicktoria
Posted by Purpleaqua01 He gave me 10,000 as a gift, he’s crying saying he’s never going to hurt me this way again. So my question is could a man do this to a woman he truly loves. We’ve been talking about getting married and he begs me to have his baby.

You need to kick your fake ho homies and fake ho boyfriend to the curb, but I guess you're having second thoughts because he gave you $ 10,000 LMAO. #airsign

Do you have a Cap moon?

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Cap mar $ . Well if your man cheated and gave you $ 10,000 you wouldn’t accept it?! Some of y’all are cappin so hard lmao. Are you mad cause it’s never happened to you ? Obviously if it was just about the money with him I wouldn’t be in my feelings enough to ask strangers online if he actually loves me 😆. It’s OK to put allow your one sided mind to think outside of your world. If you can’t even do that why tf be on an advice blog. But I’m the dumb one.

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@Jumpin_Jupiter
7 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by stope

Hes got money. Loads of it. Sounds like the reason you stick around, no?

In this case it isn't love. As the thread title stated. Most women sticks around men because of his money. This is mostly companionship. At least until he go broke. For the same exact reason Scorpio women still sticks around me.

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@sweetpea2977
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Purpleaqua01

A lotta of ppl in their feelings about this one.. damn I thought y’all liked my crazy stories ? Lmao

So...you have no dignity?

No self respect?

No standards?

Your LYAO but the joke is actually on you.

You say "people are in their feelings". Apparently you are too hence this post.

You never knew that stupidity can piss others off? LMAO!

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@NostalgicCappyy
8 Years

I would look at the $ 10,000 as a material return, on the investments of your time, energy, feelings, etc. he cheated on you, fuck him.

Then, I would emotionally detach from him, and start looking elsewhere for a real connection, and someone who really will love you and be loyal.

Drop his ass, and don’t look back.

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Posted by Purpleaqua01
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Purpleaqua01

So he meets a girl, they end up having a threesome and the girls rob his ass out of 10,000. If you know my past stories you know my man is a major trick lmao. So next, he blows another bag on the b* and fucks her AGAIN this time one on one.

Once a trick ALWAYS a trick.

In your heart of hearts you know this.

How is he gonna claim he was robbed when he turned around and gave her more money right after??! You should be more mad that he thinks he can trick you with these bs stories than the actual cheating itself.

He is playing you for a fool.

Your giving him your pussy for free when the only language a trick understands is the transaction.

Facts. Meanwhile I’ve been trying my HARDEST to be independent, and struggling lmao. He gave me 10,000 for feeling bad and he swears he’s not going anywhere. Just trying to decide if I should cut him off and hurt him like he hurt me or milk his ass til he ain’t got shit left

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My vote goes to milk his ass.

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10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by sweetpea2977
Posted by Purpleaqua01

A lotta of ppl in their feelings about this one.. damn I thought y’all liked my crazy stories ? Lmao

So...you have no dignity?

No self respect?

No standards?

Your LYAO but the joke is actually on you.

You say "people are in their feelings". Apparently you are too hence this post.

You never knew that stupidity can piss others off? LMAO!

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She's a cuckquean. Let her be a cuck.