A lill advice on mental stimulation per favore!

So lovely gem ladies....

I have fallen for a gem woman ' s mind...I wanna take her out on a date. She is a typical gem , varied interests in everything...I have venus in gem myself so no problem in flirting with her. But my question is what kinda conversations will turn your minds on—

I consider myself a good conversationalist... But I don't wanna mess up my chances with her and so a lill advice will be great. I wanna seduce her mind.

Posted by krebbsmann
So lovely gem ladies....

I have fallen for a gem woman ' s mind...I wanna take her out on a date. She is a typical gem , varied interests in everything...I have venus in gem myself so no problem in flirting with her. But my question is what kinda conversations will turn your minds on—

I consider myself a good conversationalist... But I don't wanna mess up my chances with her and so a lill advice will be great. I wanna seduce her mind.

I always like talking about the future or the past. What has been and what things will be like. I love the depths of the ocean or other things unknown. Just keep the conversation going and don't let her do all the talking. Fill all spaces with your opinions of things

She likes to talk about politics... Which I don't have much interest in. I will take your cue though. How would you like your first date to be? I would like a coffee and some conversation...short date. Any suggestions?

I used to talk about politics with my aqua ex alot.. if you're not into (heavy) politics then probably current events will do.. anything new is good..the newer, the better..which means she has not heard of it yet..because a typical gem loves to learn..a life time student

as for a first date..for me, I like something unpredictable..coffee sounds a bit boring as a place itself..but the other party is a good & interesting conversationalist..then it will suffice
I liked one date which I had with one aqua (not my ex) .. started at a cafe, but shortly after we moved to a small restaurant..had a quick dinner (nothing so fancy as it was just a first date) .. then went to have some lovely cocktails.. all happened in about 4-5 hours time frame..with lots of conversations at those places & on the way from one place to another 🙂 I loved the variety of it, whilst it wasn't so heavy .. keep things light yet quick witted & minded.. and be direct.. express verbally .. words & communication mean really alot (I'd say 'almost everything' lol) to a typical gem.. no silence.. keep the conversation going.. if you don't know about the topic then just let her speak her mind.. as typical gems love to express (& exchange) their ideas
to me.. silence = boredom (I know there are folks who feel more at ease when things are not moving too fast or silence exists here & there.. but as far as I know & with gems I have known.. none of them loved prolonged silence or indirect approaches)

good luck with your date! 🙂

Thank you xixii I ll keep that in mind...

Hi Krebbsman! Hey, I've got venus in gemini too & my last relationship, a very long term one, was with a gemini man. Definitely bring your convo skills to the date. Charm her with your wit. Laugh at her jokes, even if they aren't funny. That matters a lot to gemini. This isn't the easiest combination but I absolutely love gemini and think with love and respect any combo can work. Geminis will be fun and help drag you outta your mopey shell. We need their laughter & lightheartedness. Having venus in gemini means you are attracted by gemini. Drawn to them. I had my natal chart read by a professional astrologer who said my ideal zodiac combo might be gemini (I also have my sun in the 3rd house) or pisces, I have Neptune on the cusp of my 7th house. Been very true in my case. BEST OF LUCK on the date! Keep it witty & the convo flowing! And of course, compliment her on her shoes. 🙂

And I love that you've fallen in love with her MIND. Hot stuff there! If things solidify btwn you 2, you gotta share that nuggie with her! Fingers crossed!!!

thanks..i will :p

but gems are a bit flighty so i m being patient....

Patience is a wonderful virtue that we appreciate! Be careful not to show too much attachment at first. We like to have an escape route, and someone who gives us one has the best chance of keeping us. It's ironic.

Tell us how it goes!! 🙂

Gemini's are curious by nature, be yourself and talk about things that interest you, this will make her feel like you have common interests. Hopefully your interests will intrigue her and make her come back for more, get her thinking.

Lol Krebsmann...

thank you ladies...

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So what happened with this Gemini?

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