WHY IS EVERYONE JEALOUS OF THE GEMINI?

female
"It really gets on my nerves cause we are adults, not kids in middle school or highschool.
And that irritates me the most... high school sucked for me because of this and now when I thought it was over it resurfaces worse than ever."

Everyone has their own problems and struggles. Likely they are doing what they are doing because they are hurt and insecure. Understanding others, appreciating their struggles and dealing with these problems is what Janet's book is about.
But you see what I mean. Problems resurface sooner or later.

"But whatever, it's pretty much over now and I am glad for that."

Good for you, a rest period. It's your chance to recoup. Ah, life is good.

About the lyrics you've decided to settle upon, you are expressing yourself but it is still an indirect route so they are not likely to confront anything. They are likely to dismiss it all as "he has problems/he's an emo/that sounds gay/he has bad taste in music" or "ooh I like that song!" But who cares what they think? Contrary to what most people do think, their lives don't depend on what others think.
female
"I'm too grateful for everyday I am educated, loved, and cared for to give way to something so petty like criticisms from someone who barely met my eyes."

Sometimes that's how it goes. We live in a world where too much weight is given to the approval of others. Your parents, your grandparents, your teacher, your boss, your siblings, your friends, your lover. Your emotional mind is going "I already know this about me." Your logical mind is always questioning it, simply because it cannot comprehend the place of 'knowing.' "HOW do you know? How can you say this when they say this?" Then the emotional mind starts to get worried/depressed/angry depending on which one the person chooses.

The point was my standing up for what I believed in. If I walked away that would be just what they wanted. They would say straight out "shut up" or "stop posting" along with whatever other sorry crap they could call me or throw at me. Instead I chose to endure whatever storm came my way head on and it ended up being a strengthening session. Your boxer may hit you, but he makes you better. (Only boxers try to make you better, nasty internet rats don't.) And that little thing about my voice... I still got it! ; D
What possible damage could little rats do unless you let them? In other words their attempts were short lived. Storms and hurricanes don't look so bad from far away. But when you're right up in them, you're just thinking "is this the end?"

Good for you, more should be grateful for the positivity life has to offer and what they have than complain about the negative things because it repels the positive and attracts more of the negative. I too have a love for life. And to attain this love you don't even need to go hiking or gaze at the canyon sunset. It's much like appreciation and finding things instead of waiting for them to arrive at your doorstep. I found my zest simply thinking about life. Simple as that. Because the more you really think about it the more you realize how wonderful it is.
33 years old male
"Gemini. Now you see me, now you dont. Beware; I... forget."
oh crap. i totally forgot to post it here!
lol
34 years old female from New York, USA
"Born March 18, 1983 Sun Pisces Moon Taurus Mercury Pisces Venus Aries
If Geminis were deep, and stable in all aspects of life then I'd be jealous of them lol. Therefore, I have nothing to be jealous about.

By the way, Happy Holidays guys!
I can so relate to this gemini jealousy thing. I am a singer/songwriter and there are so many people that I have run into over the years that just don't seem to know what to make of me. Being an attractive female who is an intelligent, confident and witty gemini just adds fuel to the fire of so many talent-less, uncharismatic people that I have run into (mostly female). I get along with most everybody and I am friendly and generous but I don't always understand the hostility. Do they just need to get a life? I've even had problems with church musicians and singers being jealous. What the????
female
"Being an attractive female who is an intelligent, confident and witty gemini just adds fuel to the fire of so many talent-less, uncharismatic people that I have run into (mostly female)"

Of course, that's how it goes. Well not really, we as humans, and I think especially girls increasingly are basically raised with the competitive mindset. Instead of being friendly towards one another, they are increasingly gossipy (hint.) That's why the girls will more often see persons with really admirable traits as nasty when they're the ones who are being nasty, but the guys won't likely see you as competition.

Because the guys just keep in mind they can get a piece of ya'

And obviously if you're a guy others (guys) will turn stupidly competitive and petty with you.

My sister gets the jealousy thing a lot from girls also, but she's the feminine side of the intelligent planet Mercury: virgo. But I tell her, the world reflects back to you what you have inside and what you want to create. So whether she's aware of it or not, she must also have easy jealousy somewhere in her mass matrix (as we all do but some more than others) even if it hadn't the opportunity to much express itself - because she's usually the admirable one and the one others are jealous of.

And the music business (absolute shame) has become corrupt like many-a-industry. Hopefully you can be a part of bettering it. Good luck and wisdom to your life choices!

Merry New Year peeps! You're in for a ride!
28 years old male from England
most people are jelous of scorpio girls, there sexy confident secretive and mysterious.
female
People are often jealous of happiness, or anything that might connect to that or they think might make THEM happy.

The Scorpion is way more moody than the easy going Gemini who bounces around making friends-a-many.

But true, the scorpion is easier to spite and true, confidence is a guard against one's own misery.

And all women could be sexy - besides there's different kinds of sexy, one of them being the typical media example.

Good day, my fellow signs.
I always wonder why i never had problems getting dates or making friend....i just figured i was a lucky guy...but one day a women told me that a could attribute all my success to being a Gemini,and not just any Gemini, a Gemini that was born during a cusps.... hence my name cusp of energy...So i went on living and i i grew up i notice that most of the Geminis i came a cross were successful ,good looking and basically everything everyone wants to be.....But i never seen anybody jealous of me.....i have know people to admire me for my intellectual,social, and creative skills...and i never had anyone say that i am ugly.....i also do well in sports and pretty much anything i do...I mean its not everyday you meet a person that can adapt well to every and any situation they come across...Its almost surreal....I could see why people would get jealous but i don't see the point in it...But with anything that's good there is always bound to be something bad connected to it.... us Geminis are a Lil bit self-involved...I mean just look at me type on and on and on about how i could do this and how i could do that lol..... but that doesn't necessarily make us conceited....we just like to share our success even if it does sound like we are rubbing it in your face....Ohhh and being humble is a foreign concept to us.....but in our defense being humble is not a very good trait...i mean do u think tupac and biggie would of been as big as they were if they were to say "were OK rappers"..... Hell NOOOOOOOO people followed them because they were the butter and they didn't hesitate to let everyone know that....Nevertheless Geminis get a lot of bad rep.....for being two faced...unfaithful....flirtatious blah blah blah the list goes on ....but we also get the most attention so i dunno I figure its a sweet and sour kind of thing....but it works for me so all in all i love being a Gemini and as i do my Gemini things i know this is exactly were and who i want be....much love to ma Geminis and every other sign out there
Hola! Chingas tu madre, chiquita?
58 years old female
Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
::: shakes head :::


female
Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
"IM 21 YEAR OLD GEMINI MALE, AND LET ME TELL U IT AINT EASY BEING ME. PEOPLE LIKE TO SAY WE TALK THE TALK, BUT WE ARE HATED ON BECAUSE WE ALSO WALK THE WALK. I CHARM EVERY TYPE OF WOMAN, THE WHOLE FREAKIN ZODIAC. I DONT CARE WHAT SIGN U ARE, BUT IF I HAD TO DISLIKE ONE IT WOULD BE PISCES. AND U ARIES, STOP BEING COMPETITIVE. DONT U KNOW U CANT EVER BEAT A GEMINI AT ANYTHING? WE ARE STRONG, VERY VIRILE, PASSIONATE, AND WELL DUMP YO ASS IN A SPLIT SECOND IF WE DONT LIKE U. KEEP ON PIMPIN GEMINIS DONT LET THEM HATE ON US CUZ WE RUN IT.
B-DAY 6-8-80"

Now, see you messed up when you said EVERYONE hates on you because if I'm not mistaken I don't believe ever hating on a Gemini & especially not you. There are haters for every sign & if you don't believe me just take a look at all the other boards. Trust me, the world will NOT stop spinning if Geminis stop being born. I'm almost 100% certain of that. I don't envy any Geminis because everything that a Gemini has, I can either have for myself, I've already got it OR I just simply don't want it. Maybe the problem is that Geminis get big heads because of the few hearts they broke & they assume that just because some women or men were too vulnerable & weak enough to get stepped on, that that makes you guys WARRIORS. It's always easy to break something or someone who is vulnerable, weak or is not emotionally mature enough to have self respect. There's no victory in that when a dog fights a cat. Lets see 2 pits fight & then if you win the fight, call yourself a warrior. But come on now, the reason you keep going after weak women & keep having the abilities to ruin the hearts of others is because you seek only those who will allow you to do that. So what does that say about you? That's not hating. I would say that to anyone, regardless of your sign.
female
Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
I can say Aquarians run this too. Does that spell out that I'm hating on Geminis? No. I'm sure anyone from any sign can brag about their sign all day. But at the end of the day, you say you not only talk the talk but you ALSO walk the walk. But so far, all you've done is TALK. You're a 21 year old man who is writing on the internet so where's the "walk?" Let others be the judge of how smooth & wonderful beings Geminis are. After all, if you keep defining yourself (and when the minute someone defines you differently than you thought, you call them haters) then you wouldn't need to constantly seek the attention or time of others. After all, you run the show right? Ha.
58 years old female
Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
Extremely egotistical.
female
Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
Regardless of his age, immaturity knowns no certain age. Ignorance & arrogance is not determined by a number. It'll be even more SAD if this guy still thinks this way. And hey, this post might've been created 7 years ago but all that matters is that people are STILL commenting on it so I did too. And the point of my post/reply wasn't to stress his age, because there was a bigger picture. The examples & viewpoints that I gave in my reply apply to any man of any age & the same for women vice versa & to anyone of any sign.

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